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eternally in the process of learning new things and then realizing how much more i still have to learn they/he, 26

Pittsburgh, PA
Joined April 2012
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1 year
Photoshoot time
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2 years
honestly white nonbinaries need to get into gaelic names instead of east asian ones, look how many vowels there are that's so nonbinary
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once again returning to my thesis that sexuality is frequently about desired dynamics with people, and genders inform the dynamics possible
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9 months
what makes you gay is if you associate topping with not cumming instead of bottoming, like straight ppl
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1 year
I wish white trans ppl understood better that what might be gender affirming to a white trans person could be rly fucked up to say to a non white trans person w the same or similar gender
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2 years
When you show up to the gay bar and realize transmascs only have ONE slutty outfit @legandsickle
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1 year
Haha! Hoo! Wow! Yeah Huh! Anyways!
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2 months
Inventing FtM branded makeup for darkening your moustache and calling it MascEra
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2 years
transmascs who don't hang out with any transfemmes are so weird to me like doing anything the girls need is the whole job description
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1 year
white nonbinary ppl need to move past thinking bad haircuts make you more androgynous
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8 months
I'm going to [redacted] myself
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6 months
u know i respect trans ppl having whatever relationship w their assigned gender they want to but i rly do think many transmascs would feel better if they understood the way they were treated as children as having more to do with their transmasculinity than w being seen as a girl
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3 years
personally i am a lesbian because i love sucking dick
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2 years
i just think it's a bit suspicious when ppl fully accept a lesbian being into a afab nonbinary transmasc but don't feel the same with an amab nonbinary person with the same gender/presentation like why do u feel like that's different huh
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1 year
Every January and February ppl start wondering if they're a terrible fucked up person with no path in life and then the sun comes back a lil later and it's like woah seasonal depression is real
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3 years
tired of ~nervous lesbian who can't communicate~ culture yall need to get your shit together
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4 months
Ultimately the idea that 'if you Really weren't transphobic you wouldn't have dysphoria because you'd accept that your body can look like anything while still being your gender' is a Deeply transphobic one
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@sundaysundya
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4 years
Good morning if you think I'm hot you're gay
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2 years
Testosterone changed me from a boob man to an ass man. Still think hormones are safe??
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4 months
If any of u are in a situation like this: get out of there! No one who thinks about you like this will ever be good for you, even if you don't take hrt
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met another trans guy at work today and he told me that he doesn’t want to start T bc his cis gf wouldn’t approve of it. so fucking sad
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3 years
lesbians that are vocal about liking masculine lesbians mean everything to me
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@sundaysundya
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4 years
This dyke walks up to you and offers to buy you a drink, what do you do?
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1 year
I liveddd
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3 years
🌈 at Niagara Falls with @ayyy_vuh 🥰🥰
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11 months
Hilarious bc half the quote tweets from transmascs on the Discourse are like 'transmascs would never misgender ourselves by saying we're afab, this harms us just as much!' and the other half are like 'what's wrong with afab only housing amabs are scary :(('
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6 months
I think that ppl have forgotten that sometimes things are just insults and not slurs
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3 months
Transmasc transfem solidarity is teaching each other to pull your pants up or down respectively. If you want them to look right 😭
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2 months
What T does is remove the dysphoria that makes you think being attracted to men would be straight lmao
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3 years
cishets still haven't figured out how to tell the difference between a gay guy and a guy whos just a bottom
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3 years
thinking about how since starting hormones randos online now categorize me as transmasc and NOT nonbinary...says something about what we act like nonbinary means
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4 months
The exact statements made towards transfems for being too loud and outspoken and rowdy due to 'male socialization' I've also heard so many times said to black cis girls and masc cis lesbians, including vague allegations of making people feel unsafe and triggered
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1 year
Just found out about transmisogyny...damn that shit sucks
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3 years
Thought I might need a haircut but this is Good Gender actually
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3 years
All this bottom growth on T and my girlfriends' dicks are still bigger than mine 😩
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4 months
I think we should talk about the antitransmasculinity that is nonbinary afab ppl in trans groups being hostile to trans men and trans mascs on T to the extent that despite the number of 'transmascs' I met in these groups I only knew one person on T in them
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personally, cis girls were treated better than me! adults and children alike pick up on the gender nonconformity way before you even clearly express any, and treat you badly for it. As transmascs, girl gender is pushed on you harder than on most cis girls for it!
