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Tobi Shiyanbola

1 year

Lately, I've noticed everybody looks OK until you eventually have a deep conversation with them. And then, you'll realize that, this is a sad generation of people struggling to survive through smiling faces and pretty pictures.

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Tobi Shiyanbola

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2 years

Some people are natural criers. They cry when excited, they cry in grief, they cry in laughter, they cry in rage, they literally cry at any slight emotional experience or state. This is how their bodies process experiences in real time. And, that’s okay, it's who they are.

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Tobi Shiyanbola

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2 years

Please, if someone or a friend doesn't post about their achievements, please don't post it on their timeline to congratulate them/reveal the achievement on their behalf. Often times, there's a reason why they didn't bring it to social media.

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Tobi Shiyanbola

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1 year

If this lands on your TL, may God put you in a position to be comfortable, happy and genuinely satisfied in the coming year.

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Tobi Shiyanbola

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2 years

Tbh if you know how difficult and how long it took some people to recover their peace of mind and happiness, you'll understand why they shut all doors at any slight discovery of toxicity, and also why they can be so picky about who they allow in their lives.

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Tobi Shiyanbola

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1 year

One day we need to talk about how mentally exhausting hoping can be when nothing seems to be happening or shifting.

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Tobi Shiyanbola

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2 years

Ngl, being loved genuinely can definitely improve one's quality of life. Having a partner isn’t a necessity for everyone but being with someone who just wants to make your life easier, comfortable or sweeter is an unspeakable blessing.

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Tobi Shiyanbola

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1 year

Ngl, nothing is as beautiful as seeing someone who has been unlucky with quite a lot of good things of life finally getting it, and not just getting it but getting it bountifully. I pray this is you soon.

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Tobi Shiyanbola

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2 years

Tbh, a partner that updates you on everything they do unprovoked is everything. ❤

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Tobi Shiyanbola

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2 years

We can fool ourselves all we want, but dating one person is so peaceful and healthy.

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Tobi Shiyanbola

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1 year

Ngl, having a fight with your partner and not speaking for days is unhealthy asf.

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Tobi Shiyanbola

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1 year

Omo! I’m passing the phone to someone who’s about to enter their season of fulfillment, abundance, wealth and love.

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Tobi Shiyanbola

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1 year

If this lands on your TL, I pray God gives you reasons to be genuinely happy, fulfilled, and financially comfortable in 2023.

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Tobi Shiyanbola

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2 years

Please, for the remainder of this year, take lots of pictures of you & make many amazing videos too. You’re good-looking and pleasing, don't give room for all those insecurities in your head. Your anxieties are lying to you. Document those memorable moments of yourself.

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Tobi Shiyanbola

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2 years

Some of us love being at home, it's our sacred space. We love spending quality time with ourselves. Watching movies, reading, cooking, dancing, singing in the bathroom, & doing self care. We love human connections, but we cherish our alone time, recharging & loving ourselves.

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Tobi Shiyanbola

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2 years

From texting, calling or facetiming everyday to "it’s been a while, hope you’re good?". Life no balance.

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Tobi Shiyanbola

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10 months

When money is no longer an issue may our health not fail us.

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Tobi Shiyanbola

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2 years

May your parents not be absent when you start to win.

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Tobi Shiyanbola

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1 year

My heart goes out to those who are genuinely discouraged, unhappy, mentally unavailable or stressed. Those who find everything draining & are emotionally unattached to everything right now. Those just tired, confused & numb. I pray you find that footing and bloom again.

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Tobi Shiyanbola

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2 years

Omo! This time next year, I expect myself to be in a completely different place in all aspects of my life.

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Tobi Shiyanbola

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2 years

I want to end this year with a huge win, God please make this happen for me.🙏🏾

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Tobi Shiyanbola

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2 years

I really pray everyone finds the right circle of friends & the right partner. Life is already hard, friendships & relationship should be the least of our worries.

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Tobi Shiyanbola

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2 years

I love a romantic partner 😭😭 I want gifts, special foods, surprises, unexpected kisses and pecks, regular stroking of beards, cards, dates, quality time, reassurance, spontaneous romantic gestures, doses of PDAs and all. I want it all very often! I'm a big baby, my Queen. 🤧😭

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Tobi Shiyanbola

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1 year

Tell us one thing about your Dad.

