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Buhle

5 months

Birthday without dancing? Nope. Not as long as my knees allow. (I'm happiest when I'm dancing 🥰) Thank you, @annamiti1 , for the dedication. I haven't danced to this @thandiswamazwai gem in ages❤️ #BuhleAt49 #HappinessCorner #ThingsILove

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@buhle_matsha

4 months

Yet we are told that men are logical. Men are not emotional...

SAY CHEESE! 👄🧀

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4 months

Texas man sentenced to 20 years in prison for killing his friend after losing to her in basketball game. Investigators say he shot her twice in the chest, and two more times as she was falling

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1 year

I really truly hate the way black adults treat girls. Both men & women. Girls are minors, but they are expected to "know better" than to be in "relationships" with 37yr old men. You don't hold the men accountable at all. We see these men go after the girls, but you excuse them.

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@buhle_matsha

5 months

Thank you to all the Feminists who challenged the system so I could get an education, and not just so I could read and write. You fought for us to have more, not the bare minimum. I don't take this lightly. Thank you for paving the way for us to dare to dream. I appreciate you...

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@buhle_matsha

5 months

I saw a post, but I didn't want to QT. You marry a virgin. It's been four years. You complain that she's bad at sex. You are the teacher, no? Let's start there.

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@buhle_matsha

2 years

Imagine begging a man to sign an affidavit form so your child can go on a school trip overseas? Mind you, he's not contributing any cent, all you want is his signature on an affidavit form? Now you're crying at the Embassy😭 If I say I have lived, I mean I have lived. For real.

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@buhle_matsha

26 days

And we are so happy that you know. Because this family unit you talk of is built on women and girls' labour, abuse, and oppression? Let it burn to ashes. Let it burn to the ground. All of it

Noble Brown ©️👑🇳🇬

@Calebrown23

26 days

@DonCorleANN Your feminists aim is just to destroy the family unit. We know.

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@buhle_matsha

2 years

@elliewhipwrites Or else you'll be the witch who's now preventing them from enjoying his money🙄

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@buhle_matsha

4 months

Dear Women, I have said this before. I will say it again. And again. And again. You can ignore everything I have ever said on this app, but please DO NOT IGNORE THIS👇🏿 Listen when men speak about women. Pay attention when men speak about women. Pay attention to their diction.

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@buhle_matsha

1 year

I've observed that when a woman expresses her preference for a man with money, men are quick to ask, "Do you have the money yourself?" Why does it matter? A man will express his preference for a virgin when he's the owner of a Certified Community Dick. What's the difference?

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@buhle_matsha

2 years

I like how the men are stuck in the "Our mothers & grandmothers did this, they were like that & they were happy" mode. As girls growing up they put us under immense pressure to get an education & a payslip. You really think it was because they liked their situation? Shuwa shuwa?

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@buhle_matsha

2 years

Shem shuwa. I feel sorry for some of you. You were told "Good Girls" will be rewarded. Now you're seeing the "Bad Girls" having what you consider to be a successful life, which you don't have. They're even getting married. Ahh sorry henyu. Script changed. This is life, not a play

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@buhle_matsha

1 year

That makes me angry because you spend a lot of energy blaming the girls and ignoring the men, who are the adults. You don't want to hold the adults accountable, but you're quick to ask why a 15 year old had a boyfriend. Like we haven't seen men grooming the girls. Liyadina

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@buhle_matsha

5 months

@ZimzBunny Because what is the person teaching her doing?

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@buhle_matsha

6 years

Dear Zimbabwean businesses, I am available to write correct Ndebele spellings for your adverts. Free of charge even. I'm not sure if I have a Radio voice but I can also do those to ensure correct pronunciation. Please feel free to DM. Ngiyabonga kakhulu (not khakulu). Buhle

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@buhle_matsha

1 month

I do not want any misogynist to be comfortable in my presence... I do not want any homophobe to be comfortable in my presence... I do not want any paedophile to be comfortable in my presence...

