We might not see it for what it is yet because we no longer trust our knowings only “hard facts”, but a collective loss of empathy and heart is, for a social species that requires community, an extinction warning event.
It’s gonna echo through this Earth, into the roots.
Houses were built differently.
I’ve been in 100+ degree weather in my home country of Portugal in the country side and was absolutely cool inside without fans or ac. Local stone is used and the vegetation/ trees all around help. Concrete and metal create more heat.
I have loved men unconditionally and loved their beauty and their pain when there was nothing being offered to me in exchange for it. Because they aren’t difficult to love at all. I have no regrets.
All I can say is that most of them don’t know what to do with Love.
Women take men back after unbearable humiliations not because of love but because they’re not angry enough. They get depressed. They get sad. They self implode. They feel they failed in some way.
It’s imperative to get angry and not see that anger as wrong. It’s righteous.
Saw the same in Mexico in the houses built by the Mayan. Simple design that took advantage of the wind to cool down the inside. Their designs lasted hundreds of years with minor alterations.
Basically, we traded living with the planet to living abusing it and we pay a price.
@miranva_
Online new age spirituality attracted a lot of it. No roots. No comunion. No accountability. No relational language. All vibes and navel gazing.
Boys aren’t easier to raise, you just dismiss their humanity very early on and ignore them.
They develop their interests in solitude, they conceal their anger, they accept less care and continue as functional as needed.
And inside they’re collapsing.
Some men are so empty that only the bright light of a woman that loves them can mask that void. You think you’re seeing them but you’re only seeing her love, a beacon in the darkness of his pain.
They move from one to another; in a devouring frenzy.
I grew up idolizing men and believing them to be pillars of reason and order. At this very good age of mine I can say that I was as indoctrinated as they have been. They are convinced of qualities they don’t possess, and hide behind masks daily. The biggest mask is anger.
The outside of the place in question. You don’t see sky scrapers. No need. Slow living and healthy. Even cities can be built in this scale. And in many places they have been. These places are better equipped to withstand climate changes, some of which are already inevitable.
This is so interesting because I always knew when a lover was unhappy and when I confronted it they not only denied it but made me into the crazy one that always had something to complain about.
The very same role that destroys their relationship with themselves and life.
In the end it’s a choice. Evolve out of the performance or be buried with it.
And the love of a woman won’t save you. The Mother won’t save you.
You have to sacrifice your addiction to dominance.
They have very ancient unmet needs. They don’t know exactly who they are. They are stuck in a role that is and has been unwanted. They have forced themselves and others to play a game to maintain that role. They are addicted to what that role offers them.
The neurological damage of betrayal can cause early onset dementia, memory loss, symptoms of severe PTSD, psychosis, and permanent nerve damage anyone with a soul knows betrayal is the lowest form of human behavior
Could be an 8th house thing but I have such a diverse circle of friends, and with varied degrees of depth, that I appreciate for what they are and learn from always.
But when I try to bring them together it's almost always tragic lol. They don't get along.
A good man showed me that you don’t just sit and wait for signs.
Sometimes you have to eliminate choices, and I feel that as women we get told that femininity and softness is only to be found in maiden behavior.
Commitment to your values, choosing a path is a necessity.
I’ve rarely met a logical man. It’s all surface acting. I’ve met extremely logical women. However nowadays to debate who is best in the art of reason (logos) is pointless, everyone is struggling there.
Yes he is worthy of forgiveness and love. But does it need to come from you? No. You’re not God. Let him find accountability and then let him find a life where he accepts that sometimes some mistakes cannot be solved. You’re not his mother.
If he humiliated you, he made attempts against your spiritual, emotional and psychic life and that means that he could have in other times made attempts against your physical life too. Protect yourself and never ever take him back.
A very personal take but I’ll say this:
I’m glad I spent a lot of time alone or with women and had only a couple of men in my life that I was intimate with.
Most men are destructive towards life and women, and don’t see how this kills their souls.
Girls aren’t harder to raise, you just can’t let them enjoy their freedom and explore their child selves and want to control every single element of their personalities. This control needs to relentless so you’re never relaxed, you’re never curious about your child.
@Sensenecai
Exactly. We have accepted constant fixes to a terrible way of living, that isn’t at all sustainable. I would very much prefer to live on those houses than a modern apartment with barely any air flow, surrounded by more concrete and cars.
Your easy child is not easy, your problematic kid isn’t a problem. It’s you, it’s us. Your expectations and your fears. Your inhuman demands.
Your lack of curiosity for the being that your child is. Your walled up ego. Your need to control everything in life.
Women undergo such radical transformations in their 20s but I only know a handful of guys who are fundamentally different than the person they were at 17
I need friends that aren’t afraid to ask me for what they need, aren’t afraid to tell me the truth and aren’t collecting my inevitable mistakes to them silence me if I ever remind us about doing better. They call it out as it happens.
Somebody said : “damn y’all don’t stay home 6 weeks nomore after having a baby?” Bitch! No. We don’t . This ain’t 1960. We gettin back to us lookin good feeling good.! What’s 1 night gon do? Babies sleep 21 hrs a day go to hell!!!
