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asabi

@uxtobiaf

1 year

Daily reminder to follow my business on Instagram, please🥹🙏🏾🤎 @nkasiobilifestyle 🪴

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asabi

@uxtobiaf

5 years

This is so stupid. In 2019? When women and girls are coding and designing? Why are you people bent on being stupid Abeg??

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asabi

@uxtobiaf

1 year

I’ve realized that many men don’t see misogyny as a systemic thing. They think women are just angry about random things and “natural things”

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asabi

@uxtobiaf

2 years

If you’re shocked that 11 thousand men are in a group where they share nudes of women then you haven’t been listening. Men show and tell us EVERYDAY that they don’t care about consent and women’s autonomy. Most importantly, they view women solely as sexual objects.

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asabi

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1 year

She has broken the world Record!!

asabi

@uxtobiaf

1 year

25 minutes left for her to break the record 🥹

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asabi

@uxtobiaf

2 years

Anxiety is a weird thing coz I freak out over the smallest things but when I’m in actual life-threatening situations, I’m incredibly calm. I feel like I could be in a plane experiencing mad turbulence and I’d just be like “oh alright, I hope we land safely.”

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asabi

@uxtobiaf

3 months

What many men believe is “female privilege” is actually pretty privilege. Conventionally attractive men get free stuff too🙂 But as you were.

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asabi

@uxtobiaf

2 years

There’s a TikTok compilation of how men treat women they don’t find attractive and honestly men are not socialized to be good people. There are intersections of colorism and fatphobia. honestly as a woman, what think men shouldn’t even factor in how you see yourself.

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asabi

@uxtobiaf

4 months

The other person often makes it easy 🙃

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@Lush_Beauty1

4 months

The way women go from obsessed to completely uninterested needs to be studied😂😂

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asabi

@uxtobiaf

8 months

Men are actually the ones that are most desperate for marriage.

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asabi

@uxtobiaf

8 months

Period diarrhea is the worst fucking thing. Even worse when you’re languishing on the toilet and you get that intense stab of pain in your bum. Ladies you know the one I mean😭

THE PROPHET.

@TheThirdProphet

8 months

Some things should be kept private, have some dignity.

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asabi

@uxtobiaf

3 months

Imagine doing this every week. No wonder men are always angry

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asabi

@uxtobiaf

1 year

@Thisanambragirl @CapricuntofCats GIRL. I’d rather eat jeans soaked in period blood.

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asabi

@uxtobiaf

8 months

Do you know how absolutely WILD it is that something as natural as periods, that half the population gets every month, is seen as something to be hush-hush about? Do you know how ridiculous it is?

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asabi

@uxtobiaf

4 years

I won a writing competition!!! It’s not a lot of money but it’s a win nonetheless so congrats to me🥂

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asabi

@uxtobiaf

3 years

Notice the use of ‘woman’ and ‘female.’ 🙂 We’re not crazy when we talk about these things.

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@DKProstyle

3 years

A woman who is beautiful, obedient, & eager to serve making $0.00 a year >>> A female who talks back, thinks her opinion matters, sees herself as equal making 100K/year

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asabi

@uxtobiaf

2 years

Really fucking sick of sharing a planet with these insidious creatures. They harm us in so many ways and they LIKE that shit.

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asabi

@uxtobiaf

6 years

Feminists don't have time to massage fragile male egos. To y'all that means hatred, then so be it. Women are killed and oppressed everyday and y'all are whining about hurt feelings. Sit down.

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asabi

@uxtobiaf

3 years

She didn’t just die. That’s passive language. She was murdered. A man murdered her. It is important that we call it what it is

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asabi

@uxtobiaf

5 years

For all of you dimwits yelling “it’s not that deep, it’s a joke” sexism is never just a joke. This shit affects lives. Ask women in tech what they have to face every fucking day. Idiots, the whole of you.

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asabi

@uxtobiaf

3 years

Wild how DJ Switch went from creating mad transitions on BB naija parties to running for her life from her own government.

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asabi

@uxtobiaf

2 years

But when we talk about rape it’s “not all men” fam it’s every single one of you fuckers. 11k and not a single person thought it was wrong. Fools.

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asabi

@uxtobiaf

3 years

Not suicidal o...but I wouldn’t mind being in a coma for a week or two. Just to take a break from everything, including my own mind.

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asabi

@uxtobiaf

4 years

I figured out why Nigerian parents are so concerned about what other people think of us. It’s because they have opinions about other people’s kids too.

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asabi

@uxtobiaf

3 years

Dinner date. A mouthwatering dress. Stoned as hell. White wine. Someone I really fancy. Soon.