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@buhle_matsha

2 years

Let me reintroduce myself. I am Buhlebenkosi Tshabangu-Moyo. I am the daughter of Ntombizini. Granddaughter of Mbonankulu. I am the mother of Wandile and Lundi. I am #47NotOut today. I am happy. #BuhleAt47

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@buhle_matsha

2 years

@Illustrious_Cee As we speak, are there any immediate concerns over the safety of women and children? Any plans to step up funding to international NGOs to assist at this time?

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@buhle_matsha

1 year

In the case of a girl whose decomposed has been found, why is your first instinct to question 15yr olds having boyfriends, and then tell us that at 15, you were afraid of boys? Why are u centering yourself? Because you were a better 15yr old, who didn't get murdered? Voetsek mani

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@buhle_matsha

2 years

There's a reason why patriarchy encourages women to get married young. And it's got nothing to do with women's biological clock...

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@buhle_matsha

1 year

You continuously refuse to hold the men, who should know better, accountable. You place the burden on girls, even dead ones, and you ignore the men. Because men have no agency? They are powerless? I hate it here. You adults are pathetic. You are awful, horrible, terrible beings

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@buhle_matsha

5 months

Feminists, One thing this app has taught me? Never tire of speaking up. Yes, take breaks here & there. But never tire. A young woman out there is reading your post and starting to question her own attitudes and beliefs, deciding how to better navigate the world. So, never tire.

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@buhle_matsha

4 months

Ahh. You guys told us we are going to die alone. You advised us to get cats. Now you're saying we need each other? It can't. We are going with cats

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@anthimseIf

4 months

This “ man vs woman “ era is wack . We need yall & yall need us .

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@buhle_matsha

2 years

If you'd like to do Ndebele For Beginners, I have some free slots from the 10th of October. Kindly DM if you're interested. Please note that the lessons are now $8 each. For those who've come through, thank you for supporting my #hustle 🙏

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@buhle_matsha

20 days

Actually, I'm 49 years & 4 months old🥰 How old are you? Why are you using "there husband" instead of "their husbands" And yes. I don't care. Still. Please label me correctly, or not at all. I am old, angry, bitter, & unmarriageable. I guess I can accept loser, too, not losser🥰

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@buhle_matsha

1 year

Finally... It's my birthday, It's my special day, I am #BuhleAt48 . I am anxious and excited to be just two away from a half century... #48NotOut #HappinessCorner

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@buhle_matsha

2 years

"So you thought you were clever by leaving me?" "You think you know about rights too much hantsho? Let's see your Feminism sign the affidavit". I have lived gayani. I'm grateful for my network of women for always holding me in love. Being there for me. Ngiyabonga ❤️ ❤️ ❤️

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@buhle_matsha

6 years

I love my teapot-shaped country. I don't support ZANU PF. I don't support any MDC formation. I want my country to be functional. I'm tired of having to defend Zim when foreigners engage with me. I want things to work. Frankly speaking, I don't care who makes them work. Shuwa.

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@buhle_matsha

1 year

@JnrNtshanga Did it look like he might come back around Easter?

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@buhle_matsha

2 years

@MphoMoalamedi I love a story with a happy ending

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@buhle_matsha

3 years

It saddens me that Meikles, Barbours and Greatermans Departmental Stores no longer exist 😩

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@buhle_matsha

2 years

Otherwise?

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@buhle_matsha

5 months

At last. Hip, hip hooray💃🏿💃🏿💃🏿💃🏿 It's my birthday🥳🎉🥳🎉🥳🥳🥳 #BuhleAt49 is here I'm so excited, and I just can't hide it💃🏿💃🏿💃🏿💃🏿 📍: National Gallery, Harare 📸: @_tinonyandoro Styling: M'self wami #HappinessCorner #ThingsILove

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@buhle_matsha

1 year

USD25 per month for someone to cook, clean, do laundry, and look after 2 children under 5? At some point, one has to accept one can't afford to have a domestic worker. Because this ain't it guys🙄

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@buhle_matsha

2 years

This happened a few years ago. Said child is over 18, so this is no longer an issue. Something I read reminded me of this ordeal. Anyway, child got his passport a day before travelling. Everyone else got them 2 weeks before. Father gave in after teacher and Embassy called him...