Abusers have memory issues around the acts they commit because they are possessed and completely disconnected from their bodies.
Many think this absolves them of any responsibility, but this confrontation with what haunts them and stalks them cannot be passed to anyone else.
I urge people to read on the effects of stress on weight gain + chronic diseases. It’s not just diet. It’s every choice you make when you are constantly in fear and anxiety.
Humans dominate nothing. The idea we are some chosen beings to rule over earth and eventually the universe is a mind virus.
Explains the neurosis that grips us and that has enslaved us to this horrific way of life.
If anything I want young women to know that their mistakes are not a life sentence. They are not the proof you are inferior but the evidence of your well deserved humanity. You can learn from them and triumph, not be terrified of them to the point of ceasing to live.
I urge people to address their childhood wounds before they get partnered and have children. Your partner cannot love you the way a child is meant to be loved. They cannot be your parent.
HAPPENING NOW: Thousands of Jewish New Yorkers are flooding the entrance to
@SenSchumer
's home protesting genocide of Palestinians in Gaza.
50+ are blocking the entrance to his home, including rabbis, elders, youth, and NY state electeds
@ZohranKMamdani
and
@MarcelaForNY
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The glory of mankind, nothing but a delusion of little men using this Earth like they use women. Forever hungry never satiated.
The glory is and forever will be the glory of Love.
People who brag about leaving their bodies and dissociate, who find it easy to devalue their needs or claim they don’t have any, who find it easy to detach, who boast about being rational at all times, those are the most fragile people and open to being possessed, being usurped.
@xm_muva
I remember when he was just being at home the first 5 years he would wear sparkly things and love dresses. He would chose cars and “typical boy toys” too because he didn’t care about labels and we put none. The moment society caught him … “that’s for girls” 😭🫠
The fear of vulnerability is this: what if someone sees into you and discover that the carefully crafted version of you that you yourself believed to be, isn’t true?
What if you have nothing inside?
I will never date a spiritual man ever again in my life. A man that loves God sure. That lives by God. That does work that is needed.
The preaching should be left to women because these men are too far gone at this point. They need to go build houses and do charity.
@xm_muva
I’m thankful that for the majority he still stands his ground. He won’t cut his hair and he keeps his plushies with him at all times. And he’s very respectful. But the work to guide him through the claws of dominance culture is so heartbreaking at times.
How often in different settings I tried to get closer to men and understand them, but it always felt shallow. Always elusive. And I wondered if it was just me and my emotionally, of course.
But the anger was always telling.
The biggest fear of a boy is to become a man. Because it means a absolute devotion to the values of one’s heart. And that means facing death in the defense of everything you are. So when society offers men an escape, a hiding place from this battle, they take it.
Regardless. The ideas of men and women we have are deformities and coping mechanisms developed to live in a violent world. Men have accepted a lot of spiritual damage done to them, and I truly believe they should stop doing so and reclaim themselves.
Listen. It’s not bad to lose faith in this world. It’s a profound shock yes, and it comes with grieving. But it’s needed, because this world is a lie. To plant your feet in the soil and feel the pain of this earth is to accept reality, and to comfort those who have suffered.
People who judge others for not leaving abusive relationships fast enough or falling prey to them, should look in the mirror because most of us are in an abusive relationship with this way of life - capitalism- and rationalize everyday why we can’t end it.
Unfortunately I know where this comes from and it’s a sign of immaturity.
They’re afraid of abandonment because they don’t feel like they’re enough. They’re haunted by a feeling of being empty, of being a fraud. So it’s preferable to be in control to minimize the pain.
Men try to control women when they can’t control themselves.
Truth is, men need more guidance and support than women. Need more order in place, but when this is not available they resent women/ nature instead and punish us and all life.
@YuzuruTheLegend
I understand that 💯 but that’s also consequence of us not living in balance with the planet. Whatever we do now that doesn’t address fundamentally changing how we live will only be a palliative measure. The ACs won’t matter much if every system is overwhelmed.
Y’all doxxed the black therapists lady, y’all doxxed the Home Depot girl. Y’all real live attacking black women and ruining their lives for NO REASON. That’s shit gotta end TODAY!
A good man in this life suffers. I have told men that as much as they have good women around it’s just not enough. We are not enough.
You need the creator, you need nature, you need brotherhood and mentors.
And you have to be that for another.
I’m appreciative of my sadness.
It’s sobering. It’s grounding. It leads me to accept more.
It’s not denial of joy, like I was told by everyone growing up. It makes real joy mean something, instead of it becoming escapism.
Many people tell me that if I pushed myself harder I’d accomplish this and that, but they don’t know what I have to answer to. They don’t know what speaks to me. They don’t know how life limits me. They don’t even respect their own limitations.
I was hurt that I couldn’t find a man that I saw as the embodiment of life that I respected. But I was being protected. I’m grateful for it. Nothing compares to admiring a man and being able to direct your love towards him fully.
I’m sorry to those proud to be heartless.
You might not understand what will be done to your soul, but we do. You curse yourself more than you imagine.
