Times when duas get accepted
1.Between azaan and iqamah.
2.When it's raining.
3.During traveling.
4. At the time of adhaan.
5.On Friday between Asr and maghreb.
6.Tahajjud.
7. In sujood.
8.While fasting.
9.After reciting ayat ul kursi
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Marriages are so difficult. Why young girls and guys can't marry until guy is settled. Everyone knows it's almost impossible to make a lot of money in young age. The concept of growing together and supporting each other has no value in our society although it's very important.
Guy delivered food in heavy rain. Men work hard to provide their families with halal rizq, and so-called feminists have audacity to say, "All men are trash"
One of my mates got nikkahfied just 3 days before coming here on vedio call as her husband (her relative from mom's side) works in Lahore. She made shaami kababs and kheer on her day, and now, when she'll be done with study, she'll shift. That's how simple marriages should be.
My mom said to the aunty : I won't share my daughter's photo bcz she does pardah (cz I said so) then she said : "agr lrki sharai pardah krti hai tou lrka bhi apne sharai huqooq istemaal karay ga ghr pe hi bitha k rakhay ga." The reason I have said I won't go through rishta++
A woman got cancer, she was sick, and her husband married her best friend. Two closed ones betrayed her at the same time. It might have shaken her to the core.
Why do girls think they are 10/10 without knowing how to cook, clean, manage stuff, maintain everything, how to make relationships work, how to treat everyone, basic ethics, without having haya, basics of deen, having tolerance and ability to make compromises and educated ++
1. Music is haram (at least stop boasting about it as if it's an achievement to be a music addict)
2. We must not share our sins publicly with pride.
3. Stop telling the people who preach (with ethics) "don't judge." It's our duty to tell the right without insulting.
MY ROUTINE :
Wake up : 3:45 am
Fajr Quran 4:30 to 5:30
Breakfast 6:30 am
Class 7:15 am till 2 pm.
Lunch changing till 2:45 pm
Nap till 3:30 or 4
4:20 pm tajweed class
Study till maghreb (lec hall)
Dinner +cleaning duty 8:30pm
Subjects study (rooms)
On beds : 10 pm.
Yesterday, I was sitting with Baba, spending time with him, and he said "mje ijazat hai ab" because he had to go to sleep. And I said "mt jayin k dil abhi bhara nahi." The smile on his face Ahhhhh !
This rishta culture in our society is so sick. A random khandan come to see a girl, make her feel uncomfortable with judgmental looks n questions. And then reject her for no valid reason, without even thinking that their munda has no aukaaat !!!!!
In Islam, it's not allowed for the father of a guy to see the girl as he is not her mehram before nikah.
This culture needs to be stopped as it's against religion and against ethics, too.
I attended a wedding in my childhood (both were doctors) it was a love marriage (they had a long engagement), and afterward, the girl took khula from the guy because she wanted to go to Showbiz (family opposed) it's been so long guy has not yet remarried to anyone. He's still..
1. Women who choose to take care of family instead of making careers only* are doing a full-time job, too.
2. Women have got more rights than men in Islam.
3. Feminism is a scam. It favors men more than women.
4. Pardah (hijab) is Allah's commandment, not a man's.
culture ever. I just can't let all this happen to me. I just hated these comments (it's not Islam)
I wonder how women of our society have iron nerves who go through this torture.
My friend said, "dil krra muqqay maron aunty ko"
I was buying aalos (potatoes), and I asked about cucumbers. I asked. "aik kheera kitne ka hai?" And a sweet aunty standing besides me said "ap mjse lelo beta." Upon my refusing, she said,"main apni betiyon k liay le k ja rae ap bhi meri beti ho, " and I took one small one ++
No dowry (jahez), no lambay chory kharchay, no extra burden on girl's father. No hastle. Simple and beautiful.
"The most blessed nikah is one with least expenses" [Hadith]
@auratsoch
Muslim women are happy doing housechores "unpaid" they know how family works.
Men are supposed to provide them for their every need. And they aren't slaves to be paid for their own housework.
A man who allows her women (wife, daughter, sister) to wear whatever they want is not an ideal or good man. This notion is common everywhere that such men are real men, etc. They are not.
Guys who always say nobody wants to marry us because we don't have enough money. Marry a girl who is from a poor family she doesn't have that much needs or habit to be in a luxurious lifestyle. She can be a poor orphan or a widow. She would be content and happy with ...1/2
A girl in my class opened her lunch box (I could sense the smell of fries). Being hostelite, I couldn't have those. I was talking about how badly I was craving for Fries with chat masala, and the next day, a pretty lady bought fries with chat masala and ketchup for us.
Why is the idea that "All women want career" is projected. Not all women want this. Why people are made think that only successful women are those who have some career or are doing a job. Not all women are alike. I know a talented doctor she took a long break to raise her 1/n
If your heart aches on missing salah, then believe me, you are on the right path, and Allah loves you so much.
5 time prayers a day can heal you from the core.
Women should not post their pictures on social media. It's Islamically not correct, and obviously, there are many reasons behind this obligation. What men do and how filthy their thinking is. Are they worthy to see your precious beauty ? No.Allah protects us from the cruel world.
Guys who always say nobody wants to marry us because we don't have enough money. Marry a girl who is from a poor family she doesn't have that much needs or habit to be in a luxurious lifestyle. She can be a poor orphan or a widow. She would be content and happy with .... 1/2
Some men need to understand the difference between "attitude" and boundaries. If someone is clear about boundaries, then what's your issue ?
Nae chahiyay apki attention, friendship or whatever. It's so stupid of you to call this "nakhray" just because your fragile ego is hurt.
