so the growing consensus is that you just know. that’s beautiful 🥺🫶🏽

@thandoau Often it’s the first date that seals the deal. I have met with many couples who also married shortly after dating and their answer was such. Same goes with me. I didn’t know how to feel because it was our first date but deep down I knew this is the man I want to do life with 🙏🏽

@MrsBashaT lovely … 🥹🥹🥹🥺

@thandoau Big same. It’s so beautiful man. 🤌🏾

@Ziie___ love and more love 🥺🥺 >

@thandoau You just know … God it’s magical you can’t explain how you know

@MavundlaNokwazi 🥺🥺🤍

@thandoau Before our first date, we talked every night starting at 8pm and ending at midnight. I went on 2 vacations (Florida and Atlanta) and a work trip (Los Angeles) and we still talked. We had Grown Folk Conversation asking and answering every question, talked about everything.

@Yoakumgirl this is lovely 🥹🫶🏽

@thandoau For me it was the peace and stability she brought into my life.

@krapulana 🥹🥹

@thandoau @asyaajinsu I met my husband during one of my darkest times , we were long distance at first and he was so supportive, encouraging & he never left me to deal with anything alone.. still til this day that’s my bestie. Couldn’t live without him

@_SheQue @asyaajinsu we are always surrounded by angels; like we never really go through things alone 🥹🥹

@thandoau I had a list he didn't know about, and he ticked all. He is kind, supportive, understanding, protective, loving, yielding, truthful and faithful..these and more were why I said yes . Yh, I prayed about it and felt peace,had no doubts...

@thandoau @storyofhalima This married couple met at Oxford in grad school. She never backed up her hard drive. So he always went in her room and did it secretly. One day it crashed and she “lost” 4 months of her dissertation. He told her he’d been saving it all this time🥹. Been married 20+ yrs

@thandoau some dude said on their first date he shit his pants while sneezing n the wife went to the ladies' room to give him space to run away from the restaurant/date. he knew that moment that he wanted to marry her. been going on dates n hoping for my date to shit himself since

@thandoau Same here😂😂like what made you so sure that she is the one ?

@thandoau I think it's the colour of her lipstick. Like how she dress and address the world. It say a lot

@thandoau Such a deep thinker you're!

@thandoau Sometimes akho kwa defining moment, uvuyela nj'uba kukhethwe wena