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8 months

How would you advise girls in their 30s and still unmarried? I focused on my education and wasn’t in any haram relationship. but I have friends who did all those things and are now married. It makes me question everything and not have faith in Allah.

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The Sister Guide

@thesisterguide

2 years

IM SCARED OF MARRIAGE: I’m scared of the unknown I’m scared this person I want to marry can either make or break me. I’m scared of being vulnerable I’m scared they won’t look after me because they have no loyalties to me I’m scared it’s all going to come crashing down.

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The Sister Guide

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2 years

I recently sold land back home that I invested in with my dad and got a 6 figure payout. I plan on saving this for our children. My husband asked to have HALF, when I refused he decided he now wants me to go 50/50 towards the household bills. Am I in the wrong?

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@thesisterguide

2 years

I married someone who I wasn’t Attracted to and now I want to LEAVE But the problem is we have kids

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The Sister Guide

@thesisterguide

2 years

My husband FORCED me to get pregnant and then left me our baby the baby.

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@thesisterguide

2 years

My wedding guests were gossiping about me and my Husband 👰‍♂️ 🤵‍♂️ “The said my Husband used to message their friends, and other kinds of stuff. I found out that one of my close friends also said my husband dm’d her.”

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The Sister Guide

@thesisterguide

2 years

My husband has never worked a DAY in his life. We have been living with my parents for the last 3 years. All he does is chill outside and smoke weed with his friends. My parents kicked him out when they realised I was giving him pocket money.

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The Sister Guide

@thesisterguide

2 years

I married a man that begged me to start our family, promising me that he was ready to provide for me and our family. In the 2 years married, he has only paid for our rent ONCE. He uses his money to pay off the debt he didn’t disclose to me before we got married. #TSG

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The Sister Guide

@thesisterguide

2 years

Some of you guys can’t see our tweet but we’re reposting. I’m apart the class 2020 that got MARRIED during lockdown and I’m bored of my husband. 💒

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The Sister Guide

@thesisterguide

2 years

2 YEARS MARRIED and we have been living separately. His family didn’t bring gifts when they asked for my hand, and we didn’t have a wedding. Now that he has money, he still doesn’t want to get us a house? What would you do?

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The Sister Guide

@thesisterguide

2 years

HOW MONEY RUINED MY FAMILY live on The Sisterverse NOW!! From our first Male Perspective. Make sure to tell us what you think

The Sister Guide

@thesisterguide

2 years

I’m so happy to announce we have a male feature on The Sisterverse. I really was taken back by this one. HOW MONEY RUINED MY FAMILY Tomorrow night 8pm. See you then!

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@thesisterguide

2 years

I can’t respond to you now because I have to do it in order, but whichever girl said she had two guys asking to meet their family and that she had to implement a ‘cost benefit analysis’ when she was deciding whether or not to proceed is an absolute Queen 😭 LMAO we love that

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The Sister Guide

@thesisterguide

2 years

The Sisterverse is now LIVE! Go read the posts ‘More Than a Divorcee’ and ‘A Double Life’ Here at

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@thesisterguide

2 years

I’m 22yr old man looking to get married to this girl and her father told me they were requesting 10K Mehr Technically i can afford it however my friends who married great wife's only paid maximum 4k so and I feel some type of way

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The Sister Guide

@thesisterguide

2 years

THE OTHER WOMAN is now live on The Sisterverse ! If you’ve read it make sure you tell us your thoughts

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The Sister Guide

@thesisterguide

2 years

My Husband never told his ‘female’ friends he was married, and I found out the night of our honeymoon 💒 Our first ever dilemma with voiceover 🎙 PART ONE

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The Sister Guide

@thesisterguide

2 years

MY FATHER’S ULTIMATUM A story of how a young girl had to choose between her Father and her need for companionship. Out now on the Sisterverse.

