it’s perfectly understandable to be in a position where you’re not 100% ready to be married, BUT WHY DID YOU COME ONTO A SHOW KNOOOOOWING THAT MARRIAGE IS THE END GOAL only to say “IM NOT 100% READY TO BE MARRIED”?
wasting everybody’s time.
#LoveIsBlindS6
your twenties are also about discovering that you’re not a bad person in all the ways you believed you were but you’re a bad person in completely new and exciting ways
thinking about the time i was struggling to open my water bottle in a lecture, and a guy that i had spoken to maybe 3 times leaned up to me and went
"let me help you baby"
and then proceeded to struggle to open the bottle
idk why people are calling shona the south african tyler perry when shona represented black people waaaaaay better in his work than tyler did. he ain’t the south african tyler, he is SHONA FERGUSON. periodt.
Okay so I found a creative outlet for my depression in the holidays and it was making videos. Ngl I was very scared to put these out, but I’m trying to grow, so alas we move...right?
Check out my YT video, if you’re keen🥰
hard pill to swallow: the idea that your ‘soulmate’ or ‘the one’ will know exactly how to make you happy without you ever having to communicate is fake.
when you fuck up, you have to actually say "i really fucked this up & it's on me" in order to be better. there's no room for projecting or acting like a victim.
I will literally never believe your 20s are meant to be the prime of your life. The years immediately following your adolescence? When you’re entrenched in the battlefields of un/learning, healing, and growing? I smell cap.