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Tobi Shiyanbola

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2 years

Truth be told, some people are so irreplaceable. The things they do, the way they go extra miles to get things done for you, the way they always support, the kindness they show, the feelings they had for you; you may never experience it again for the rest of your life.

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Tobi Shiyanbola

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2 years

Healthy relationships/marriages exist and I’m going to have one ☺️🥰

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Tobi Shiyanbola

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2 years

Assumption kills relationships and friendships. Please, always clear out issues as fast as possible. Communicate effectively!

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Tobi Shiyanbola

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2 years

Omo! I am touching so much money this October. I claim it, I manifest it, I speak it into existence.

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Tobi Shiyanbola

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2 years

You can go through all the heartbreak and no longer be in love with someone, but still feel that ache in your chest when something reminds you of them because deep down you'll never understand why you were treated so wrong when all you were trying to do was make them happy.

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Tobi Shiyanbola

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2 years

The respect I have for consistent people is a lot! Consistency is hard.

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Tobi Shiyanbola

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7 months

I’m going through the most confusing and toughest phase of my life right now. I pray for support, assistance and guidance. I pray things come together for my good. Happy days seem to be years ago. I just want God to intervene cos things tight. 😞💔

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Tobi Shiyanbola

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1 year

Ngl, a lot of people are stuck between wanting to love someone and being better off single.

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Tobi Shiyanbola

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2 years

The disappointment of breakup is painful, you know what else is more painful? Realizing the sacrifices, time, efforts, intentions, dreams & everything you were building together with this person has gone down the drain, & you'll have to start all over again. That's very painful.

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Tobi Shiyanbola

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2 years

Nobody gets played like an understanding girlfriend or a nice guy.

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Tobi Shiyanbola

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2 years

Omo, If you have a supportive partner, you have everything.

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Tobi Shiyanbola

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2 years

I want it all. Clear skin, good health, more money, peace of mind, travels and love. I'll get it, I believe. 🙏🏾🤍

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Tobi Shiyanbola

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2 years

At times, I wonder how we get played by someone who wanted us first. Someone who put in so much energy and resources to get us and at the end they play us, it baffles me a lot.

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Tobi Shiyanbola

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2 years

Tbh, there’s nothing I want more than to end the year on a high note. From my mouth to God’s ears. I claim it. I manifest it. 🙏🏾

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Tobi Shiyanbola

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2 years

Some of us complain that we have no social life when in reality we just want to stay at home, sleep, Netflix & chill, eat (probably even order for food), read novels (for some) & press your phone all day, all weekend! That's our true happiness, it gives us genuine satisfaction.

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Tobi Shiyanbola

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2 years

Nothing is as beautiful as seeing someone who has been so unlucky in life and has gone through tough times finally win and not just on a small scale but really massively. 🥺

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Tobi Shiyanbola

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2 years

Please be with someone who can stay respectful and calm even during arguments or fights. This is very important!

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Tobi Shiyanbola

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2 years

Tbh, at times, I get so embarrassed for no reason posting my pictures or videos on social media. It's basically like, why am I showing so much about my life?

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Tobi Shiyanbola

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2 years

Ngl, I just need a kiss on my forehead and a long warm hug cos I'm tired, and I don't know why.

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Tobi Shiyanbola

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2 years

Honestly, I can’t over emphasize how important it is to know who you are as an individual because people will always try to project their insecurities & preconceived notions on you unprovoked.

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Tobi Shiyanbola

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2 years

If anyone trusts you with details of their traumas, their heartbreaks, their secrets & stories from their past, ones they've kept hidden trying daily to let go, please don't throw it in their face when you're in an argument with them. It can mentally damage things beyond repair.

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Tobi Shiyanbola

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1 year

Omo! Having to figure out what to eat daily is a huge chore. 😭

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Tobi Shiyanbola

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2 years

You deserve a slow love. Uncomplicated. No rush. Sure. Stable. Consistent. You deserve that love. You deserve someone that’s sure of you, that you’re sure of.