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The Sister Guide

@thesisterguide

2 years

Happy New Year to Women only

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The Sister Guide

@thesisterguide

2 years

Me and the guy I’m seeing are madly in love. However his Mother is REFUSING to let us get married unless he marries me and his COUSIN from back home. He is his Mother’s only child and is devoted to her. What should I do?

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The Sister Guide

@thesisterguide

2 years

1,000 followers guys. Just yesterday we were on 100. Thank you so very much 🥺 the whole point was to provide a little safe circle for women to speak about all the things that they are told to keep private, whilst still remaining their anonymity. From cc to this. Thank you ❤️

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The Sister Guide

@thesisterguide

2 years

I never had hope for men or marriage but when I met my current man I was in shock I couldn’t believe it this man wowed me and he continues to wow me. He ticks all my boxes and he’s the best sometimes I ask myself if this could be too good to be true

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The Sister Guide

@thesisterguide

2 years

My Toxic In-Laws. “My brother-in-law spat in my face.” The story of how a wife tries to navigate her marriage despite how violently her in-laws treat her. 😳

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@thesisterguide

2 years

I keep inviting my friends and family into my Marital home. My Husband got pissed off at me when I let a Male friend have dinner with me and the girls at my house whilst he was at work 🍲 🍽. Was I wrong?

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The Sister Guide

@thesisterguide

2 years

I’m so happy to announce we have a male feature on The Sisterverse. I really was taken back by this one. HOW MONEY RUINED MY FAMILY Tomorrow night 8pm. See you then!

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The Sister Guide

@thesisterguide

2 years

I don’t think my future Sister-In-Law deserves my brother? In the words of Michael Moon, know your place girl

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@thesisterguide

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@thesisterguide

2 years

I keep waiting on a red flag to pop up or something like all the other guys but there are none. Sometimes they say if it feels too good to be true it’s not real & that’s been at the back of my mind.

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@thesisterguide

2 years

I feel like I’m my man’s SUGAR MAMA. He doesn’t drive but when he gets into my car, he loves to turn on the seat heating. It makes me want to vomit

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The Sister Guide

@thesisterguide

2 years

Hey Sisters!! We will be taking a hiatus for Ramadan so that we can all focus this month inshaAllah on fasting and worship, all of ‘ibada. I pray that it is a very blessed month for all of you. Inshallah this will be a beneficial month for everyone ❤️❤️❤️

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The Sister Guide

@thesisterguide

2 years

My potential is earning 6 Figures (120k), but the problem is he doesn’t have a degree and this is bothering me?? Is she being far too picky?

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The Sister Guide

@thesisterguide

2 years

We love an update! Glad to see some of the advice went to good use 🥺

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The Sister Guide

@thesisterguide

2 years

I’m terrified I’ve cried several times over this i know to many it sounds like I’m being dramatic and overreacting but I can’t explain the feeling I get I’m so terrified of giving myself up and

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The Sister Guide

@thesisterguide

2 years

being vulnerable to someone who does not owe me any loyalties and could very well either make or break my life. I’ve had experiences with men in the past and they’ve all been time wasters broke horrible narcissistic and mean.

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The Sister Guide

@thesisterguide

2 years

I’m about to get married to my fiancé but he told me something that will change our dynamic. He admits he is currently sponsoring a family member from back home and he is bringing her to Canada as his Wife 💍 Should I still go through with the wedding or leave? 👰🏾

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The Sister Guide

@thesisterguide

2 years

ANNOUNCEMENT: We are creating a separate page called ‘The Sister-verse’ where we will post weekly magazine submissions from sisters. Ideally we want you guys to share a long story (start to finish) about an experience or something that you’re really passionate about.