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3 years
Suddenly remembered im hot
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3 months
'Genital preferences' are still weird and transphobic btw and come w a lot of wild assumptions about how someone might want to have sex
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5 months
The transmascs arguing that the poor dl guy is just a lonely closeted man are going have such a rude awakening someday like this same guy is going to convince you he wants to fuck you as a man while being upset if you actually have body hair
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3 years
Hrt consult look
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3 years
All the posts about the politics of casual sex and fwb revolve around the idea of being a straight cis woman
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11 months
believing that there's nothing you can do to make ppl read your gender correctly/reduce your dysphoria is a dark mental place that cis society tries to keep you in and it's not true!
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2 years
@kristoferthomas How do you look so bisexual like this is pure essence of it
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4 years
2015 vs 2020
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Assigned "he" at the t4t orgy months before i decided to go with it bc I "fuck like a boy"
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1 year
Bandages starting to come off, I'm so happy with the shape of my chest
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8 months
As a nonbinary transsexual, it's easy to use your genuine nonbinariness as an excuse for holding back on parts of your transition in a way that's unhealthy
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1 year
fwiw i think it's deeply unnecessary to force ppl into a pronoun circle. it'd be more polite to offer your own pronouns to the room, let anyone else who wants to offer theirs respond, and leave everyone else be. lots of trans ppl don't want to offer pronouns for a lot of reasons
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3 years
Stole my gfs clothes again 🥰
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Eggs will be like 'no I can't transition bc I think i have to be the example the world needs of a good man' like no that job's on me! Take some estrogen! You aren't responsible for men!
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4 months
Every week I read tweets that claim that trans men start T and pass as men after a few months and like??? I need yall to stop.
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I know trans guys early or pre- transition struggle a lot w the ways they aren't viewed as men but I think we really need to push back against the idea that this is an inescapable forever state intrinsic to being trans
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Gender play especially among trans ppl is actually really hot but unfortunately if you tell the wrong trans person you're into it they'll project the entire world of transphobes onto you and be really weird
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2 years
Since lesbianism is nonmen4nonmen and being gay is nonwomen4nonwomen it Is possible to be nonbinary and both gay and a lesbian. In this essay I will
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My most problematic take is that I think any trans person who hasn't tried hormones but has decided they don't want them has no clue what they're talking about
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1 year
i'm sympathetic to trans ppl who don't like drag bc they don't actually know anything and just are vaguely aware of the transphobia in drag race or that cishets perpetuate from it but UGH if you would actually interact w a real drag scene you'd realize it's mostly trans ppl
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3 years
Always forget how angry I get when I have to see "bi lesbians are harming the lesbian community" Twitter like what do you think harm is
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9 months
I feel like boy and man are more different of genders than girl and woman. Does this make sense to anyone?
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1 year
Hate this, to be direct
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3 years
I always think about the "uwu smol bean" directed at trans mascs and the "step on me and beat me up queen" directed at trans femmes and how they're part of the same phenomena
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There’s sum to be said about how trans mascs/trans men are just existing and people go out their way to infantilize, or fetishize us to prove their attraction to trans people. I can’t tell you how many times I’ve seen somebody be called “a handsome smol bean” and they’re 24...
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Ok maybe a spicy take but I really feel like nonbinary ppl with "straight" (or gay honestly but less issue here in my experience) partners especially newly out should like.... proceed with caution. Even the coolest partner can make u afraid to explore gender as much as u would
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4 years
She always gives me butterflies 🥰
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All of you making the forcemasc graphics deeply unhorny is why recruitment is failing!
