having your βfirstsβ in your 20s is nothing to be ashamed of. first kiss, first date, first partner, first time having sex, etc. itβs actually very normal to experience those things for the first time in your 20s. thereβs nothing to be ashamed of!! itβs more common than you think
men are like βso I know I created this whole painful situation for you, & really hurt your feelings but iβm actually also hurt by the situation I caused, & we should discuss that instead, while simultaneously putting the blame on youβ
I really dislike the βyour negative thoughts manifestβ idea, because it makes people feel unsafe in their own mind. in my opinion, thatβs a really horrible thing to do to someone. youβre safe to think freely, no matter how positive or negative those thoughts are. you are safe.
I actually canβt ever imagine hurting people the way theyβve hurt me. I have such a hard time understanding & grasping how it happened or why it happened, because I simply would never do that to someone else. itβs hard to accept that some people are just cruel.
aquarius, leo, pisces & capricorn placements are like βI want someone whoβs obsessed with meβ & then get irritated when someone is obsessed with them
small observation but, when someone has libra and cancer in their big 3, iβve noticed theyβre very gentle and angelic people. like they genuinely have a pure heart & wish the best for others
itβs really heartbreaking to see that so many people beat themselves up, or feel ashamed for not having experienced certain things yet. especially feeling ashamed for not having experienced it as a *child*.
thereβs nothing wrong with waiting, or even just not having done it yet
iβve noticed a lot of people with abandonment wounds, grow up feeling like they need people to need them. when youβre constantly abandoned, it feels like no one wants or needs you around. I think it turns people into people pleasers
I hope all the women who carry more masculine energy due to trauma, heal in 2022 & learn how to embrace their feminine energy. maintain a balance between the masculine & feminine energies within you. donβt chase, donβt over give β itβs time to *receive*β¦ the love you deserve
some people start doing these things earlier as children because either 1- they were ready or 2- also felt the pressure to get it out of the way.
experiencing these things for the first time, beyond your teen years, is 100% normal. youβre ready when youβre ready, thereβs no rush
sagittarius placements are really good at telling when people are lying to them. theyβre also really good at finding out info that they want to know.
filming ppl without consent and then allowing hundreds of thousands of people to make fun of them is actually insane. especially if theyβre not doing anything wrongβ¦ just existing. I canβt imagine how that must feel
maybe you think about them 24/7 because they traumatized & hurt you, not because your intuition is sensing that theyβre coming back. maybe your brain has been slightly rewired, because youβve been non stop thinking about & obsessing over them due to your anxious attachment style.
- please remember to be kind when responding to this thread. a lot of people have also had their βfirstsβ taken from them, & have decided to, or need to, wait to experience them in their own time β which may be well into their adult life. being kind goes a long way.
aries, leo, sagittarius βοΈ
I see you becoming at peace with uncomfortable situations from this last year. youβre ready to walk into a new year, and create a new story for yourself. karma will be served, donβt spend time worrying about that. youβre on a new path now! embrace it.
pisces, cancer & scorpio βοΈ
youβve been over-giving your energy for a long time. itβs time to receive. for the rest of december I see you focusing on self care, & on what you value in life. giving more to yourself is what will make you feel liberated at this time.
Iβd like to talk about how sometimes some people are obsessed with tarot/spirituality bc they use it as a compulsion to soothe their anxiety & it βhelpsβ them feel more in control of their reality, since they feel theyβre getting the answers/explanations to their anxious thoughts
does anyone else feel like because of childhood trauma, that you couldβve been a different person but, it altered you before you even had a chance to decide who you wanted to be
ignoring an aquarius placement to get a reaction out of them is literally just setting yourself up for failure. they donβt care & they will move on like you never existed
I think aquarius placements donβt restrict their emotions, they just have emotional control, which a lot of people donβt have. so in turn, they get labeled as emotionless or cold
watching aquarius placements realize they play a huge part in their own problems is always interesting. theyβre one of the most stubborn signs in the zodiac imo
itβs actually kind of crazy how there are people who canβt comprehend that youβre unfazed by their insults & critiques because you have like, a shred of self awareness
gemini, libra, aquarius βοΈ
youβre tired of the mind games & just want honesty. I see someone coming to you, being very honest about their true feelings for you. there will be no more guessing whether theyβre into you or not. clarity only. spoiler! they want you all to themselves
healing is not something you are meant to do fully on your own. there are parts of it that will need to be done alone, but not the entire journey. you will have connections & environments that naturally heal you. you will have people who will go out of their way to remind you
letβs cut the false narrative. aquarius doesnβt move on fast. they canβt stop thinking about it, and it consumes their mind. they just donβt talk about it. letβs be real please
I feel like air moons (gemini, libra, aquarius) are constantly having their emotions not taken seriously, simply because they arenβt sobbing in front of everyone, being a blubbering mess. just because they express emotions differently doesnβt mean they donβt have them
do any other sagittarius placements find that a lot of people try to ruin things that youβre excited about, looking forward too or just in general make you happy? iβve noticed people try to shut down/ruin sagittarius placements excitement & future plans
spirituality can become very isolating for some people. especially people who deal with anxiety or paranoia. we constantly see posts about βyour friend is sending you evil eyeβ, βdonβt tell people your plans, they donβt want to see you succeedβ. remember that whatβs meant for you
people call aquarius placements closed off, when in reality, theyβre tired of opening up and being misunderstood. when someone understands them, theyβre an open book
pisces, cancer, scorpio βοΈ
your dream partner is on their way. any manifestations youβve been making for your love life over the last 6-8 months, are coming in over the next two months. this person seems to make you feel very safe & accepted. try to let your guard down a bit.
iβm always amazed when scorpio and aquarius placements end up together, but then I remember aquarius placements secretly love when someoneβs obsessed with them
wanting better for yourself is a good sign that youβre headed in the right direction. acknowledging that the things youβve been through, werenβt fair, is a good sign. be gentle with yourself & take the time you need to take action towards bettering yourself. there is no rush.