Opinionated| Socially awkward | Mommy to 2 love bugs| I dont regret anything that once made me happy| Feminist | I love Sindi Dlathu, The Boks ๐ and Tyla๐ ๐ฟ๐ฆ
Happily married women don't see the need to want to convince everyone to get married, let alone shame single or divorced women. they go about living their best lives, loving and being loved by their husbands. kodwa the bekezela queens want everyone to suffer like them
Just deleted my Tinder and Hinge accounts, the dating pool is the bottom guys. Being single in your 30s is a lot, please work things out nabantu benu, for my sake please ๐๐พ๐ญ
Guys, why are you like this? And this is a serious question, kutheni ni snaaks ebantwini?
Honestly it grinds me how yโall come on to this app to show us just how terribly you treat people you sleep with, andaz noba nifuna sazi that niyafunwa kodwa anifuni bantu.
Sies maani ๐ฅด
Every time I come across Tyla making big moves and being in these spaces, Iโm reminded of a certain group who threatened to end her ๐ญ๐ญ๐ญ๐ญ๐ญ๐ญ๐ญ๐ญ๐ญ๐ญ๐๐๐๐๐
@MazikodeThah
And when you try and bring it up, they gaslight you and you end up holding to some hope that you imagined the hate, only for them to repeat the cycle
Last year Iโd be broke, bills not fully paid and touch and go with food. This year, Iโm still broke but my bills are paid, stationery and uniform sorted for the kids, and we have food at home. Yhooo Iโm grateful to be at a better place ๐๐พ
Honestly speaking, I hate people who highlight their Im-the-exception-to-the-rule life experiences when systematics issues are raised. We tell you patriarchy is harmful, you tell us you have great dads and brothers, we tell you marriage as an institution was not built for women..
Rand manipulation
Stage 6 load shedding
Uyinene, Karabo, Tshegofatsho
Unemployment
Eggs
High petrol prices
The state of Matatiele roads
Phala phala
Transnet
Decaying infrastructure
Angie Motshekga
Enyobeni
Tarvens of the future
Fikile Mbalula
Mna guys my ex hubby said I was confused about the nature of our relationship, as in ndaphazama about why his uncles were at my fathers gate ๐ญ๐ญ๐ญ๐ญ๐ค๐ฝ
1. Put yourself first in, thereโs no reward for prioritising a man
2. Your mom is right, about everything
3. Leave the first time you find out about his cheating
4. You donโt have to get married any time soon. Give it another 10 years, at least
5. Leave him today ๐ฉ
@Fikz_the_Cook
Bathi le nkinga onayo, uyenza like ngeyomunye umuntu. Example, I was cheated on and I donโt trust men and when someone speaks about their wonderful relationship, ndithi all men cheat. Thatโs projection
There's nothing cute about amadoda enu wasting imali on the "wrong" grocery as if abatyi nabo. someone called it "weaponized incompetence" and we have to fight it ngandlela zonke
Izolo I went to fetch lay-buy ye mpahla for my kids and I was filled with so much pride. That EYE did that ๐ฅน๐
Mdali is seeing us through kancane kancane and Iโm eternally grateful and so proud of myself
Zoleka Mandelaโs passing has hit me in a way I never expected. I hope sheโs at peace, I pray sheโs finally resting and reunited with Mama Winnie, MamโZindzi and her daughter
Watching the interview between Enhle and Zinhle made me sad for Enhle. She hasn't healed from the pain and its evident from how she kept looking for similarities between her and Z's story. You do that when you haven't dealt with pain, you look to others to validate your pain
I donโt mean to brag but my daughter has been invited to the prize giving at her school. I want to cry because this year has been so hard and my kids just seem to bring me pockets of pride and joy.
And I did it alone, bethunana ๐ฅน๐
My unsolicited take on
#RHODurbanReunion
๐๐ฝ
Sane is a pathological liar and she canโt be helped
Iโm a ho for Annie Sorisha Slee friendship
Ruan is a spineless joke
Feel sorry for Maria
Jojo and Nonku deserve each other
Slee is gorgeous and I forgive her for la 6 years ๐ซฃ๐ญ๐ฉ
Thinking about Babes and the power that man has wielded over her life, how she knows nothing else and he's been able to cash in on her and exploit her nkosenofefe. I pray society gives her the compassion she will need the day she gatherers enough strength to leave him
I'm really struggling with this narrative that Qhawe is also inlove with Hlomu. Before yall come for me ngo "inspired by" my issue is how this storyline kills the closeness that I imagined for Mqhele and Qhawe, the love, the loyalty, the fondness.