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asabi

@uxtobiaf

2 years

Here to rant. I personally think it’s a lack of courtesy for an applicant to go through stages of an interview, only for you to ghost them. The respectful and courteous thing to do is tell them you chose someone else, so that they can stop being in limbo.

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asabi

@uxtobiaf

2 years

It’s mad how many of these stories I can relate to like? They go out of their way to be rude and just plain nasty just because they don’t find you fuckable. Weirdos. Anyway, here’s a link to the video:

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asabi

@uxtobiaf

5 years

Please we’re angry. How can you look at the way the world treats women and not be angry??

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asabi

@uxtobiaf

4 years

Are you in primary 6

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asabi

@uxtobiaf

3 years

I think one of my least favourite things to do as an adult is trying to figure out what to eat. Every. Bloody. Day.

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asabi

@uxtobiaf

6 months

I could write hundreds and hundreds of essays about how anxiety affects the quality of your life. Going about with a pit in your stomach, fully expecting the worst. Exhausting.

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asabi

@uxtobiaf

5 months

Kai. If you don’t have anxiety, you don’t know what god has done for you.

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asabi

@uxtobiaf

2 years

Love exists in so many beautiful ways. But I think the purest, most undiluted form of it is the almost compulsive need to share. You want to share everything with them: experiences, food, your time, your money, your energy, your, you resources, yourself.

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asabi

@uxtobiaf

11 months

@ANGELBABYABEL Even if she did, she had every right to.

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asabi

@uxtobiaf

2 years

The women participating are just as trash. I was tweeting with the information I had don’t come and say nonsense in my mentions. O saaro

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asabi

@uxtobiaf

19 days

Guess who was in our office today🤭

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asabi

@uxtobiaf

11 months

It’s my daddy’s birthday!🥳🥳

asabi

@uxtobiaf

11 months

Tomorrow is my daddy’s birthday and there’s no day I don’t wake up grateful that he’s my dad🥹

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asabi

@uxtobiaf

4 years

I have opened my eyes this morning. Chijioke Iloanya and others will never be able to do that again. 💔 And for this, we must #ENDSARS

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asabi

@uxtobiaf

3 years

There’s a cool new spot in Yaba called Pappie’s Meatro.

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asabi

@uxtobiaf

2 years

@jackjohnsoniv7 Someone sent in a question asking what she should do because she was being raped by her father. The pastor said there was something in her that causes it. I walked out immediately, furious and in tears. I never went back.

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asabi

@uxtobiaf

3 years

The beginning. The end.

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asabi

@uxtobiaf

9 months

Ngl having money actually makes me happy.

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asabi

@uxtobiaf

4 years

WOMEN AGAINST RAPE IN NIGERIA #WARN

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asabi

@uxtobiaf

4 years

I’m protesting because they made a father swim in a river full of bodies to search for his son. #ENDSARS

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asabi

@uxtobiaf

2 years

It’s the “divide and conquer” tactic that only works for women who live for male attention. It’s funny because you can see the big difference in how they treat you if you gain a few pounds. Embarrassing

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asabi

@uxtobiaf

3 years

Living close to a primary school and wfh is hell. Everyday, two times one two. Two times two four.

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asabi

@uxtobiaf

3 years

Then somebody’s daughter will🥰

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3 years

Somebody’s son may not find you one day. Deal with it. 👍

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asabi

@uxtobiaf

4 months

They saw this analogy and proceeded to create patriarchy fc logos with a woman under a man’s boot🙃

Eniola 💋

@Littlemrs_A

4 years

So apt.

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asabi

@uxtobiaf

5 years

So before you come and open your dirty mouth here, bear in mind that I will drag you to hell and back. Fools.

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asabi

@uxtobiaf

4 years

You know, hearing people refer to feminists as witches and groups of us as covens makes me think that’s probably what the Salem witch trials were about. They probably set fire to women who just wanted to be treated like human beings.

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asabi

@uxtobiaf

4 years

A woman talking will always seem rude to a misogynistic man. No be today. Rest

Arinze Odira

@CaptainArinze

4 years

I cringe at how some ladies talk to Uber drivers. You can be polite and nice. It doesn't cost much. Why are you being all rude to the guy? Don't you have a map? Are you not a driver? Stop wasting my time? Drop those sentences. It's not necessary. Attitude is everything.

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asabi

@uxtobiaf

4 months

I’m going to do incredible things next year. Fear dey catch me sef.