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2 years

No one supports and shows faith in you like your mom, even when things don't look good. Moms are just built different! May God bless every mother out there.

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Tobi Shiyanbola

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2 years

I just want to be successful in life, make money, marry someone who gives me genuine love and peace, travel and be happy.

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Tobi Shiyanbola

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2 years

To everyone who has been dealing with a lot lately, I pray something amazing comes your way and you get the full bloom you deserve.

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Tobi Shiyanbola

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2 years

One day, you will meet someone who will make all the waiting finally worth it. 🙏🏾🤍

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Tobi Shiyanbola

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2 years

Sometimes, one doesn’t even know what one's doing with one's life anymore. Career, school, lack of funds, purpose, love life, friendships, family, future and all... Just a blank feeling. What do you do when the feeling comes?

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Tobi Shiyanbola

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1 year

Life has taught me that the best way to dead a situation or an issue is to let it starve. Zero replies, zero actions, zero altercations, just don’t feed it. That’s where the true power lies.

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Tobi Shiyanbola

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2 years

Cheers to those of us who never do photo dumps because we don’t have a social life🥂

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2 years

Some friends are unimaginably thoughtful. They are the type that offer comfort for you even in discomfort. They go extra mile to get things done for you. They pay attention to every detail about you. They do extra when you didn’t even realize you needed it.

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Tobi Shiyanbola

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1 year

Just one connection to the right person can change your life for good. May God connect you to that right person. Good morning.

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Tobi Shiyanbola

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2 years

The worse feeling is when you don’t want to give up on someone but you know you have to.

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Tobi Shiyanbola

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1 year

Omo, nothing is as beautiful as seeing someone who has been unlucky with quite a lot of good things of life finally getting it, and not just getting it but getting it bountifully. I pray this is you soon.

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Tobi Shiyanbola

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2 years

Honestly, I don’t know who needs to hear this but, showing you care so much doesn’t make you desperate at all.

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Tobi Shiyanbola

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2 years

Loving someone is very sweet when the feeling is mutual.

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Tobi Shiyanbola

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1 year

2023 smells like Big Ws, Success and Celebrations already!

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Tobi Shiyanbola

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2 years

Being with a person who loves you as much as you love them is truly a blessing. A person who can't let a day go by without talking to you & displaying thoughtfulness effortlessly, is what we all deserve. Love is for everyone, it just takes a person with good intentions for you.

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Tobi Shiyanbola

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2 years

To those who have genuine and good intentions, I pray you find a partner who aligns well with your inner desires and pursuits. Tbh, it's not easy being with someone who makes life quite unbearable.

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1 year

Ngl, I want it all. Clear skin, good health, more money, peace of mind, travels and love. I'll get it, I believe. 🙏🏾🤍

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2 years

Truth be told, people need people. Sometimes a good conversation with your bestie, a friend, loml, someone you love, a therapist, or even a stranger can do more for your mental health than dealing with everything alone. If you don't have anyone, pray to baba God.

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Tobi Shiyanbola

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2 years

People who dip bread in tea still live among humans till today, and the government is not doing anything about it.

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2 years

I wonder how some ladies cope with being in a talking stage with someone when going through a tough phase. Imagine a whole life falling apart meanwhile someone's son is asking what their favorite color is.

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1 year

Some of us are the definition of boredom, we don't socialize, we don’t party, we don't go for hangouts, we just love staying at home, watching movies, chatting, reading or sleeping. If you invite us for an event, we’ll always look for an excuse to stay at home. Home is our peace.

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Tobi Shiyanbola

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2 years

I pray we all find love that is soft and soothes our nervous system. A love that makes us feel alive, seen and valued. A love that makes our inner child feel at home. A love that we can trust and makes our heart feel safe surrendering. That's my prayer for everyone.

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1 year

At times, I wonder why we get played by someone who wanted us first. Someone who put in so much energy and resources to get us and at the end they play us, it baffles me a lot.

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Tobi Shiyanbola

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2 years

This might sound selfish, but you really have to make sure you’re good, before you worry about someone else.

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2 years

It's how some people rush from work to do absolutely nothing at home.

