Yesterday I met with
@StrongJawSales
in downtown Austin.
He hired me to break his addictions and end self sabotage.
Now, he’s a better man. His mind is sharper. Relationship, stronger. And he’s pursuing his passion in life and business with ferocity.
I had the chance to
I was addicted to porn for 9 years.
When I say porn ruins young men's lives, I speak from experience.
This is what it did to my life:
(Porn addict physiognomy vs sober chad physiognomy, 4-year difference)
You always hear porn kills focus, energy, and motivation in men.
But do you know WHY?
Understand the science of porn use to reverse its negative effects:
Porn is an attack against men, women, and children.
Porn isn’t free because it costs men their souls.
Porn isn’t free because it costs women their lives.
Porn isn’t free because it costs children their innocence.
Testosterone levels have dropped 50% in the last two decades.
Do these 8 things to increase your testosterone like natural steroids :
1. Stop watching porn.
An entire generation has been conned into believing porn is “normal” and “healthy.”
That “everyone does it.”
These are the lies that fuel the porn industry’s $96 billion annual income.
Of course they want you to think it’s “fine” to watch.
I first saw porn at age 9.
By age 14 I watched porn every day.
It wasn't until age 16 that I realized porn was bad for me.
And I didn't take any action to quit until I was 17.
It controlled my life for a long time.
This happens because porn hijacks your subconscious mind.
Your perception is your reality.
The subconscious cannot tell the difference between watching porn and having sex.
This is why porn is so dangerous.
It’s programming men to be losers.
Porn hardwires your brain.
This neurochemical wiring leads to impulsive behavior the user fails to control.
As soon as they get an urge, they are helpless to it.
AKA porn addiction.
It gets so bad men will want porn over sex.
I first saw porn when I was 9 years old.
When I say porn is the most damaging thing a young man can be exposed to, I speak from experience.
This is what happened to me:
I had separation anxiety as a kid.
In high school I had social anxiety.
I was scared of what other people were thinking of me.
Especially women.
Ironically, I was obsessed with being as attractive as possible (and that's how I looked).
Porn is the leading cause of:
- Performance anxiety
- Approach anxiety
- Social anxiety
But tell me again how porn is “healthy.”
It is ruining the lives of men and we turn a blind eye.
Despicable.
Move on to phase 2.
What's phase 2?
Eat healthy. Maximize sun exposure. Lift weights. Fix your attachment. Build better relationships. Make your own money.
It took my 2 years to lay the foundation.
Now I am executing.
When you watch porn the lateral orbitofrontal cortex shuts off.
It's responsible for:
- Logical thinking
- Rational decision making
This is why it’s so hard to stop yourself.
Porn has a hold on your brain that won’t let you.
Porn is ruining the lives of men.
These are the 27 worst side effects of watching porn:
1. Your brain becomes wired to be more attracted to porn than real women.
But this is exactly what the powers at play want.
It used to be that a man’s sex drive led to the creation of families and society.
When channeled it was what made him strong.
Now it leads him to pornhub.
I first saw porn at 9 years old.
My entire life was consumed by porn.
When I say porn is ruining the lives of men, I speak from experience.
This is what happened to me:
Modern man is loveless.
So he made porn.
Modern man is adventureless.
So he made video games.
Modern man is passionless.
So he made Marvel movies.
If you want to break the curse of the modern man, do this:
I would freeze up whenever I talked to women.
And the circumstances had to be just right for me to approach them.
I was bad with women.
Yet a horrible simp for them.
All thanks to porn.
I’ve told you before: The only acceptable amount of porn is no porn.
Studies continue to show that I'm right.
Here are the findings from a German study about why you should never watch porn:
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Breaking free from an addiction is the tip of the iceberg.
It's the best change you can put yourself through.
If you want to improve yourself, quit porn, weed, nicotine, whatever it is.
And after you break free...
I first saw soft porn on a wallpaper app on an iPod touch.
I was 9 years old then.
By age 14 I watched porn every day. If not multiple times per day.
Age 16 I realized I had a problem.
At age 17 I tried to quit.
I let porn control my life for far too long.
But what people don't know...