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The Sister Guide

@thesisterguide

2 years

He is meant to meet my family in a month but things have gone downhill. He has said a number of concerning things: - That he thinks I’m lazy - That I need to lose WEIGHT - How he plans for us to have sex up 5 times a day I still want to be with him but I’m confused 😔

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The Sister Guide

@thesisterguide

2 years

We have two of our very first submissions. Thank you to the two lovely women who shared their stories. Such heart breaking stories but one that will make you think, smile and ultimately take lessons from it. It will be released tomorrow night at 8PM. #TheSisterGuide

The Sister Guide

@thesisterguide

2 years

ANNOUNCEMENT: We are creating a separate page called ‘The Sister-verse’ where we will post weekly magazine submissions from sisters. Ideally we want you guys to share a long story (start to finish) about an experience or something that you’re really passionate about.

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The Sister Guide

@thesisterguide

2 years

Hey sisters! A young lady is raising money for her grandmother who has passed away. May Allah swt grant her the highest rank in Jannah. If you are unable to donate, please keep her in your duas. Supporting each other is what we do here 🤎

Sadaqah Jariya for our grandmother Ubah Farah, organized by Aisha Karim

Firstly, we would like to say Ramadan Mubarak to you and your family. We hop… Aisha Karim needs your support for Sadaqah Jariya for our grandmother Ubah Farah

www.gofundme.com

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The Sister Guide

@thesisterguide

2 years

This morning someone sent over a submission and all we can say is wow 😭 1) Not sure how you can write 1800 words in a few hours and 2) We read it and loved the brutal honesty I need updates NOW! Anyways see you this Sunday at 8pm 🤫

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The Sister Guide

@thesisterguide

2 years

Thinking women are materialistic and shallow the second that they express their want for a roof over their head and good life 🚩

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@thesisterguide

2 years

‘I’m getting married and my Racist future mother in law hates me. She calls me names like buuran(FATTY), folhum(UGLY) and stuff. I’ve told him about it but he just says don’t listen to her.’ Would you still marry him if his Mother was like this??

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The Sister Guide

@thesisterguide

8 months

You asked, and we DELIVERED! 🚀 Introducing the all-new Sister Guide Forum, your go-to destination for connection, advice, and empowerment. Join our vibrant community today and embark on a journey of growth and sisterhood! 💪💬

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The Sister Guide

@thesisterguide

2 years

QABIL: His Mother doesn’t want her son to marry me because I’m not a Lander?? But we have been together for 3 years

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The Sister Guide

@thesisterguide

2 years

inalillahi wainailaihi rajiun May Allah grant your cousin the highest rank in Jannah 💔 also may he ease your family’s pain and suffering during this hard time For those reading, please donate whatever you can

edward elric

@ashjan1st

2 years

my beautiful cousin passed away during such a blessed month, i ask if you can all make dua for her and donate to her gofundme to help with funeral costs. every little helps💔

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@thesisterguide

2 years

Im divorced for 3 years now. My previous marriage was very difficult and traumatizing. I have had a man recently approach me for a proposal, we spoke for hours on end almost every other day, our conversations lasted 5-6 hours every time, he’s goofy.

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@thesisterguide

2 years

Am I being unreasonable for not wanting my Fiancé to invite his closest boys to our Wedding? It’s because they tried to break us up and are never in support of our relationship. 👰

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@thesisterguide

2 years

I asked my sister to tell me when her Husband is coming so I can put on my Hijab. She responded with: “Why would he LOOK at you.”

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@thesisterguide

2 years

I AM BORED OF MY HUSBAND 😑 I got married when the whole world shut down so I thought at least I will enjoy it married. Wrong I got bored of my husband after a few months in.

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The Sister Guide

@thesisterguide

2 years

Hey girlies 🤎🤎 We are returning back after Eid with The Sister Guide and yes the Sisterverse too! 😁 We have a few stories lined up but want to give some of you guys the opportunity to feature yours on the sisterverse Instructions below if you guys are interested👇🏾

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The Sister Guide

@thesisterguide

2 years

After 6 months of ZERO contact, he had recently contacted me to apologise for the way things had been left. He told me he had been going through some things and it was not personal and would like to pick things up from where we’d left of as he is in a much better place right now.

