the โride or die girlโ is just a concept created by men to test how far they can manipulate you into staying with them while they violate your boundaries and any shred of dignity you have.
You cannot get mad at someone for expressing what upsets them. You canโt. Even if it isnโt deep to you, it may be a serious matter to them. Theyโre upset for a reason.
Iโve came to the realization that iโm just a person who feels things heavier than others, thereโs a lot of depth to me, and not everyone is going to understand me but thatโs okay.