I haven’t ever and most women I know haven’t either but you then realize that men have in fact reduced themselves to it and have a deep resistance to leave that role. And will in fact punish you for their insecurities around money and status.
Caring for children is exhausting. Rewarding yes. Beautiful yes.
But raising a human being is the most complicated endeavor we can take. Emotionally and spiritually. To force women to have children in a world completely unequipped to support families is absolutely demonic.
I just need everyone to be really careful with who you share your good news and good deeds. Honestly people are possessed by demons at this point like an epidemic. Better keep it to ourselves.
I know social media can make you money but you also pay a price.
Some UK woman on tiktok has been making videos about how she’s been feeding people (partly through an allotment) in her community who are struggling due to the cost of living crisis and then yesterday she posts that someone went and salted her land so she can’t grow food anymore
That or expected me to accept they were unhappy while they made me very aware that they would do nothing to change that. I can’t even count the amount of women I know with similar experiences.
The abuser has no identity. They have nothing inside and rage against you because you dare exist.
There is nothing to idolize in the abuser, the exploiter. They are not strong, they are hollow shells that can only get your attention by manipulation and violence.
If their existence means their love then yes, their existence is the prize.
Just as my lover existing is the greatest gift from the creator.
If we lived by this sacredness we would have a completely different world.
People who complain about prepared foods should go and volunteer to cook to their disabled or sick neighbors, to pregnant moms, to moms with new borns.
“She’s one of the guys. She’s a cool girl.”
The way I one day realized they were saying they wanted to fuck women but date men. The way I realized that women were domesticated into becoming an extension of men, bending their nature into a caricature. A Dali’s painting.
We are too obsessed with just flowing, but the Mother is the entering of one path and leaving all others behind. There’s a soft power there, a strength that I can’t put into words easily. But it’s a conquering of our hearts, not its martyrdom.
The problem is that a spiritual man that actually studies the occult and esoteric knowledge and goes all the way, understands his role and what lies he has been fed. But most of them turn that knowledge against women, they can’t deal with the truth.
That’s why I stand by those who carry that mark of Venus. The mark of the moon too. That curiosity for what’s underneath. The love of the roots. The desire to shine bright, to be in love with life. To enjoy. To feel pleasure. To touch. To feel everything intensely.
If there’s one thing I deeply cared for was the emotional and spiritual well-being of the ones I love. I would never be ok if they weren’t ok ( which I had to learn to let go and not descend into hell with them in the process).
People don’t change much from 18-30…
Motherfuckers are simply older with more responsibilities
You may change some shit but fundamentally as a human your the same person
A man that has left a trail of destruction behind him, that has harmed women before reaching you, that attempts against your protection, even if you don’t receive the worst of him, he leaves you in a state of devastation.
All that energy is pollution. Desecration.
Women:
The choice isn’t between marriage or a career. That’s a distraction.
Remember what you’re here for.
Pure chaos.
Be unknowable, defy, burn their shit down.
Take any road that represents this for you.
Women are not submissive by nature. That’s why you have to groom them constantly to achieve that. You have to deprive them of belief in their capacity to lead and to provide and to protect. You have to make them think that their openness to life is a submission to men.
Confirmed what I have always known. People have kids because they should or because they look cute, for social status. Most people know absolutely nothing of what it takes to raise a human being.
If the mild “shut down” of 2020 taught me nothing else, is that A LOT of parents do not like their children, or saw educating them as part of their responsibility. They were begging to reopen schools during a pandemic to not have to be around them.
Women aren’t getting masculine, they’re remembering the natural power that was stolen from them violently.
I hope they also remember the ways that they have misused this power.
I hope men remember that they have been used for centuries by the elites to destroy life on Earth.
Those people raising kids in a farm somewhere remote and that don’t have social media, that make love abundantly, that have Sunday family gatherings and live quiet full lives of love and resilience.
Women that refuse to have children are likely just listening to a part of Nature that most would prefer to ignore.
It’s easier to blame them than to recognize this world is not safe for children.
Studying my chart in sidereal and Vedic I saw that a lot of the hatred that was directed at me since a child was due to Venus being my ruling planet.
I was blind to it for a long time, because I genuinely love to serve and bask in beauty.
When you untangle yourself from abuse you will see how every part of this world is built in the same way.
And once you do you really grasp your responsibility.
A lot of people don’t want to let go because it’s a very lonely path.
I was too forgiving.
You have to be willing to obliterate people who cross your path with the intention of harming you. If they don’t care for consequences neither should you care what they experience because of that carelessness.
As I matured I understood that the reality is that most adults are underdeveloped and stunted, they don’t know who they are and move in the world completely unaware of reality, full of delusions and stuck in trauma, unable to blossom into their best selves.
Ngl I think a lot more people need to spend more time with themselves to develop who they are. A lot of adults just be taking on Internet personalities
A lot of people do have children but don’t like them. They like the control over a being that has absolutely no means to defend themselves, they want to extract obedience and unconditional love to fill an ancient void.
This is why Love is revolutionary. It destroys these curses.