“Out of every one hundred men, ten shouldn’t even be there, eighty are just targets, nine are the real fighters, and we are lucky to have them, for they make the battle. Ah, but the one, one is a warrior, and he will bring the others back.”
#DOL
I have an idea… let’s construct the most lethal and terrifying machine gun ever… and then build a jet around it.
Sophisticated. Effective. Belligerent.
The A-10… possibility the most America thing ever created.
Adopt the “Roger that” mentality…
Broken leg? Roger that
Failed a test? Roger that
Girlfriend dumped you? Roger that
Whatever the circumstances… own it, learn, adapt, and move out.
Proud dad moment:
Dom (our 6 y/o): Daddy why do you workout so much?
Me: So I can be strong and healthy.
Dom: And so you can protect me and mom and Vin (our 2 y/o)?
Me: Yessir that too.
Dom: Can I workout with you? I need to protect mom and Vin too.
Me: Absolutely bro.
Waking up 60 mins earlier than you are now to workout is hard.
Waking up 40lbs overweight feeling like garbage and embarrassed of the image in the mirror when you get out of the shower is exceedingly harder.
Choose your hard.
Ear buds.
Head down.
Starring at phone.
Walking around in public.
You might as well attach a neon sign over your head that reads “SOFT TARGET”.
Wake. The. Fuck. Up.
Say no to the drink… you’re no fun.
Say no to the dessert… you’re too rigid.
Say no to the club… you’re a buzzkill.
Roger that.
You see boring, monotonous, obsessed.
I see prioritization, disciplined, focused.
Can you take the ridicule?
Choices and Outcomes.
Decide.
Sitting at gate waiting to board my flight:
Random, very nice dude: Excuse me Mr. Lavery.
Me: Yes sir.
Dude: I read your book, follow your stuff and I’m a big fan.
Me: That’s great man. I appreciate it. It’s nice to meet you.
Dude: Can I ask you a question?
Me: Send it.
“Out of every one hundred men, ten shouldn’t even be there, eighty are just targets, nine are the real fighters, and we are lucky to have them, for they make the battle. Ah, but the one, one is a warrior, and he will bring the others back.”
— Heraclitus
Thank you
@AndyStumpf77
and
@blckriflecoffee
(Kalispell, MT) for the hospitality and facilitating the opportunity to spend some time with some great people.
#MCHN
Server: What would you like?
Me: The grilled chicken salad with an extra order of chicken and an extra order of steak.
The 350+lbs lady sitting at the table next to me: You know eating too much protein is bad for you.
The dude sitting across from her: 🤦🏻♂️
Me: Thank you.
“I never have time to exercise.”
**Spends hours aimlessly scrolling**
“I am always so tired.”
**Pumps light into eyeballs in bed**
“I have the worst genetics.”
**Drinks alcohol regularly**
“I have a bad back.”
**Does zero strength training**
Choices > Consequences > Results
SFQC graduation - 2010.
27 y/o… at the top of the highest possible mountain… everything figured out… invincible.
…boy was I wrong.
#dol
#vov
Instead of bitching about the New Year’s gym members who have no idea what they are doing…
Say something nice, something encouraging, ask them if they have any questions, give them a quick training tip.
At some point we all took that first step and were equally clueless.
The most “Alpha” guys I know…
1) Are some of the most proven, most lethal, most capable humans on earth.
2) Do not refer to themselves as “Alpha”. Ever.
3) Treat others with courtesy, kindness, and respect (unless of course they are required to act otherwise).
At airport, random dude wearing a yamaka walks up…
Dude: “Thank you for your service.”
Me: “Thank you.”
Dude: “Happy Hanukkah.”
Me: “Thank you and a Merry Christmas to you.”
Dude: “Thank you.”
I am not Jewish. I assume he is not Christian. G2g all around.
Crazy I know.
Nobody is going to do it for you.
Nobody is coming to save you.
You tired? Fix your recovery.
You solo? Find a community.
You weak? Lift heavy shit.
You scared? Good… the greatest moments in life tend to exist on the far side of fear.
Focus and Execute.
LFG.
At airport restaurant eating as my flights continue getting cancelled / delayed:
Random dude: Are you Nick Lavery?
Me: Yessir.
Dude: Bro you’re like famous!
Me: I wouldn’t say that.
Dude: No? What would you call it?
Hard truth… most are simply unwilling to push themselves hard enough for the adaptation to occur.
There is another gear inside you right now. The only question is do you want something bad enough to shift into it.
MOVE.
#MCHN
Lower calories = lose weight.
Lower calories + eat more protein = lose fat.
Lower calories + eat more protein + lift weights = lose fat, gain muscle.
Lower calories + eat more protein + lift weights + do cardio = lose fat, gain muscle, be healthy.
Exceptional people must walk an exceptional path.
It will be lonely.
Even if you are blessed with those who support… it will be lonely.
You must continue to root for you… believe in yourself… maintain faith in your mission.
Stay the course.
It will be worth it.
That’s correct men… we have a REQUIREMENT to be prepared for battle.
Yes, it is intimidating. Yes, it is stressful. Yes, it is difficult. And yes, it is an obligation.
Get in the gym, on the range, in the books, on the mats.
Get your mind and body prepped accordingly. MOVE.
Do hard things so often it becomes habitual…
so when life delivers unanticipated challenges…
you may not know how it will turn out…
but you do know that you can do hard things because the evidence is undeniable.
“If I could just catch a break.”
**Aimlessly scrolls IG for an hour**
“I wish I had time to workout.”
**Plays video games for an hour**
“Meal prep takes too long.”
**Watches Netflix for an hour**
Stop. Lying. To. Yourself.
You either want it bad enough or you don’t.
Decide
The next year is going to come and go whether you are working to improve or not.
It may seem daunting… like you are miles behind… but slow incremental changes over time is how we win.
Forget about “going viral”.
Focus on the grind.
One small victory at a time.
MOVE.
If you regularly:
Drink soda, alcohol, or juice
and/or
Eat fast, fried, or processed food
You don’t give a shit about your health, your lifespan, nor those depending on you.
Stop lying to yourself and make the changes.
Move.
Dialed in. Executing with precision. Working hard. Disciplined. Making sacrifices. Determined.
*Three days later*
“I deserve a cheat day.” / “I’ve earned a day of nothing.” / “I need to treat myself.”
STOP
Consistency is critical. Stay the course. Focus.