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Tobi Shiyanbola

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2 years

Ngl, if you find love and friendship in one person, you're blessed.

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Tobi Shiyanbola

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1 year

Ngl, I really want to experience traveling around the world with someone I’m in love with, wearing matching crocs and matching outfits… Creating unforgettable memories in popular cities across world. And, of course we’ll experience these things with our kids when we have them.

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- I love communication, be ready to shalaye always. - I'm an ambivert, occasionally you'll see two different sides of me. "The quiet Tobi and the life of the party". - I love PDAs, be ready for random dozens of kissing and ass spanking moments in public. - I love traveling, so…

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What’s the disadvantage in of dating you?

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1 year

Omo, if you have a supportive partner, you have everything.

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1 year

Honestly, before the year ends, I pray we experience the blessing and favor of God in a very unusual way.

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2 years

‘We are pleased to inform you’ ‘Congratulations’ ‘Your application is approved’ To whom it may concern, this is for you today. Good morning. 🙏🏾🕯🤍

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Tobi Shiyanbola

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2 years

Ngl, some of us value love. We value romantic gestures, PDAs, date nights. We value the thought of knowing we have someone we can call our own, someone who values us, one who would love to always see us happy. Some of us value cuddles and kisses. We value love when it’s soft.

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2 years

Dear God, please take care of my mom. 🙏🏾

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2 years

To whom it may concern, money spent on body care products like lotions, perfumes, body spray and all is never a waste! Take good care of yourself.

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2 years

Tbh, some of us are so irreplaceable. The things we do, the way we go extra miles to get things done for others, the way we always support, the kindness we show, the feelings we have for others; take us for granted and you may never experience it again for the rest of your life.

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2 years

I want to be the reason that people still believe in genuine intentions, gentle souls and gorgeous hearts of gold.

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2 years

To avoid disappointments, take people as they are, and don't fantasize on what they could be.

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2 years

We can fool ourselves all we want, but genuine love and healthy marriages exist and I’m going to have one.

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2 years

Assumption kills relationships and friendships. Please, always clear out issues as fast as possible. Communicate effectively!

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2 years

Omo! I want it all!! A life of ease, peace, comfort and intentional happiness. One that doesn’t require struggle love, stress and distress. One that consists of mutual relationships, communication, clarity understanding and self care.

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5 months

Omo! This time next year, I expect myself to be in a completely different place in all aspects of my life.

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Tobi Shiyanbola

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1 year

Have you ever wanna just sit down & have a deep conversation with someone who did you wrong, not to cause more spite but to understand why they would hurt you so bad, knowing fully well you gave your all to make them comfortable & loved? Like, just why?

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You deserve a slow love. Uncomplicated. No rush. Sure. Stable. Consistent. You deserve that love. You deserve someone that’s sure of you, that you’re sure of.

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1 year

At times, you just have to accept that “It was fun while it lasted” and move on with your life.

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1 year

Do you ever feel you doing too much for someone? But that's just who you are, I mean, it's your personality.

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2 years

The person you'll get married to is actually more important than marriage itself. African parents need to know this tbh.

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Tobi Shiyanbola

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1 year

Invest in your body and skin, invest in your smell, invest in your house/room, invest in clothes and assessories, invest in good food, invest in your mental health, fitness and physical health in general. Invest in yourself! You only live once.

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2 years

It is a blessing to have someone who loves you just as much as you love them. We all deserve a person who can't go a day without thinking of you and shows thoughtfulness naturally. Everyone can experience love; all it takes is a good person who has your best interests in mind.

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2 years

Please, if someone is trying to love you, let them. You deserve to be loved. Don't let the traumatic acrimony hinder you from being treated right. Love yourself enough to be treated with premium tender loving care. Don't fight it. When you feel it, let your soul connect to it.

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2 years

Please date people that are intelligent, attractive, kind and respectful... That's everything.

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2 years

The thing with having a man who is a genuinely nice person is, you’ll have to put up with him being nice to others especially women.

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2 years

Tbh I love a lady that always wants to hug up on me and kiss me for no reason, being quite spontaneous too, like yes, come here! 😩😍

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Something you’ve been praying for will manifest for you in October. Have a great month ahead.

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