#TheWifeShowmax
@__Shezi
Oh Iโve never thought of it this way, you may be on to something. Ingathi she doesnโt have social cues, because even if what sheโs saying is true, why did she think sheโs the one who should be giving us the clarity
Isibaya will always be goated because it was the blueprint of how all SA telenovela were told. It was the bar, before Chriโฆ ayi futhi cut cut ๐ฉ๐ญ๐ฉ
Months later, when the other lady was pressuring him to leave me, he told her that I threatened to hurt myself and my child if he leaves so he canโt๐ญ๐
Married men and lies Sana๐ค๐ฝ๐
Farewell
#TheWifeShowmax
The evil you brought into our lives was enough.
What a monumental disaster, may we never get to experience such in our lifetime.
I am at a point where I want to block/mute everyone who says they are upset that the series is different from the book...bathong, would we still watch it if there was no element of surprise? and shm
@dududube
said the series is inspired by characters and events๐
#TheWifeShowmax
I watched the Enhle video and shm Iโm happy she did that, Nina niqhela abantu kakubi and want them to play u bigger person, just to protect isdima somntu who harmed you! That man had 2 children while married to her, 2 you honour!๐ณ๐ณ๐ณ
You guys so badly want to believe that itโs the (single) female friends who are a threat to marriages when in fact itโs the philandering husbands.
Anyway my own friends who encouraged me to love myself carried me and are still carrying me ๐ซถ๐พ๐ซถ๐พ
If you are a woman and your friends are advising you to leave your marriage and home for whatever reason, DO NOT LEAVE, unless you are certain that those same friends would carry you in the days, months and years ahead because it sure is going to be bumpy ride.
..you tell us how your husband was there through your 3 degrees. We tell you black people are still economically excluded, you remind us about one or 1 billionaires that have made it.
Itโs disingenuous to remind us about your exceptionalism in the face of structural failures
Sana the batch we are left with? ๐ญ๐ญ
They hate it when a man is a present and active father and they equally hate a man loving his wife. They like toxicity so badly and want everybody else to subscribe to these low standards
@MazikodeThah
I want to buy those stickers from Checkers and fill them out throughout the year so I can have for food and stationery in Jan. Imali mna ngiyayibhubhudla shm
@sindivanzyl
Still going through it. Some days I think I'm ok and over it, but other days it hits me like a ton of bricks how my life has changed in a space of 2 months
This time last year I was in a relationship with a man who hated me, lol. and I was jumping through hoops trying to salvage a dead connection. I never thought I'd recover and looking back, I'm glad it ended. He broke my heart but I healed and I directed all that love to myselfโค
The main issue stems from Zwai and Pinky being abandoned as children and therefore forced into a situation where they had to raise their younger siblings, so they are still operating from that premise of knowing whatโs โbestโ for everyone
#TheBalaFamily
My daughter asked me to teach her how to make coffee so she can make for me on the weekends that they are with me ๐ฅน but Iโm scared sheโll hurt herself. Whatโs the right age guys? Sheโs turning 10 in Nov
@khayadlanga
@zozitunzi
I'm not a fan of beauty pageants but I recognize the amount of power and influence that the reign brings. I'm emotionally invested in Zozi's win because, in country like SA, representation is so important. This will validate so many girls, I'm here for all that!๐๐พ
#MissSA2019
I can only conclude that it's pretty privilege that makes people want to humanize and feel sorry for Dr Nandipha as if she's a victim..because why is it so hard to comprehend that she's an accomplice and has equal culpability and benefit in
#ThaboBester
's crimes?
@Mank_Mandla
I always say never underestimate a man's level of cruelty once he loses interest. yhooo the nonsense I put with, the unkindness bawo ๐ญ๐ฅบ
@JamilFarouk
I was not the smartest kid in class, not even top 10. I was ok ish but I grew up thinking I'm awesome because my parents made such a big deal about my report.
@Zizipho_ZA
I think one of the main factors is lack of support from the fathers. Women bear most of the responsibilities and tend to adjust to a new way of life where men simple become bystanders in their own children's lives. I know very few unmarried couples who survive that transition
@leratohd
I remember loving Busi Dlomoโs character before Anne de Villiers turned her into a nut case ๐ญ๐ญ๐ญ๐ญ
Being a Mawande was also something i aspired to be. They portrayed women as these no nonsense characters that made big moves as well as their male counterparts
@vsobudula
@Neo_url
this is so hard to watch, honestly. it's so layered and I pray she gathers enough strength to get herself out before it's too late.
