Don’t agree with this. Your trusted friends & chosen family should absolutely be a safe place to vent to and run by situations to get a better perspective. A lot of BS thrives in silence in the name of “not airing dirty laundry”.
As someone with anxiety who’s been in a relationship with a woman who feels it’s okay to block me when we have disagreements. I can say there is nothing worse. It only added to my anxiety and prepared my mind and body to be shut out no matter if the situation was big or small.
Maybe it’s just me..but you all are unnecessarily vile to Jada Pinkett Smith. That woman has done nothing to deserve the vitriol she receives. Especially because at the end of the day it doesn’t affect none of y’all.
I think what is so tone deaf is that people make it seem like they would do anything different if they planned a trip with their friends. No one expects or looks for signs of being murdered while on vacation with people they know and trust without warning.
Shanquella Robinson trusting her “friends” is not the problem. Them killing her and stealing her money IS.
Stop victim blaming with the whole “watch out who you call your friend” comments. She did nothing wrong.
#JusticeForShanquellaRobinson
No one really talks about all the of communication and transparency that has to come when attempting to create a healthy relationship after cycles of unhealthy relationships/situationships.
My mom has made so much progress when it comes to re-learning me and reaffirming me as I am. She even asked me about my pronoun change and said “ regardless you’re my child and nothing will stop me from loving you” this comes after years of working through homophobia.
I’m Jay. lesbian.32 years old from Detroit but currently in Germany coaching basketball .I’m single and open to meeting cool ppl to text/FT while out the country
#twinder
Y’all really listening to the woman who married a rapist, then aided in the harassment of the same woman he assaulted. Y’all really have grits for brains
Being shut out becomes so normalized no matter if the reaction matches the violation. Because every situation to that person is met with emotional reactive reactions. Now you feel you gotta walk on eggshells bc the woman you date refuses to communicate the root of the issue.
Why don’t older lesbians get more pressure about dating women who are in their early twenties?? The fact that this dyke is an influencer probably makes it less likely that anyone will say something but still. It’s weird.
Keep all the mean shit somewhere else. I want my woman kind hearted, tender, and compassionate and my intent is to create space where she can be all those things without fear.
My type is a woman who is fine as hell, sweet as honey, a lil fiery, with a beautiful smile, tatted hopefully with a voice & aura that commands my attention.
You can switch people out like clockwork. But until you do the internal work your traumas, lack of accountability, and ego you’ll be facing the same issues no matter person or type of relationship.
A healthy relationship is WORK. I honestly see why people prefer to just do what they’ve always done. Because attempting to be in a healthy relationship takes intentionally working at it everyday. But it is worth it.
This whole fad of acting like everyone is replaceable is weird. You can absolutely be firm in your boundaries while simultaneously recognizing the loss you may experience from something not working out.
I deserve tenderness and to still be treated with love and compassion even in the moments when I’ve made mistakes, or had moments where I’ve disappointed someone I care for. My flaws will never make me incapable to be loved. I just hope to be loved through bc that is how I love.
I’m beyond blessed to say I’ve accepted a coaching position for a clube in Germany where I’ll be coaching women’s & men’s basketball 🇩🇪 I leave the country in less than 2 weeks