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The Sister Guide

@thesisterguide

2 years

Is He with you for the sake of being with you? Asked by ANON

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The Sister Guide

@thesisterguide

2 years

WE ARE BACK!!!!

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The Sister Guide

@thesisterguide

2 years

Goodness me. I would rather be Single than be a Sugar Momma. Would you guys genuinely consider marrying a person like this???

The Sister Guide

@thesisterguide

2 years

I can’t believe what I have just read…

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The Sister Guide

@thesisterguide

2 years

Read here at

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The Sister Guide

@thesisterguide

2 years

@A6Asap I am married.

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The Sister Guide

@thesisterguide

2 years

Her life is still private, the message was anonymous. Something many are you are not understanding

susubinladden

@susubinladden

2 years

@thesisterguide - and not have it on Twitter as a discussion 😭private life= happy life

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The Sister Guide

@thesisterguide

8 months

Already ! We love to see it! We've got a fresh perspective from a new member seeking advice. 🤔👉 What advice would you give to this sister who wants to divorce after just 8 months of marriage?

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The Sister Guide

@thesisterguide

2 years

Felt like we needed to make this clear, but this is for girls that wanted an OLDER SISTER. Stop trying to change the direction of where this is going.

For the Girls that just wanted an older Sister... - The Sister Guide

Lula here, although I appreciate the advice regarding what religious backing I should include in my answers. This is simply not the place for it. There are so many places you can go to if you want a...

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The Sister Guide

@thesisterguide

2 years

Quickly want to let you guys know we are making important changes to the website but ensuring that it still remains anonymous, however it helps us weed out what is credible and what’s not. Thread:

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The Sister Guide

@thesisterguide

2 years

Read TheSisterGuide’s advice here at

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The Sister Guide

@thesisterguide

2 years

Hey girls no submission will be posted on Sunday, there’s too many to look through & check for errors and your girl has an assignment due on Monday 😭 but we will be back next week Sunday for another feature on The Sisterverse! Questions will be answered on Monday too

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The Sister Guide

@thesisterguide

2 years

Of course 🤎

hodan omar

@hodanom56229203

2 years

@thesisterguide Is this available with sub titles for the deaf sisters ❤️

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The Sister Guide

@thesisterguide

2 years

I want to get married to a man who has previously been divorced, he has no Job, No Degree and he has a Weed Addiction. But my biggest problem is he only prays sometimes

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The Sister Guide

@thesisterguide

2 years

Hey my lovelies, I deleted the recent post about the sister. There were just too many negative opinions, and it was at her expense. Honestly it was getting a bit ruthless and that’s not in the spirit of what we want to do

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The Sister Guide

@thesisterguide

2 years

I called off my wedding for someone in my past but he ended up ghosting me.

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The Sister Guide

@thesisterguide

2 years

Read now at

My Father's Ultimatum - The Sister Guide

How my Dad could that to me was so hurtful it forced me to see what I was brushing under the carpet. The way I lived meant that my bar was so low i had no expectations for a Husband. The men I went...

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@thesisterguide

2 years

The guy I recently started talking to got upset because I fell asleep on the phone and the next night he ignored me. When i asked him why, he said “he said i got used to you falling asleep so I didn’t bother” Is this guy being Manipulative? 👀

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The Sister Guide

@thesisterguide

2 years

Girl I recently found a stash of love letters from a girl that my husband used to talk to before we got married He has been reading the love letters again!