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@buhle_matsha

2 years

Imagine begging a man to sign an affidavit form so your child can go on a school trip overseas? Mind you, he's not contributing any cent, all you want is his signature on an affidavit form? Now you're crying at the Embassy😭 If I say I have lived, I mean I have lived. For real.

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@buhle_matsha

2 years

Dear Men, I shared a personal experience. I am not interested in your experiences. You can share them on the TL . Please stop coming to my DM with your #NotAllMen nton nton. I am really not interested. It doesn't change anything. It brings no value. Kind Regards, Buhle

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@buhle_matsha

2 years

"Oh, that's my son..."😍😍😍 My first born for Jet Stores Zim. His first modelling gig. Here's to many more gigs🥂🥂

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@buhle_matsha

2 years

🕯🕯 🕯 🕯 🕯🕯 For men to use the same energy and unity of purpose we witnessed today in defending deadbeatism, to discuss their mental health. May they form another formidable alliance on mental health before their imaginary conference. Lord graciously hear us 🕯🕯🕯 🕯 🕯🕯 🕯

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@buhle_matsha

13 days

I have been on this app long enough to know that this is from a Naija man.

AskAubry 🦝

@ask_aubry

13 days

Hello fellow women! 🙄

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@buhle_matsha

3 years

I'm relieved mom passed away at home surrounded by her children & grandchildren. She'd always insisted she didn't want to die in hospital, wanted the last people she saw to be family. She got that. Somehow that gives me comfort. Oh, I insist I got her smile. That's that on that😜

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@buhle_matsha

6 years

I worked very closely with Patrick Chinamasa at @FinanceZim for 12 months. He was very professional. He was a hard worker. But there's only so much he could do within a largely unresponsive & rigid system. Unless the system changes, it'll be tough for anyone in that Ministry.

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@buhle_matsha

3 years

When I say patriarchy is a well organised system. Younger women will frown when you say some of these things because you're older (therefore not desirable to men, therefore you're jealous). They are young & desirable. But sometimes we know how the story ends, we've seen the movie

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@buhle_matsha

1 year

So, when you guys talk about a woman's body count, big sexual past, how do you prove anything? Do you just assume that the woman you meet at church has 0 or 1. Then the one at groove has 10+? How does this work? I'm genuinely curious. Or if she's still like a log, u assume it's 0

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@buhle_matsha

18 days

They are our brothers, fathers, cousins, friends, nephews, grandfathers, and neighbours. The regular guys who sell airtime by the street corner. The MD of a listed company. The ice-cream vendor. The CEO of a blue chip company...

cynical feminist

@honeydropz999

19 days

Abusive men are men They are not monsters or boys or weaklings or whatever They are men

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@buhle_matsha

2 years

South Africa is the Rich Cousin. You grew up together, sleeping on the floor at gogo's, sharing a plate of food, angry at her for forcing u to finish sitshwala before u get a piece of meat. U bathed together in that big dish. Now she bathes in a tub. She's not THAT cousin anymore

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@buhle_matsha

2 years

Aww. My son's girlfriend loved her present. My friend and I spent Saturday putting together a package. We're chuffed. We did warn him though that next year he's on his own 😉 This was his first #ValentinesDay as a boyfriend so we thought we'd show him the way😊 #JoysOfMotherhood

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@buhle_matsha

1 year

"Our people are very educated. They can go and find jobs anywhere in the world." Except in their country? #EducatedKrishenNeshen

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@Newzroom405

1 year

“Zimbabwe is a sovereign state, it will always put its Bills first... You can’t go around speaking badly about your country.” - Zimbabwe's Minister of Information And Communications Monica Mutsvangwa on their country's state and more ahead of elections.