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asabi

@uxtobiaf

7 months

Happy mental health day to all of us who have to wade through anxiety everyday. We’re trying our best. 🤍

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asabi

@uxtobiaf

7 months

@wickedsous It’s not funny at all because men kill their girlfriends all the time.

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asabi

@uxtobiaf

3 years

@michkeenah My mom couldn’t believe it when I yelled at her for comparing my sister to other people. She’d never seen me so angry. I wasn’t going to let her do that to my sister. She did it to me and it wrecked me and I’m still dealing with it, so I refused to let it happen again.

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asabi

@uxtobiaf

1 year

if sanwoolu has a million haters, then i am one of them. if he has ten haters, then i am one of them. if he has only one hater then that is me. if sanwoolu has no haters, then that means i am no longer on earth. if the world loves sanwoolu, then i am against the world.

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asabi

@uxtobiaf

6 years

Male privilege has men believing that there are more pressing issues than feminism and so the humanity of almost half the population should not be addressed.

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asabi

@uxtobiaf

3 years

Nigerians are being unfortunate under Ezra’s post. As usual. Why are you people so hateful? For a group of people who carry home training on their heads, we’re actually the rudest, most uncouth group. What happened to keeping quiet if you don’t like something?

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asabi

@uxtobiaf

2 years

Showing up. Accountability. Hard, often painful conversations. Support. Spending quality time. Showing up.

Ọrẹolúwa

@0rearemo

2 years

i have been thinking lately about healthy friendships and what that looks like. any thoughts?

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asabi

@uxtobiaf

3 months

It’s often with the expectation that you’d give something back, typically sexual favours. But let’s all pretend and call it “privilege” when it’s only a select few that have access to this so called privilege. Enjoy🫶🏾

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asabi

@uxtobiaf

7 months

I need whoever is writing Nigeria’s story to please put the pen down.

TheCable

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7 months

JUST IN: Reps ask FG to ban Queen Primer textbook, say it contains ‘sexual perversions’ | TheCable

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asabi

@uxtobiaf

9 months

I’ve always said one of the greatest proofs of male privilege is the fact that dumbasses like this are considered more intelligent than women just because they’re men.

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asabi

@uxtobiaf

2 years

Pregnancy is too dangerous and life-changing for it to be forced on anybody. Like it permanently changes the body and brain. Having children is so permanent. It should be something the parent(s) absolutely want. This will have so many awful ripple effects.

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asabi

@uxtobiaf

4 months

Praying for Nigerian women everyday man. We deserve better.

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asabi

@uxtobiaf

1 year

They deserve way more than that. They deserve to have their generational pain and trauma acknowledged and treated with empathy. They deserve respect. They deserve to have a day set aside to honour their people that were murdered.

Eni Adeoluwa

@Enioluwa_

1 year

People from the East really deserve a weekend of just enjoyment because they have tried this period, even when it doesn't concern them, you people would look for a way to put them in it.

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asabi

@uxtobiaf

3 years

This man hit it for ONE MINUTE and said “that was amazing.” God abeg ooooo

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@uxtobiaf

1 year

@Dennis_Macaulay Twitter would have collapsed

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@uxtobiaf

1 year

And she’s still going btw. When I say phenomenal.

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asabi

@uxtobiaf

8 months

Igbo men and liberal in the same sentence is crazy

Adeola Olaedo 👠

@AdeolaShumi

8 months

It could just be we are pretending not know this 🤣. Igbo men are the most Liberal and mind conscious of any group in the world. And yes, they love taking care of their women. It is cultural to do so. Other ethnicity know this, and they are here for the cherries too.

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@uxtobiaf

4 years

IF you're protesting online , please it's time to resume work , this is past 1.. Reply me with #SARSMUSTEND or #EndSWAT

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@uxtobiaf

4 years

I CANNOT BELIEVE THE RESPONSE TO PROTESTING NOT BEING KILLED IS MORE PEOPLE BEING KILLED!!

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@uxtobiaf

3 years

He called a 14 year old minor a “lady” That’s all you need to know.

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asabi

@uxtobiaf

2 years

But same me would freak out over what time to leave the house to go for an event or start crying because my charger isn’t working.

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@uxtobiaf

3 years

You’re the cake. Every other thing: relationships, work, friendships is the icing. You’re the cake.

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4 years

I need a win. For real. A huge win. Tired of waking up and crying before going about my day.

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@uxtobiaf

10 months

Not even asking for too much. I just want to be able to visit my friends in the middle of the day without doing mental gymnastics about how much Uber would cost. I’m so resentful that this is what my own adulthood looks like.