WINTER ROUTINE :
Wake up : 4:00 am
Quran 4:20-5-20 am
Fajr till 5:45 am
Cleaning duty till-6 am
Exercise 6:00-6:20 am
Breakfast 6:45 -7:00am
Islamic School 7:30-2:00 pm
Lunch till 2:30 pm
Qailola 2:45-3:45 pm
Study, tajweed cls, discussion till 7:30 ( in lecture hall) 1/2
When I first time wore niqab from a completely different attire and entered into my academy, one of my classfellows saw me. I greeted and sat with her, and honestly, she started "pulling my niqab" by repeating, "utaro isko ye kya pehan lya hai." It was not an elite area.
Feminist : I'll earn for myself 9/5 job, I'll do everything on my own, repair change tyre, lift weight, etc. I don't need men.
Muslimah : I don't need to worry about anything. My husband will take care of everything, finances, bills, etc. It's his responsibility, not mine. Relax
If he smokes / vapes, it's a red flag ๐ฉ๐ฉ๐ฉ๐ฉ๐ฉ๐ฉ๐ฉ๐ฉ๐ฉ๐ฉ๐ฉ๐ฉ๐ฉ๐ฉ๐ฉ๐ฉ๐ฉ๐ฉ๐ฉ๐ฉ๐ฉ๐ฉ๐ฉ๐ฉ๐ฉ๐ฉ๐ฉ๐ฉ๐ฉ๐ฉ๐ฉ๐ฉ๐ฉ๐ฉ๐ฉ๐ฉ๐ฉ๐ฉ๐ฉ๐ฉ๐ฉ๐ฉ๐ฉ๐ฉ๐ฉ๐ฉ
People who are saying why I ordered food ? I don't understand your logic. I mean, that's how they earn. They earn because people order food and they deliver.
Had to go to JHL in emergency right after Eid salah because my mom wasn't well. And doctors were on duty there (house officers) met a sweet Dr sahiba HO there (as males were offering Eid salah in hospital's mosque) she was from RYK away from her family, was not celebrating Eid...
My friend from India, who used to put my tweets on her WA status, told me that her calssfellow asked about me(for marriage). She told "she's from Pakistan." he said, "Tell her to come to India." She even asked me to come to India as he's top handsome doing PhD from top ...1/2
First men would do things for a girl, like sending her flowers chocolate, etc . everything to attract her towards him texting, calling (peechay peechay lrki k ) begging for her attention ready to accept all her conditions and real plot twist comes when girl genuinely starts 1/n
In that phase. He literally became so weak. His face can clearly tell. I can't forget that genuine smile on his face on his wedding. They both were the happiest. They looked so beautiful together. I admired that couple a lot. In fact, everyone did.
This is what Maria B designer has to say about this man. She is one of the concerned parents who got him removed from the Ted talk at ISL .
#westandwithisl
10.After calling Allah with his Ism e Azam (Al hayi Al Quyyom)
Surah Ali imran verse 1
A verse of Surah taha.
11.After reciting the last two verses of Surah Al Baqarah
12. After reciting (La ilaha illa anta subhanaka inni kuntu minaz zalimeen) ayat kareema.
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This must not happen ! He is man (feels like a woman so claim himself to be a woman which is unacceptable) who has made blasphemous remarks about Allah Swt and islam . He supports LGBTQ. Kindly help to stop all this fitnah from spreading in our country.
Women are so prevliged in Islam, just one thing that they have to cover themselves makes them feel subjugated God knows why ? I mean it's from Allah.
No financial responsibility on women and not stopped her from earning too, It's a beautiful religion, isn't it?
Guys need to stop this hypocrisy talking to girls, liking all modern uncovered girls and wanting a "parsa girl" or expecting a girl to change herself after marriage. No, man, it's not gonna happen. You have to like a girl the way you want her to be afterward. You CAN NOT force.
My mom used to get rishtas after her marriage. Even when my elder sister was in grade 9, my mom went to a gathering near khala's place, and someone asked, "Ye apki choti behan hai ?" Ye unmarried hain ?
P.S she doesn't wear any makeup.
Men think they have the right to abuse, use foul language, and make dirty double meaning jokes. They can say anything just because they are men, and they are not supposed to follow any modesty protocol. Educate yourself that Islam does not allow you to say whatever you want.
At the wedding an aunty came to me and said : mene apko penchana nahi
I said : I'm among friends not family.
She said : mje apka style acha laga :)
Very first time someone appreciates me. Although, I don't want anyone's appreciation but it was a kind gesture.
What would you do if you got to know that someone is praying for your lifetime partnership in tahajjud. Someone weeps for you ? Would you accept his/her proposal (if according to your choice) ?
@AnamCheema_
It's not the bare minimum. It's what men do with great efforts, and it MUST BE APPRECIATED. THANK YOU TO ALL MEN FOR MAKING LIFE EASY AND SAFE FOR THEIR WOMEN.
The thing that's the least important in our culture is choosing the right spouse. It's the most important thing it decides the future of your generation. It describes your personal growth. Your kids and your whole family life your mental health And people are so casual.. 1/n
People who are crying over a woman wearing a shirt with huroof (not Quranic). Same people would be spreading chaddar over the graves with legit written Quranic verses (surahs) and animals running over them. That is actual gustakhi and be adabi of Quran.
Education is important.
Desi weddings are not supposed to be a dance show. Proper dance performances and calling it culture art, enjoyment, and family time, etc.
It's just BEHAHAYI
HOW CAN SOMEONE ENJOY HIS DAUGHTER'S OR SISTER'S DANCE ??
This aunty is *Rishta wali aunty who would send the picture to different families (jinmein males bhi hongay).
Yes, the guy can see the potential spouse (but when it's mutual ) aesai tou sbko in general ni bhej sktay na photo.