@thandoau
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3 years
Genuinely. Nothing performative.
@kekeletso_Ma
Ma’Ndlovu
3 years
Do you prefer being loved loudly or silently?
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@S_LeGee
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3 years
@thandoau @leloh_ Before i give my 2cents tell me the difference
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@thandoau
t.
3 years
@S_LeGee Their decision of how they want to love me should be influenced by their own internal factors and less about showing me that they can love me a certain way. I want them to be comfortable to do whatever they feel is right and have the agency over their decisions.
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@foreveragem
Dr. gemhera
3 years
@thandoau Intentionally with integrity.
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@thandoau
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3 years
@itsheratime Yes! 🥺❤️
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@bigthebla
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3 years
@thandoau @Lineo__ What a perfect response this is 🥺
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@thandoau
t.
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@KyessiaW
♌️TheBestLeoEver!🦁
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@thandoau @jiggyjayy2 The BEST type of love ❤
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@thandoau
t.
3 years
@KyessiaW Agreed.
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@Cant_BeStopped
Been Outside
3 years
@thandoau Great answer
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@thandoau
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@BuffDaddy023
Michael Corleone
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@thandoau
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@yknott918
Yetteve
3 years
@thandoau @deray In the way they do it best
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@thandoau
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@Lebo__
Princess Kotini
3 years
@thandoau Love this🤌🏾❤️
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@thandoau
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@Lebo__ ❤️
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@RadiateRoyalty
Radiate Royalty (“Crown Your Confidence”)
3 years
@thandoau I concur, it will be easier for consistency as the relationship advances. A performative love language in a relationship does not have longevity. We need to avoid "You have changed" in the long run. Be authentic and gradually improve in how you love with time.
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@thandoau
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3 years
@RadiateRoyalty ♥️ Performative actions only last for about three months which is why people rarely make it past that. Building a relationship through consistency and being genuine is far better.
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@thandoau Exactly
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@thandoau
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3 years
@moshibudi_ 😙❤️
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