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The Sister Guide

@thesisterguide

2 years

PART TWO

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2 years

PART 3

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@thesisterguide

2 years

Does this make me fake? There is a girl at Uni who is the president of our society. We heard that she enables racism and sexism. I’ve never confronted her when she came to a birthday dinner, instead I gossiped about her when she left. Does this make me fake and two-faced? 🤔

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The Sister Guide

@thesisterguide

2 years

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The Sister Guide

@thesisterguide

8 months

Sara190 is spitting! “I think a lot of children of narcissists tend to gravitate toward narcissistic friends. After all, we were trained at a very early age that we exist only to serve the narcissist. I learned from a therapist that I'm less likely to see Narcs coming because-”

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The Sister Guide

@thesisterguide

2 years

Mind what you tweet here (I’m talking to you men) because we use the block button very generously

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The Sister Guide

@thesisterguide

2 years

For example: I have 12 sibilings and hate all 12 of them - what do I do sis But in a previous entry you said: I’m an only child and I need friends 🤔

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The Sister Guide

@thesisterguide

2 years

PRISON BAE: My man is going to prison for 14 months, he gave me the choice to end things, but should I stick by him?

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The Sister Guide

@thesisterguide

2 years

Ladies, how would you respond to this brother?

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@thesisterguide

2 years

We have reached 100 followers!!

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The Sister Guide

@thesisterguide

2 years

Being anonymous is as private as you can get

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@thesisterguide

2 years

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@thesisterguide

2 years

I’ve been with this guy for 3 years pushing 4. He keeps making false promises about going to marry me and that it’s just not the right time. But am I wasting my time? There are no financial issues as he is stable. So what’s the problem?

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@thesisterguide

2 years

Is this a justifiable reason to NOT get married? “Somali women are running from the realisation that their marriages will become like their parents but want to chase that ecstasy of love” 🧐

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@thesisterguide

2 years

It was and people were saying it didn’t happen. But these set ups are is very common, particularly in the U.K.

hodan

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2 years

@thesisterguide Lol isn’t this was mt was fighting for three discussion ago ?

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2 years

Be patient ???

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@thesisterguide

2 years

Read here at

The Other Woman - The Sister Guide

‘She wasn’t the other woman I was’ Hi Ladan and Lula. More than a Divorcee inspired me and made me want to share a this part of my life that not many people know about. I have been trying to move...

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@thesisterguide

2 years

I am newly married. 3 months to be exact and wallah I am not sure I made the right decision. I feel like I don't have my own space or my own time. I am constantly trying to save face, me and my husband werent together for that long before we got married (less than a year)

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The Sister Guide

@thesisterguide

2 years

What would you do if your cousin married you ex?

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@thesisterguide

2 years

Should women have a ‘Fuck Off Fund’ ‘salam sis, i like the idea of a ‘fuck off fund’ for women but do you tell your husband? my friends husband was quite annoyed about her fund..’

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@thesisterguide

2 years

My ex who I believe is my soulmate got forcefully married to a girl back home because of his mom. He tried marrying me but failed to convince his mom (she threatened to disown him and fell ill) This happened with another of his exes and his mom denied him that time as well.

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The Sister Guide

@thesisterguide

2 years

I want to get married to my SO but he doesn’t have his shit together, how long should I wait? My ex from the past tho hit me up and he is more financially stable and ready to get married. Should I consider him instead? Do you think she’s getting married for the right reasons? 👀

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@thesisterguide

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My wedding is in a few months and I DON’T want my friends to come to my wedding because I am afraid they will ruin my wedding and give me Evil Eye. Is she justified in feeling this way or do you think she is being a bridezilla?

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@thesisterguide

2 years

Every relationship I’ve ever seen in life has been dysfunctional. Shambolic. Hellish even. I’m so scared of marriage

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@thesisterguide

2 years

Come see audacity here at

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@thesisterguide

2 years

UPDATE! ‘Since I wrote that confession my heart’s been really heavy and I spent time praying and asking God to help me navigate how I should speak to my old friend…’ Messages like this make my heart feel so warm🤎🤎 ALHAMDULILAH

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@thesisterguide

2 years

Sisters???? Your girl was on vacation but we are back!

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The Sister Guide

@thesisterguide

2 years

Every man that approaches me is either MARRIED or in a relationship. It always ends up with their partners calling me on no caller ID saying that I’m a whore. Now I’m just done with everything, can’t trust them and I’ve been cheated on before so i know how it feels. What do I do?

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