She reminds me off Thando ka Siyacela
@jatella
Sheโs explained it, a lot of times. Itโs Americans who refuse to accept that itโs her truth. The only way they want to accept her explanation is if itโs in line with them. Isnโt that silly?
@Neo_url
Did this bit by bit over the years and yesterday I was the girl mixing gin and tonic for my cousins and I. I have exercised my dominance, taken up space and cemented myself as someone who drinks ๐
@NotYetUhuru_
One of my favourite things I love observing with my kids is how they interact with each other. A conversation I overheard ๐๐ฝ
Zin(8): I love you Mange, you are the best brother in the world
Mange(5): I love you too sis, you the bestest big sister in the whole world
Haibo ๐ฅบ๐โค๏ธ
I have a theory about people whoโve been groomed; that they are emotionally stunted therefore ababhadlanga and their reasoning is lacklustre. Mimi, LaC, Babes
@sindivanzyl
comfortable house, nice car, a job that requires my labour for maximum 3 days a week, ability to take 2 overseas trips a year, one solo and one with my kids. being able to give my kids a childhood free from any form of financial worry and anxiety
once saw a doccie on his killing spree. he "seemed" rehabilitated but the criminology expert said something about this type of serial killer always having the urge to kill n in prison he has no motive or opportunity (duh) so he would definitely commit the same crimes if released
"Nasrec Serial Killler" Lazarus Tshidiso Mazingane who was sentenced to 17 life sentences + 700 years in prison for 21 charges of rape, 16 murders & 20 counts of robbery in December 2002.
has completed his 25 years imprisonment & has applied for parole.
@MsRebrand
Nam shm ๐๐๐๐ sprinkle sprinkle with a bit of โakekho mhle noba mhle la Naraโ ๐ญ๐ญ๐ญ๐ญ๐ญ๐ญ๐ญ๐ญ๐ญ๐ญ๐ญ๐ญ๐ญ๐ญ๐ญ๐ญ
You guys out here saying Katlegoโs baby mama is trying to destroy his life kodwa heโs the one who wonโt pay the fees and refuses for the child to go to a cheaper school? Am I hearing you?
Hayi inene
My least favourite thing on here is you guys gatekeeping???? So what if we donโt know rugby? Are we not supposed to get joy from our national team all because we didnโt attend hoerskool what what? Niyadika shm
They ruined the most important story of Hlomu, reduced Nkosana and Zah's story to sex and gangsterism, and gave us skinny Naledi. they've ruined it. mabayeke
WORD IS: The Wife series to reflect the book
Looks like your reactions to the
#TheWifeShowmax
series have not fallen on deaf ears.
The murmur is that the third season of the series will veer closer to the book.
New season still in pre-production.
#KgopoloReports
@Busisiwe_PR
@justlats
this worked wonders for me too. I quickly let go of the man he was in the beginning and faced the truth about who he was NOW. and that alone was enough to convince me that I deserve better ๐
The inconsistencies between episodes 1 and 255 of the wedding day is unforgivable ๐ฉ๐ญ Paulina was at the wedding, Zolani and Emma were still together all lovey. even Andile n Njabulo
#TheRiver1Magic
Guys this is a lokshion bioscop
At this point, they might as well create more chaos and kill Hlomu (killed by Mqhele phofu for drama andithi Stained ๐คฃ๐คฃ๐คฃ), because no one else will be able to replace Mbali. No one else could be Mahlomu, please!
I will forever be grateful to you and your books for reigniting my love for reading. Its been quite a journey, i have laughed, i have cried, i have learned so much and met incredible women who I can call friends through this journey. THANK YOU
@dududube
#HlomuTheEnd
โค๏ธ๐ฅบ
How it started v How it is ending...
It's been a whole 8 years...one heck of a journey, so eventful I might one day write a book about.
Thank you to everyone who has been part of this.
Most of all, thank you to black women.
#HlomuTheEnd
@Jabu_Macdonald
I'm not even a fan of the show and this pissed me off, everything about it screamed Opportunitist from the guy and I wanted so much better for her
@NonhleBeryl
it's false sense of exceptionalism and wanting to hold on to being "the only black" so the more access black people have to certain things, the less likely they are deemed to be exceptional.