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1 year
@8d6firedamage1 One that I think about is stuff about being dirty or animals, ik lots of white transmascs feel good leaning into being a rat boy or whatever but whenever ppl try to put that stuff on me it feels rly bad
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Some eggs will literally seek trans ppl out and talk like this bc they want you to say they should try hormones so then they can argue with you to talk themself out of it, it's exhausting!
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I used to live with someone like this and it was exhausting. never, ever again
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2 years
Boyfriend pussy juice just hits different
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also cis girls were the ones doing it to me as often if not more frequently than cis men! I think understanding the gendered oppression u face is frequently done by just thinking of it as a girl childhood but genuinely i think that doesn't capture it
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3 years
Dressed up to go to the front entryway to my apartment 😌
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I feel like there's a confusion in some conversations I'm seeing where trans guys talking about how those who go on about considering trans men a ~safe type of man~ are usually misgendering us and actually deeply weird about our masculinity and expect us to
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4 years
Happy #NationalGirlfriendDay Eva 💖💜❤💜💖 I love you so much
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3 months
For any baby transmascs, I promise you womens jeans are more unfriendly to hips than men's jeans 💀the sizing issue you're having is probably that you're trying to get pants that are too small for you!
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Great news guys. Transmasc denim is here
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6 months
Starting new discourse. The thing about being a tboy is that even though everyone's always like 'you have to accept that lesbians won't be into you', there's actually no point at which some lesbians won't hit on you unless u say u specifically don't want that!
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As I've crossed 3 years transitioning I'm thinking more and more about how transition really is about forming yourself into an entirely new person
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3 years
scheduled an hrt consult hhhhhhh
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4 months
Honestly even ignoring trans ppl I think that the fixation on the idea of female socialization was devastating to feminism
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3 years
This jacket is my new gender
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4 years
Feeling pretty good about my variation in gender presentation
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6 months
plus, I think my own childhood mirrors the way young transfems were also treated more closely than cis women in practice!
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3 months
I used to feel like ppl were treating me differently from how they'd treat cis men and I'd kinda just accept that I didn't pass and maybe never would, until I realized i was actually just being treated like queer cis men
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The hardest part about being polyamorous is that when I talk about my girlfriends I have to fear being interpreted as a middle aged cis woman talking about her friends :((((
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SDGJNJI this terf is so mad about trans ppl 😭😭 hope she grows out of it
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3 years
Trying to achieve the mythical "nonbinary passing"
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Why are trans guys (mostly white ones) so resistant to the idea that we might ever have power or privilege?? Like these guys go on about how implying they might ever have power is anti-transmasculinity and like???? And then the other path is just self deprecation and guilt
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"Everyone focuses on transfem issues!" No. Transfems are just speaking about themselves and getting yelled at for it
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1 year
Also stuff that is annoying regardless can take on a rly racist tone like infantilization hits rly different, actually
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Honestly I think that the 'rape is only bad if you get pregnant' stuff goes deeper than the recent transmisogyny useage
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On one hand I think that it's good for transmascs to accept that transitioning and being happy is worth more than being 'pretty' but also I see so many ppl talking about this recently who are absolutely wayyyy prettier than pretransition lol
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on here and tumblr there's so many posts saying to normalize trans ppl who don't want [transition thing] which like, are good and correct separate from anything, but in my life seem to result in many ppl genuinely not thinking most trans ppl might want [transition thing]??
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3 years
I just came out as nonbinary to my dad aha my heart is pounding
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Need ppl to not act like medical transition is a western invention/ imperialism imposed idea
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1 year
@slime_succubus Besides everything else I'd already be scared reading "very into psychology, witchcraft, food, and anime" from two white ppl lmao
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2 years on T! T has made me love my body and be able to express my genderfluidity the way I never could before. Hrt granted me freedom to experience and present the full range of gender i wanted to, it didn't lock me into anything, and it can do the same for you.
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2 years
trans ppl on hormones are very Significantly and Meaningfully not the same sex anymore and ppl not accepting this leads to a lot of medical issues.
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3 years
Happy LGBTQ+ AAPI day of visibility!
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Every tweet I see trying to claim that estrogen can't really do much that's~irreversible~ to your body I feel like I'm losing my fucking mind
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