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@buhle_matsha

5 months

@NyashaBliss Exactly. But he's busy trying to blame the woman

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@buhle_matsha

2 years

Can I also say how proud I am that I'm very fluent in Shona? I didn't study it at school. I learnt it through music, reading, being around people in Hre. I write it well. My spelling is 👌. Imagine, now I get paid to translate stuff. I'm super proud of me. Ndirikudada nazvo izvi

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@buhle_matsha

1 year

I nyatso did the Moyo, Dewa, Vumabalanda. Mwana wangu iyeye💃🏿💃🏿💃🏿💃🏿💃🏿💃🏿💃🏿💃🏿💃🏿💃🏿💃🏿💃🏿💃🏿 Today. Right at this moment. I am happy. I am a #ProudMommy . My Rasta did the things☺️☺️☺️ #MamaKaRasta ... To all the women who are my support system, thank you. Our son did it @D_elleriously

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@buhle_matsha

1 year

This is how I showed up to my #ProudMommy moment today... 💃🏿💃🏿💃🏿💃🏿

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@buhle_matsha

4 years

@osmaseko @ajplus Absolutely 💃🏿💃🏿💃🏿

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@buhle_matsha

1 year

Here's the thing. Just because I'm at the bottom of the food chain(old, single mother, unmarriageable) doesn't mean that I'll accept anything that comes my way. Please don't think you're doing me a favour by just looking my way or talking to me. U don't think much of me, but I do

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@buhle_matsha

2 years

Finally, #BuhleAt47 is here. I feel it. I love it. I am #47NotOut 💃💃💃💃💃💃💃 📷 @_tinonyandoro Makeup: IG: mrs_jae_the_artist

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@buhle_matsha

16 days

Exactly why we say you must talk to elderly women in your families, communities, etc. Because now you're implying that non-Feminists or Anti-Feminists have a different story to tell?

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@frig5656

16 days

I’ve never met a feminist that knows a woman that’s happily married 😭😭😭.

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@buhle_matsha

2 years

One day you will look back at how far you've come and smile❤❤❤ #BuhleAt47

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@buhle_matsha

7 months

Zimbabwean Feminists fought for women to be recognised as full human beings. To be regarded-at law-as adults, not perpetual minors. They fought for inheritance laws to protect widows. They fought for the harmonisation of marriage laws. Today, I salute them. Thank you. Ngiyabonga

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@buhle_matsha

4 years

I just think it's untidy to have a month start in the middle of the week. Disorderly even.

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@buhle_matsha

2 years

This is not it. This is not it at all. I don't feel grateful at all. I am angry that I live in a country where children are brought to this point. I am angry that you've shared the video with this caption. I don't think you actually thought this through. Please do better

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2 years

Incase you need a reason to be grateful today… Heartbreaking is an understatement 💔

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@buhle_matsha

2 years

@Faffie_Danish1 But your being broke is not changed by whether someone is fucked or not...

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@buhle_matsha

5 years

Zimbabwean businesses so. Hayi ahh. Websites don't work. No one responds to Email messages. They want you to phone. And then they put you on hold until your airtime finishes. Ahh why must life be so difficult kodwa lina?

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@buhle_matsha

5 years

Zimbabwe will force you to become a member of the "At least" brigade. At least I got fuel after 5hrs in a queue. At least the water came back after 3 days. At least Zesa only went for 15hrs today. And the list of At least things continues to grow. All of the women in me are tired

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@buhle_matsha

1 year

Off to the UB40 gig in a bit... I am ready to danceeeee💃🏿💃🏿💃🏿💃🏿 Strategic shoes. No high heels in sight... #ArthritisTwitter #BuhleAt48

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@buhle_matsha

1 year

@_theekword Also, where is paedophilia being normalised?

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@buhle_matsha

2 years

Dear Zimbabweans, Maybe it's been discussed before and I missed it. If not, we need to discuss the lack of community recreational facilities for young people. Where they can hang out. Like the youth centres in the 80s and 90s. Kind Regards, Buhle #Zimbabwe

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@buhle_matsha

1 year

@muz_lillian And the girls suffer in the process

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@buhle_matsha

7 months

And yet your question literally dismisses a girl and a rape claim...

