@sunuhealing
Because black women have been taught that love looks like sacrifice & putting everyone before you. We’ve also been branded as ‘strong.’ So, all we do is pour into everything & everyone around us, & our selves last, if at all. & of course we are fine, because we are strong.
@zajiheanaj
@ladidaix
I honestly think he was not prepared for the grenades Katt was throwing, lol. Everytime he tried to read off one of the cue cards, he got blown away by another bomb drop by Katt.
@Breezybrim_
U are not alone. I used to pride myself on looking my best even on my worst days. I am a master at compartmentalizing.. so I can still show up and function at a high level. & I pour into everyone around me.. but eventually you crash. You can only hold so much.
After this Twitter Space I jus listened to.. I jus want to let my following know to be mindful of persons posturing as recruiters, career coaches, resume writers, ats experts, etc. Not everyone with a large following is operating with integrity and many want to take advantage.
Thank you all for chiming in on the thread and helping each other… thank you for being vulnerable. So many encouraging words shared and resources provided. I don’t have all the answers, so thank you so much for being your sisters’ keepers. Let’s keep lifting each other. 🤍
I hate the “what do you do for work” talks in DC, so I’ve gotten to the point of keeping it very vague. You can’t have a casual moment w/o someone asking what do you do for work.. so, ya concise and vague unless I’m at a networking/recruiting event.
@speakmercedesj
You don’t deserve hate mail, but the post you made was not encouraging, it was condescending. “I don’t have the bandwidth to give lessons on salary negotiations” - Tell the candidate to ask for more, you should always have the bandwidth to do the right thing.
GOOD MORNING! I’m going to drop this here, because I get so many outreach from persons interested in opportunities beyond my scope of responsibilities. Here is a reminder of what I do, the roles I support, and the markers I work with. I don’t want to waste my time or yours!
You know the more I think about it… the more absurd it is to me that teachers are so grossly underpaid. The ppl who we entrust to educate the next generation? That’s wild.
Spent yesterday morning updating my resume, because why the hell not! No matter how great of a work experience you are having, STAY READY, lol. Especially in this market, chileee. We wake up to madness everyday!
@jeremeviews
@ytechie
In all seriousness, isn’t it a better spend of your time to engage with brands/opportunities you like? I don’t understand why the back and forth. You don’t like Microsoft… OKAY, lol.
A candidate with 2 years of experience share that their comp expectation is $240k base, $60k sign on bonus, and $120k stock. Idk if I’m impressed or floored. I’ve seen persons with way more years of experience ask for half of that. Comp conversations are always very interesting.
@SneakySqekySnek
Take a breath. My tweet was made in jest after hearing about the disgruntled Twitter employees. Some ppl will leave, some will stay… new persons will join. It’s kinda how these things go when new leadership takes over.
Dear Black Hollywood… Please, let’s take a break from slavery movies in 2023. The imagery is triggering af. 🥺 Can we get some more black joy and black excellence? Thanks.
Recruiters/Sourcers .. Ur job isn’t simply to find great talent, but to advocate for said talent & to be a consultant to the business. The more I interact with HMs/Business Ldrs.. I realize how little alot of them know about what’s happening in the market. They need our insights!
Hi Tweeps! This Wed I will be hosting a Twitter Space! I am nervous, but more excited to facilitate this conversation. So many persons reached out after my tweet so I felt a sense of responsibility to continue exploring this topic. Set your reminders!
@speakmercedesj
U had the chance to change someone’s life & u fumbled. She may have said that’s what she wanted, but she obviously did not know her earning potential with this opportunity. I can understand couple thousands, but a $45k difference?! If u could tweet, u could email her. Do better.
I’ve seen Kanika host Twitter spaces for 4+ hours in one session. That’s half of a standard work day! That’s an insane investment of time. Nobody is doing that unless they genuinely care. Take care of yourself, love!
@KanikaTolver
Y’all have some ineffective job search strategies. Doesn’t it make more sense to visit the career site first and then come back with opportunities aligned? Reaching out to me with, “here is my resume, if you see anything I might like, let me know” doesn’t sound strategic at all.
Not y’all selling courses on “how to be layoff proof” .. Please, fxckn stop. No such thing. So damn predatory! Stop tryna capitalize on ppl’s fears. Disgusting af!
@speakmercedesj
She was uninformed, & all u had to say was u can do better than u are asking for. It’s not an hour long conversation, it’s few words of courtesy that u would have appreciated if u were in her shoes. U did not educate anyone, in fact, I hope U have learned from this.
@ParissAthena
Is it too late to participate?! Diversity Sourcing Program Manager for Microsoft’s Global Talent Acquisition team supporting the Engineering & Operations organization! 🖤✨
@1ZOEHANI
I don’t disagree with what she expressed, I actually wholeheartedly agree. What is off putting to me is to target the advice specifically to just women. We are always policing women’s bodies and sexual choices, while men are allowed (and celebrated) for the same damn behavior.
HI ALL! I’m so excited to share with you what
@KanikaTolver
and I have been working on for a few months - a virtual career transition event in partnership with Blacks at Microsoft. Please, click the link to learn more and save the date !
#BlackTechTwitter
@_taylormms
@zajiheanaj
he’s not a journalist, lol… just a celebrity with a platform. i wouldn’t hold him to the same standards as someone who actually studied the craft.