I went straight from porn + nicotine
To nicotine + weed
And my weed addiction lasted 2 years
It wasn't until 2022 in February that I broke free from weed and nicotine.
Now that I'm 100% sober I am able to build back better.
But the brain isn’t the only thing porn affects.
Porn will destroy your balls.
Porn use leads to sexual dysfunctions like:
- Erectile dysfunction
- Delayed ejaculation
- Premature ejaculation
This is why men in their 20s need ED meds.
The average age for unwanted exposure to porn is 12 years old.
And it happens right in the home.
Parents, are you paying attention?
This is a traumatic experience for the young mind.
But it isn’t just solo women creating porn that fuels the fire.
Sex traffickers make a living off of porn.
It is estimated that 240,00 - 350,000 women and children are trafficked each year.
Throughout high school I did a lot of body building.
It was a lot of arms and chest and not enough legs.
But it wasn't enough to cure the addiction.
And I ate shit. So I wasn't giving my body what it needed to grow.
If you struggle with addiction just know you're not alone.
I've been there, done that.
I went through hell and overcame hell.
And I've helped 100s of other men do the same with their porn addiction.
So. Tell me.
Are you ready to quit?
@nathaliejacoby1
And this is why I couldn't care less about spending time with people who got vaxxed. Because of this attitude.
I never wore masks. Never getting jabbed. Never entertaining your kind.
"The divorce rate is 50%"
"More than 3 kids is too many"
"You can't support a family on one income"
None of this will stop me from marrying and having lots of kids.
Your daughters will be bombarded by porn-brained boys.
Your sons will be bombarded by OnlyFans indoctrinated girls.
They need to know that marriage is worth the wait more now than ever.
My face looked like that because I was stressed 24/7.
Stress from addictions.
Stress from relationships.
Stress from work and school.
I was in a bad place. And it reflected on my face because I didn't handle it well.
If you want your kids to do well in life
Marry someone you want your kids to learn life from. You are not just picking a spouse, but a teacher.
Remember that on your next date.
@littleapostate
ugly chicks have high numbers or high numbers make them ugly
won't see any truly gorgeous women partaking in this trend
I don't make the rules
The average age of unwanted exposure to porn is 11 years old.
This is a traumatic experience for the developing brain.
I first saw porn when I was 9.
This is what happened to me:
1. Helping men quit
I was addicted to porn for almost 10 years.
Now that I quit I made it my mission to help as many men quit as possible.
That's why I started my Twitter.
I will help you break free.
Follow me for more
@KingDavidQPS
The number 1 reason you can't quit porn revealed:
Learning this quit porn secret is key to breaking the 3-5 day relapse cycle
(Every man needs to hear this)
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I had terrible separation anxiety as a kid.
It turned into social anxiety when I reached high school.
I was scared of what other people thought of me.
Especially women.
Porn ruined my self-esteem and confidence and all throughout high school I suffered because of it.
Yet our schools want books in the classroom that an adult would go to jail for if they owned the books.
Think about that for a moment.
Your blood should boil at what they are doing to our kids.
In 2018 I got into my first relationship.
She was 2 years older than me.
You know what dudes call "high quality women"?
She wasn't that.
She had a broken attachment and the relationship was emotionally unstable.
Entering the relationship I was 150lbs
9 months later when she broke up with me I weighed 138lbs
(I'm 5'10)
During the relationship I watched porn.
After the break up I watched even more.
And I used more and more nicotine.
This caused the rapid weight loss.
As the demand for porn increases the supply increases.
As of Jan 1st 2021 OnlyFans has 171 million registered users and over 1.5 million content creators around the world.
People will have sex and still say they're not ready to get married.
People will move in together and still say they're not ready to get married.
People will have a kid together and still say they're not ready to get married.
"Not ready" is an excuse and a bad one at that.
Jesus was not crucified for being a "nice" guy. He made people mad.
He called them out. He flipped tables.
Christians these days?
Won't even stand up for the basic truths in the Bible on a Sunday afternoon
Everyone wants to be like Jesus, but no one wants to do what He did.
I had to learn how to deal with that stress.
But that took years to do.
In 2019 she broke up with me.
In July 2019 I broke my porn addiction.
Then in January 2020 I watched porn for the last time.