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@buhle_matsha

2 years

Who knew that by the end of 2021 I would be a widow, an orphan, minus 1 sister? I'm those things now. I didn't see any of it coming. But as the year ends, I'm hopeful the sun will still shine even as it will rain. I am giving myself permission to live, despite my grief #BuhleAt46

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@buhle_matsha

2 years

I'm failing to can right now. I can't keep calm. My Lundi gone and did the things. 15 points out of a possible 20 points. This is such a #ProudMommy moment for me. To the guys who asked what I do besides post pics and go to bhawa, I also raised a son who's just got 15 points😊😊

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@buhle_matsha

6 years

What a difference a year can make. This time last year my mom suffered a stroke. My siblings and I spent Christmas visiting my mom in hospital. It was the first Christmas we spent without her. This year we are with her. She's smiling. We're happy. Thank you Thixo.

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@buhle_matsha

5 years

End of 2019 I'm happy about the fact that I managed to lose weight & keep it off. I've always been big but doctor's orders were to lose weight or else...so I cut down my food portions. A bit of walking and jogging and I shed some kilos. I'm proud of myself... Before meets After

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@buhle_matsha

4 months

Even when they say they are joking, Pay attention. Pay attention to the words they choose to describe women, The way they frame conversations about women. You can ignore everything Feminists ever said about men. Do the work yourself. Listen to men when they speak about women

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4 months

@WheelsnToys He was determined to kill her

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1 year

I can confirm. Confidently. A heterosexual man's anger at being rejected increases exponentially if the woman in question is an unmarriageable reject: Old. Single mother. Divorcee. He's much angrier because "no one wants you, I'm doing u a favour just by looking at you."

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9 months

Green something something 😊

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1 year

Happiness has no sell by date... #BuhleAt48 #HappinessCorner

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@buhle_matsha

1 year

Once a month. Or once every 2 months, check your privilege. Nyatso checker masettings. Adjust a bit here & there, panel beat. I'm not saying abandon your privilege. No. Not at all. Keep it in check so u don't become insufferable. "Planning is not in our vocabulary." Shuwa, shuwa?

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@LadySthree97

1 year

Do you guys think our domestic tourism is THAT expensive? I honestly don’t think so. I think our problem as Zimbabweans is we are too lazy to RESEARCH and the term PLANNING is not in our vocabulary.

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Happy #MothersDay to all who, like me, are single mothers. The ones who are single, not because the child/ren's father died. The ones they bash zuvally. The ones they accuse of raising degenerates. This you? I am sending giant hugs & truckloads of love your way. Live a little😘

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@buhle_matsha

3 months

I missed my mother and sister quite a bit today. So, I danced. My sister and I used to go dancing together. I used to dance for my mother. I felt a bit better afterwards... This is my version of living a little. Living while I am grieving. #RIPNceku #MemoriesOfMaHadebe

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@buhle_matsha

5 years

@PennyPangeti I joined #DHUKU4TUKU #RIPTuku Celebrating the legend

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@buhle_matsha

2 years

In my next life I want to be a man. Penis & vibes to get me everywhere. No accountability. Wear a suit & tie, have a likkle twang and pretend I know it all. Dismiss women's contributions publicly and use them privately to pretend I know things. Penis & vibes to get me everywhere

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5 months

@josewtj The post did not say, so I have no way of knowing.

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@buhle_matsha

4 years

Highlanga Bosso. Amahlolanyama. Highlaaaander. Ongafuniyo kayekele...

