Respectfully, I don't go above and beyond for people anymore. I meet you as far as you meet me. I speak to you as much as you speak to me. I include you as much as you include me.
I respect a person who knows their energy is off and keeps their distance because they don't want to transfer it onto you. I don't think some people understand how real that is.
Familiarise yourself with good life guys. Yes take a taxi and go have a coffee and 1 muffin at a fancy restaurant there by Sandton or Melrose Arch. Yes its okay. You deserve it. You might not have millions in your account right now, but manh treat yourself like Queen/King.
Today i received an email being offered a job for a period of 2 weeks. Dude for me thats something. What shocks me alot is i applied for that job on the 26th of October 2019......yooh still i can't believe!!
The older you get, the more you realize it's not about who knows you the longest, it's about who makes you feel seen, heard, understood, appreciated, supported and loved.