@S_LeGee
Their decision of how they want to love me should be influenced by their own internal factors and less about showing me that they can love me a certain way. I want them to be comfortable to do whatever they feel is right and have the agency over their decisions.
@thandoau
I concur, it will be easier for consistency as the relationship advances. A performative love language in a relationship does not have longevity. We need to avoid "You have changed" in the long run. Be authentic and gradually improve in how you love with time.
@RadiateRoyalty
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Performative actions only last for about three months which is why people rarely make it past that. Building a relationship through consistency and being genuine is far better.