that person who didn’t put an effort into courting you, didn’t ask you to officially be theirs, doesn’t plan dates and doesn’t take time to know you is unfortunately not the love of your life.
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@thandoau
I think people know this but don’t care. Or they don’t know and still don’t care. But either way, some people aren’t really after reciprocity but the unending rigmarole that makes them question their self worth. Not many yearn for the idealistic love story.
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@shcadbury
oh you clocked it. because effort exists in different forms and all of it is sparked by some level of care.
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@thandoau
Ain't that the truth! It's like some people think relationships are a free ride or something. You know, they put in zero effort, and then they're all surprised when things don't work out. Like, hello? Relationships ain't a one-way street. You gotta put in some work!
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@thandoau
Fortunately you mean. Once the rose colored glasses come off you will see what you mistaken as love was really infatuation. The gross realization will force you into a healing journey understanding that You were the problem. He was always showing you who he was🫣 u just didn't…
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