Tyler Perry said before you marry someone you need to see them in all 5 seasons, When they HAPPY, MAD, STABLE, BROKE, & been HURT. I fw that because sometimes we wonder why people change on us & it's not really change it's just who they are under certain condition…
I’m not gone lie, I been there before.. Blowing up the phone, begging to be treated right, & giving chance after chance. But the more time I spend alone, the more I realize it don’t take all that. If somebody care about you, they not gone put you in a predicament to do the most!
I can’t wait til my man marry me 🥰🥰🥰 imma be like girrrl I gotta go my husband be tripping!!! My husband need me to cook. My husband need me to rub his feet😂😂 no but foreal the goal is marriage. Not to be in a relationship having kids doing wifey things for years w/o a ring
You gotta PUT YOUR FOOT DOWN in your life‼️ Block numbers, stay away from fake love, stop letting ppl play with you, grind, get your spirit & mind right & stay focused! ✨ You gotta demand positivity, claim it, speak it, SEE it. ❤️
Nothing is more challenging than really working on yourself 😭 trying to break bad habits you picked up , trying to forgive , trying to change your thought process , working on your attitude just being honest with yourself about things you need to work on within yourself‼️💯
stop sending long paragraphs & messages explaining how you feel, just don't say anything. I've learned that it doesn't matter what you say, if they don't care they just don't. And nothing you say will change that. Keep your guard up. Don't waste your time and energy.
ONE THANG BOUT ME I NEVER BEEN A LEECH OR A USER NO MATTER WHO IM WITH RELATIONSHIPS WISE OR WHO IM HANGING WITH FRIEND WISE I ALWAYS BRING SOME TO THE TABLE EVEN ON MY BROKEST DAYS I WILL MAKE SOME HAPPEN😮💨💯💯💯
So glad my mama taught me to always keep
A job & to have some money .. I been working since I was 16 & never looked back. I’m gone keep a Job & some money that’s just me 🤎
STAY CLOSE to the ones that’s telling you they’re proud of you🥰 , encouraging you🤞🏾& motivating you🤝... & STAY FAR FAR AWAY from the ones thats pointing out to you the things you DONT have , downing you , being negative & most importantly OVERLOOKING all your accomplishments .
I'm naturally a loner. Even towards my own family. I really don't care to be in someone's face. I'm clingy when I love someone, but. the distance I can give a person is unreal
NORMALIZE FRIENDS OUTGROWING EACH OTHER WITHOUT ANIMOSITY! We all move differently and have different priorities. We grow and change, its life. some people are not meant nor ready to be apart of your next journey. At the end of the day…. it’s still all LOVE 🖤
Bitches will fw a nigga after you & do the most just to show YOU, she fw that nigga 😂 FIRST OFF, IDGAF about none of you hoes period.. SECOND, ANY nigga I ever fucked with always run back rather its now or later YOU HOES BE WASTING YALL FEELINGS & TIME PROVING SHIT TO ME ‼️
Im working to be a BETTER woman 🦋I don’t want to just LOOK GOOD I want my mind, soul and spirit to be cleansed and pure.. & I pray that God continues to remove anything that interferes with my growth ✨🧘🏽❤️
I’m VERY selective about who I let get close to me. Not because I’m mean or bougie but because I’m highly SENSITIVE and EMPATHETIC. & I now understand some people are just too spiritually draining for me to be in a healthy CLOSE relationship with🙂🫶🏽.
Please don’t mistake being “Put up” with I don’t go outside, or don’t have fun. When I say I’m “Put up” it means I’m at home, I’m comfortable, I’m at peace. You not gone catch me on the scene all the time, but I pop out when I need to or want to though.😌
And if I don’t say it enough THANK YOU GOD for everything you’ve done for me , brought me thru and still taking me thru 😩😩🥹🥹 you literally move mountains 🥱🫶🏾 there’s nothing bigger than you . IN GOD I TRUST 🩷 .
I’m not embarrassed by shit a nigga put me thru or no female he fucked wit BEHIND my back, or FUCKED behind my back that's his karma🤷🏾♀️ Everybody will or done played the fool before! If you haven't, learn life! . Don't let his fuck ups make you feel some type of way.
This may sound harsh, but as a woman you cannot surround yourself with a bunch of miserable women & thrive. I know everyone has their moments & goes through things but some are just internally miserable & will never be able to lift you or genuinely be happy for you.
Have Y’all Ever Just Sat & Cried Cause You Want Better 🥺😢💔 But Don’t Know Where To Start Because You’ve Been In and Out A Dark Place For A Long Time!!!! Some Days Idk If I’m Coming Or Going But I Definitely Get Up And Show Up!! God All I Ask Is For You To Guide Me
I think the BIGGEST Lesson I’ve learnt between last year & this year, “you can NOT Make MFs be to you, who you are to THEM”…... just because you wouldn’t , doesn’t mean THEY Wouldn’t, & just because you WOULD , don’t mean they WOULD ‼️You lose every time you act out of emotion.
❤️ : I'm getting my life together , keeping my circle small , learning on keeping my things private , just also trying to accept some situations , the way they are & also staying in my lane not bothering anyone ❤.
bitches always publicly judging and talking down on what the next bitch do/did but be doing the same shit if not worse behind closed doors. that’s why I never gaf about what nan ho had to say about me 😂 I stand on my shit! y’all play innocent
I don’t tell my story because I don’t like sympathy! Just know I’m a walking testimony. You wouldn’t believe HALF the stuff I’ve been through because of the way I carry myself! I am Forever BLESSED! Literally protected by the grace of GOD!