This year, I hope we stop using God as an aesthetic and actually spend more time with Him & his Word. Some of us have our favorite scriptures in our bio, but it’s not evident that God is in you.
If I choose to dismiss you from my life over something "simple" understand that it wasn't the situation; that was just your last strike. Sometimes it's not what you do, it's how tired I am of you.
A woman on Tik Tok said, “If you’re not in my life anymore, it doesn’t mean that I think you’re a bad person. I don’t deem people good or bad. I deem people to be safe or unsafe. Aligned or misaligned. Because I’m not available for people I have to protect myself from.” Whew 🔥
At some point you just got to tell people, I love you, but I’m no longer interested in the level of life you have to offer me, and because of that I have to let you go. I’m not even asking you to change.
I’m really proud of myself for the woman I am becoming. My mindset has shifted, my priorities have changed, my tolerance has changed. Even my taste has changed. I’m evolving and I’m 100% here for it.
I deserve a life of luxury & I don’t even mean designer bags/clothes. I just wanna be able to wake up on a random Tuesday and take myself to brunch, go get my nails done & book a flight, just because. I can’t wait for that type of lifestyle.
My mama asked why do I stop talking to ppl with no explanation. Becauseeeee PPL KNOW what they’ve done to me. I’m not about to address anything to a grown person. You moved how you moved and I moved out your way. Respectfully.
People think because you cut them off, it’s jealousy or animosity. Sometimes cut offs are because of differences in mindsets! Some of y’all are users and that’s all you know to do, some of y’all complain too much and your energy is draining.
I’m an alpha female. I don’t look for a man to provide for me financially but I’m also not going to deal with a man that can’t provide. I don’t mind being submissive, but I’ll never let the blind lead me.
At the end of the day, I’m a good woman. I’m not perfect by any means, but my intentions are good, my heart is pure, and I love hard with everything I’ve got and because of those things, I’m worth it. Always have been and always will be.
I don’t wanna be around anyone who takes me out my character. I just want to laugh, live, love & prosper. I want people around that I can trust. People I can grow with.. that have genuine love for me.
I’m officially at the age I don’t want to be around people who are not self aware. Continuously putting themselves in bad positions, making bad life choices, toxic ways/lifestyles, no priorities lacking accountability etc.
I just need you to understand, that you can keep doing what you wanna do and how you wanna do it, you just can’t do that with me. You gotta love people from a distance to protect your peace.
We’re really at the age where quality friendships hit different. It’s not about how long we’ve been friends anymore. It’s having intentional relationships that feed us in a different way.
This next season of my life will require new levels of courage, confidence, and consistency from me. No matter how I feel, I will not allow fear to hold me back. I want this. I deserve this. And I’m determined to have it.
My growth as a woman of God is nothing I play about. I don’t care about who I used to be or how I used to behave. Even if it was last week, I don’t care. Everyday I wake up a new woman, evolving in mind, body & soul. I’m praying & working for the woman I will be.
Ladies, get in to your self-care! Enhance your appearance. Book your facials, start working out, eating healthier, etc. you will feel & look so much better! Don’t forget that you are always your biggest investment.
If you give me one TOO many times to question your leadership as a man then just know, it’ll be hard to get me to submit. Say what you mean & mean what you say. Things in life are really simple.
You may have negative qualities that does not align with the next person. Some of y’all just two-faced asf! Cut offs can even happen for personal reasons and has absolutely nothing to do with YOU.
This season is about betterment. I’m evolving as a woman everyday. I don’t want the things I wanted 5 years ago. I want peace. I want luxury, and real substance in my life. Life is a marathon, not a race. It doesn’t matter who is doing “better” than me. It’s always me vs. me.
I’ve been focusing more on purpose and being a person of added value. I’m making sure every time someone experiences me, they leave me better than before.
Black people are the only people I know who turn their nose up at generational wealth. “Your parents paid for that.” “You didn’t do it by yourself.” We glorify the struggle and that mentality is part of why we struggle to get anywhere.
I decided to be silent about all my goals and plans next year because even the people that are rooting for you can become jealous. I don't want a plethora of haters in my life. We also could be blocking our own blessings. We God gives YOU a vision, YOU don't need to share it.
Ever since I turned 25, I have had a sudden urge to improve in every area of my lifestyle. I no longer care about what others think of me because their perception of me is none of my business. I want to see the world, I want to eat and look better, I want better community, etc.
My favorite part about the story of Jesus is when they went back and didn’t find Jesus where they left him! Don’t let NOBODY find you where they left you. Elevate! He got up! You can too! Nothing is too hard for my God!
Normalize congratulating your friends even if they’re moving faster than you. It’s not a competition, everyone moves at their own pace. Learn to be happy for those around you, and break the stigma of needing to have your life together at a certain age, age is nothing but a number
I have to always remind myself that God knows the plan of my life. He knew it before I was even born. He promised that everything will work out for the good of those who love Him and have been called by Him. Every situation has already been worked out in my favor.
Ladies, in 2023, let’s take better care of ourselves. Let’s take more baths, read more, journal, eat healthier, save + invest money, take vitamins, develop new skills + knowledge, collect candles, but most importantly, RELAX.