@UXWD87
I did that to complete my MBA in HR! I was unable to find the balance at my then employer to successfully complete my studies, so I resigned, accepted a reduced role at a different company… and also a pay cut! Really had to trust myself, the process and GOD.
Why are some of you guys so rude in your outreach messages? I have a name and a basic greeting might not be a bad idea either. Companies aren’t just hiring for competency, they are also considering whether you would be a valuable culture add. Just a lil advice.. be respectful!
@speakmercedesj
What company do you work for so I know to stay clear from them? Because my employer teaches candidate advocacy. The fact that you actually think you did right by this candidate is worrisome.
At this age, life is life-ing! Your friends are getting married, becoming parents, working on their careers/businesses, rediscovering themselves… priorities are changing. Extend grace as we grow, and allow room in your relationships to evolve!
Microsoft is nt a perfect place…. Every other day I’m dodging bullshxt, ready to pull my hair out and/or quit. ☺️ But I’ve never worked w/ kinder ppl in my life… ending the work day with byeee talk to you tomorrow, love you… and mean it! Whewww what a cluster fxck of feels.
Some of you aren’t moving through the hiring process literally because you don’t follow instructions. 😩 Imagine me telling you exactly what I need you to do to move you to the next stage and you skrrttt around it. Sigh.
I’m also thinking about persons being laid off on work visas at this time. Imagine being told you have 60 days to find work or you lose your visa status and have to leave the country you’ve made your home! Omg… special prayer for those persons! This too much. I’m wiped.
I am not going to extend myself beyond my commitments anymore, because I don't have the bandwidth. I can't review resumes, research programs, etc... I want to be helpful, but I can't. I will share general tips & I always share events I am hosting that can help MANY, but no 1:1.
I have a new mentee. 🙂 She is Jamaican… she actually went to my high schl in JA! She is a freshman at Howard majoring in CompSci w/ an interest in AI. She is so sweet & so incredibly smart. She’s also super involved in the community! I feel fortunate to be apart of her journey.
IMO, all black ppl should be in therapy… that should be a federal benefit. If you think about the emotional legacy of racism in this country passed on from generation to generation.. are any of us truly okay? Read ‘Homegoing’ by Yaa Gyasi.. a captivating depiction.
@herkyjerky
@0xTheFern
@ccompy
Actually, I think the misunderstanding is mine! And when I realized, I apologized in my next tweet (hopefully you saw it). I am sorry again… there’s been a lot of engagement with mt tweet, so I was quick to respond! My bad.
Came back to all these messages from the cybersecurity ladies! Okay, I see y’all! 😬 I’m recruiting for a Senior Security Researcher role and the applicant pool is like 98% male, so I was wondering where the women at!!!
Can you build a brand w/o social media? I don’t think so… not in these times, and I hate that. The expectation of (consistent) content is such an overwhelming thought to me.
I’m in this weird place where I earn enough money to do whatever for myself, but not enough to do whatever for everyone else… so when I wanna do smtnn, and you can’t afford to .. then it gets awkward and I just end up doing shxt by myself. Does this make sense to anyone?!
I love a man who is a fixer… I bring my problems to him (big or small), he listens and either fixes it, guides me to a solution, or helps me identify a resource, smthn actionable. That’s so sexy to me!
@1ZOEHANI
Because men, well not even just men, but society as a whole is obsessed with women’s “purity” … said men are loose like a goose. I’m always in defense of equal treatment for all.
Guys, yesterday I was overwhelmed, frustrated, and struggling with imposter syndrome! Today, I woke up to my being nominated for an amazing leadership opportunity at Microsoft. I don’t even know who nominated me and I feel so thankful to even be considered. God, I see you!😭
@Breezybrim_
I am happy u have some1 to talk to. I am also very intuitive & self-aware so I thought I can process my own feelings & ‘heal myself’ .. but now I’m seeing merit in speaking to a therapist. Beginning to question how objective can I truly be on my own ish & do I have ALL the tools.
I’m not with any of this. I literally came on Twitter trying to network with tech professionals and also engage with diverse candidates. This is wild, I didn’t sign up for any of this.
A candidate failed the OTS by 2% and that team chose not to move forward and interview. I connected with her and we’ve been working together… and guess what she got the second time around?! 100%! I love 2nd chances and stories like this. 🙂✨
@MichelleNW
Omg. I am so sorry to hear this. My deepest condolences to your family. I hope you have found an employer that will be more supportive. I am so sorry.
@Damon_Mclean
He was very specific about his ask… and this was our max offer! The kind of offer you have to go into meetings with leadership to get approved, LOL… and he was like NOPE!
This candidate is on a phone screen with me while on a team call. Literally asked me to hold so that he can present quickly to his team and then came back to our call. I was so stunned, I waited. Y’all are not real out here. 😭
Lemme tell u how ppl r. There’s a person on LI that’s condemning tech comps. & chastising persons who tried to “break into tech.” That same person is in my LI inbox asking for a referral when “Microsoft resumes hiring.” This person has a large following. Ppl r attention-seeking.
Omg. I don’t think I can live with anyone, unless it’s someone who appreciates silence and quiet as much as I do… someone who finds it intimate (and enough) to just be with each other. I hate incessant chatter - it drives me bananas. 😭
It’s very weird to me to see ppl, black ppl in particular use th Bible to spew hate against others. That’s th same Bible white slave owners used to justify slavery and their superiority. Ppl are always using God’s words to defend their vile hatred of others. My God is of love.