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@buhle_matsha

1 year

I'm too old school to believe that your partner is too busy to communicate with u. I started dating when u went to the PTC phone booth to wait for the call at a set time. If you fail after 30mins, go home. Try kusasa. Now u have a phone that moves with u, & u are saying what? Nah

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@buhle_matsha

6 months

@candacecre8s_ The logical gender

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@buhle_matsha

4 years

Finally... Ndebele for Beginners with yours truly. See flyer for details. Please RT for awareness. @chenaichair @sistazai @Tchiyengaz @Terri_Tendai @TheRealMamoyo @fafie_m @kinkayny

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@buhle_matsha

3 years

I've fully recovered from the mini stroke. It put life into perspective. I'm walking freely now. I'm #grateful to Thixo lamadlozi. To get out of bed without a struggle. I'm more myself now. I'm absolutely loving it. Back to photo shoots at home, and living while I'm alive☺

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@buhle_matsha

2 years

Because life's too short, I don't wait for special occasions to have a makeover and take selfies. Actually, the makeover has made today special. I'm happy. So here's to finding little pockets of happiness. Here's to Fridaying. Here's to weekending 🥂 #BuhleAt47 #ThingsILove

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@buhle_matsha

2 years

22 years ago. Pregnant with my first child. Longish hair. Spatalala nose even more spatalala. Sprite at least 5 times a day. Married. Swollen feet. And so on and so forth... #TBThursday

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@buhle_matsha

2 years

I think the bigger issue is that black men's humour is centered on humiliating, demeaning black women. It could be hair, weight, skin tone, relationships, abuse. All of it. Black men always find humour in dragging black women. Like clockwork.

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@buhle_matsha

2 years

Believe me when I tell you that life has no formula. It can surprise you. It can shock you. You can be a good girl and not get any rewards, not even a certificate of attendance. You're frustrated because you think life is unfair. You think you deserve better than the Bad Girls.

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@buhle_matsha

1 year

As a Feminist who had fibroids after having two children, I can assure you that pregnancy didn't save me. So, unless I am an exception to a proven medical fact, please delete this...

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@buhle_matsha

2 years

One thing about growing up is the women open up to you. You're shocked to discover she was relieved when her husband died because he was so mean & abusive but she couldn't leave. She asks where she would go with her 10 children, no meaningful income & the clan depended on her?

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@buhle_matsha

1 year

Dear Young Woman, Here's the thing. I'm an older woman. So, some of these things I may not say outright, but I say them all the same. Because I don't want you to walk the road I have walked if I know it has lions & snakes. But if you still choose that road, it's ok. Your choice.

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@buhle_matsha

1 year

The one I named Lundi Anele is 20 today. Just like he screamed his way into the world, he makes sure his voice is heard even now. So, it's befitting that today, he is facilitating youth leadership training. Happy birthday, Dewa. More life & blessings. I love you, last born yam'❤️

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@buhle_matsha

2 years

I will caress him. Kiss him. Apologise for the misunderstanding. Then say "Sweetheart please wake up and eat." I will bring him warm water to wash his hands, then I'll feed him while I play his favourite music. Then double check his ID to see if he's really over 5...

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@pride_madziro

2 years

Your husband refuses to eat your food over a misunderstanding and goes to bed hungry. As a good wife what will you do?

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@buhle_matsha

5 months

Otherwise?

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@buhle_matsha

1 year

Proximity to patriarchy will not protect you from the perils of patriarchy...

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@buhle_matsha

1 year

I got myself a flirty, playful dress for Christmas. The little girl came out to play today. Merry Christmas to you. I wish you nothing but happiness, laughter, love and lots of Coleslaw Salad😊😊😊

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@buhle_matsha

2 years

My father in law calls me to check on the boys and I once or twice a week. Without fail. I'm still his makoti, his malukazana. His "Unjani mntanami?" means a lot to me. I'm #grateful . It's really heartwarming. I won that Jackpot🥰🥰🥰

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@buhle_matsha

1 year

I posted this photo on my WhatsApp status yesterday. Today, I woke up to this message: "I can see myself waking up next to this face every single day for the rest of my life..." So, if you don't see me again on these streets, just know I'm busy being somebody's wife😊🥰☺️

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@buhle_matsha

5 months

So, if you're a woman. You love dancing and groove. You turn 35. You are expected to cease all dancing and groove? If you live up to 60, you'll have 25 years of no dancing and no groove?

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