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asabi

@uxtobiaf

4 months

I lost my mum 13 days ago. This was our last photo together. It feels like my heart doesn’t beat quite the way it used to. It feels like waves of the sea, sometimes quiet and calm, sometimes a tsunami that threatens to take me away. It’s always there.

Richie Brave 🇬🇾🇬🇾

@RichieBrave

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Hey, tell me something, share a photo, a memory or anything you feel about someone you love that passed away and something about grief you wish you knew before but know now. 🖤

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asabi

@uxtobiaf

4 years

Okay but how many people can leave? I’m tired of this rhetoric that we should all just leave. It’s not possible for everyone. And nobody deserves to live like this.

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asabi

@uxtobiaf

5 years

@sire_gabriel @BeccasmallzZ gtfoh

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asabi

@uxtobiaf

6 months

I really hate how some of you have demonized what should have been a triumphant moment for Rema, who’s done something so amazing at such a young age.

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@uxtobiaf

4 years

This is why a man saying he’s not misogynistic because he has a mother and sisters can never hold water. Even the women in their family are not safe from the violent misogyny.

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asabi

@uxtobiaf

3 months

Also this:

firdaus.

@ese_belosagie

3 months

@uxtobiaf It’s not even privilege at all. It’s just male benevolence. “Shebi men are nice to you unprovoked, you’re privileged”.

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asabi

@uxtobiaf

6 months

And some people here were crying about a piece of cake and chocolate writing on a plate. Kai.

DJ ARI 😍

@_AriTheDJ

6 months

flew my baby to New York to ask her to be my girlfriend on a billboard in Times Square ❤️🤩

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asabi

@uxtobiaf

6 months

Resist the urge to edit as you write. Get it all out, and then go over it with a fine tooth comb

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@Ikoafrica

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Writer 101?

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@uxtobiaf

1 year

The entire society is so entitled to women’s labour that people are angry when a woman they don’t know says she doesn’t cook. Think about why that made you mad and how absolutely ridiculous it is.

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@uxtobiaf

6 months

“I want women to cover up so I can imagine them naked and sexualize them”

EHIZOJIE

@DadaBoyEhiz

6 months

Maraji get wahala but this dressing situation she no lie. The way babes dey dress lately dey fear me, no room for imagination again because you can see everything she working with It’s all fun and games but let’s speak the truth some outfits are not meant for outside 😎

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@uxtobiaf

1 year

I love this video so much😂😂

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asabi

@uxtobiaf

4 years

Good news everyone!!! Soon we’ll be able to take ferries from Costain to Adesanya and from Ikeja under bridge to GRA.

Nigeria Newsdesk

@NigeriaNewsdesk

4 years

Okada ban: Lagos governor to launch commercial ferry operations

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asabi

@uxtobiaf

1 year

She’s still going!!

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@iamrenike

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She has really cooked for 90hrs *blinks twice* and is still going.

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asabi

@uxtobiaf

1 year

I’m actually so resentful that this is the Nigeria of my youth. Was reading a book where the characters went on a road trip from Lagos to Kano and I was jealous and sad that we can’t do that (safely) anymore.

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asabi

@uxtobiaf

5 years

If you think I’m scared, you’ve got another thing coming. Keep sending threats to my DMs, bloody cowards.

asabi

@uxtobiaf

5 years

This is what happens when you call out inane, sexist jokes. Why are men?

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asabi

@uxtobiaf

11 months

As I get older I’m learning to reclaim my voice in many ways. Not just in standing up for myself but also in being vocal about all the things I enjoy, and being unapologetically honest about who I am.

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@uxtobiaf

1 year

Almost at 88 hours guy. My mind is blown

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asabi

@uxtobiaf

4 years

I have ZERO respect for the generation that had everything handed to them: free education, a stable economy, a safe country and still made a mess of it. Look at the mess your generation made for us.

Temitope

@Temitope_AA

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@iyaboawokoya @PoliceNG The greatest disappointment is that there doesn’t seem to be a clearly articulated strategy for this protest. It’s all ‘Aluta’ like schoolchildren. A list of realistic demands should have been drawn up, even when they met Speaker LSHOS, and DG. Articulate your points, set a date

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@uxtobiaf

4 years

If women could even sleep their way to the top, why is it that there are so few of us up there? I hate lies

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@uxtobiaf

3 months

💛🖤

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@uxtobiaf

5 months

Once again, the quality of life in this country is so low because tell me why there’s no light for over 24 hours? It’s 2023 fgs, what did we do to deserve this

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asabi

@uxtobiaf

5 years

Did you people think the word ‘pedophile’ was gendered before?