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Trans (she/her) #ADHD . Demi. Singing in defiance of a broken voice. The album, I CAN ONLY ME is out NOW. Author of the novel, TO BE A GIRL (also out now).

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Alexandra Hamer
5 months
My new album, I CAN ONLY ME is out now on all streaming platforms. 9 songs for the defiant outsiders of the ugly-beautiful world we've fallen into. Buy a copy if you can, but please listen for free if you can't.
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5 months
Trans regret is real - the vast majority of trans adults regret not being able to transition when they were children.
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3 years
Except they're not actually your "sisters" are they? I mean biology matters, right?
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7 months
The girl who murdered Brianna is going to a women's prison - an extremely dangerous psychopath to be housed with vulnerable women. Transphobes have nothing to say about it, of course, because their issue has never been the safety of women - they just hate trans people.
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1 year
Hey, here's some pictures of lovely Elliot Page, outraging transphobes by smiling.
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2 years
Depriving a trans girl of puberty blockers, is exactly the same as forcibly injecting a cis girl with testosterone.
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4 years
Depriving a trans girl of puberty blockers, is exactly the same as forcibly injecting a cis girl with testosterone.
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Alexandra Hamer
3 years
If a cis man feels distressed by excessive breast tissue, or a cis woman feels distressed by excessive facial hair, that's gender dysphoria.
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3 years
*Man punches trans woman in face* BBC: "Trans Woman Injures Man's Hand."
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1 year
Transitioned 21 years ago and #stillnoregrets
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Alexandra Hamer
3 years
Let's extend the GRA to include cis people. No one gets to be legally male or female until: 1. Aged 18 2. Lived "in role" for 2 years. 3. Have confirmation of gender ID from specialist psych. 4. Have submitted application to a panel of people who don't know them. Fair's fair.
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5 months
They have a look, don't they, transphobes.
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2 years
This is a Mumsnet reaction to the murder of Brianna Ghey. What is the matter with these people?
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1 year
Most of the trans women murdered in the USA were black. This is just Rowling trying to help turn their own communities against them.
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Alexandra Hamer
4 years
How it should be: Patient: "I'm trans and I would like an hormone prescription please." Doctor: "Certainly. Here you go. We'll also do some blood tests to make sure you get the right dose. Do you need any associated surgeries? If so, I'll get you on the waiting list." 1/2
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Alexandra Hamer
2 years
All the #IStandWithJKRowling people saying Daniel Radcliffe should never criticise Rowling cos she helped his career, really need to read up on Harvey Weinstein.
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Alexandra Hamer
3 years
Dear trans Twitter, sorry to have to tell you this, but I have it on good authority from Mumsnet, that we are also responsible for the climate crisis. I would therefore like to apologise to cis people everywhere - I honestly wasn't intending to cause a mass extinction event.
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4 months
I see Mumsnet are fielding their top intellectual today.
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4 years
How to spot a transphobe: They're worried that peer-pressure is making cis kids think they're trans, but they aren't worried that peer-pressure is making trans kids think they're cis.
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Alexandra Hamer
4 years
How to spot a transphobe: They call a trans girl a "son" because biology is important, but they call an adopted girl a "daughter" because biology is not important.
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3 years
After discussing it with my wife, we've decided that it's just too dangerous for trans people in the UK right now for me to continue wearing my trans pride badge. I'm lucky that I pass well enough to blend in, but I fear for any of my trans siblings who don't have that luxury.
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Patient: "I'm not sure yet, doctor, but I'll let you know." Doctor: "That's fine. Here's a leaflet on the expected effects of the hormones. Any problems or unusual symptoms, just pop back to see me." Patient: "Okay, thanks, doctor. Bye now." 2/2
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Alexandra Hamer
3 years
Dear cis allies, I just wanted to say 2 things: 1. Thank you so much for your support in these dark times. 2. Please keep going - we are so few in number, and we can only be safe if enough cis people stand beside us.
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Alexandra Hamer
3 years
Dear transphobes, tell me all the terrible things that happened to you when I transitioned.
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Alexandra Hamer
4 years
This "trans means lifelong medication" thing - I rub a bit of estrogel onto my thigh in the morning and again before bed. It's no more time-consuming or traumatic than moisturising my face.
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Alexandra Hamer
5 months
I keep thinking of a trans woman on a hospital ward, facing major surgery, or chemotherapy, frightened, lonely, and then being told to "Go away, you're not welcome here - we don't want you." I just feel so sad about it 💔
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Alexandra Hamer
4 years
The Keira Bell paradox: Trans girls are too young to choose an estrogen puberty, but not too young to choose a testosterone puberty.
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Alexandra Hamer
3 years
The real concern transphobes have about puberty blockers, is that they make your transness invisible - it's difficult to bully and oppress a group of people if you can't see them.
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Alexandra Hamer
3 years
Why on Earth would someone wearing an LGB Alliance T-shirt not be welcome at a Pride event? 🤔
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Alexandra Hamer
3 years
Can someone just clarify - is JK Rowling complaining about her house being posted online by the papers, or by tourist guides, or by Wikipedia, or becase it's in the background of a trans person's picture?
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Alexandra Hamer
3 years
Well, this is my 20th year on estrogen. Could any transphobes please let me know when I should expect my regret and detransition? I mean, you did promise it was coming, but I still haven't seen any sign of it.
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Alexandra Hamer
2 years
I am a trans woman, and therefore female, so #RespectMySex
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Alexandra Hamer
4 years
Occasionally, someone turns the lights on at Mumsnet:
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Alexandra Hamer
2 years
@josephjames94 Solidarity JJ. You've done the right thing - this gets JK "free speech" Rowling's lawyers off your back, but the LGBT community still know exactly what the truth is.
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Alexandra Hamer
2 years
@VickyMiller74 So, there's a particularly vulnerable student, who is likely to be at risk of self-harm and bullying, and your plan is to make their life a little bit harder? Aren't you lovely.
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Alexandra Hamer
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That's right, transphobes - if you can keep prisoners safe from a dangerous cis woman, you can keep them safe from a dangerous trans woman. Your safety argument for trans exclusion is therefore empty.
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Alexandra Hamer
2 years
@jessphillips Dear Jess, thank you so much for remembering Brianna Ghey. 🧡💛💚💜💚💛🧡 The putrid transphobia in the comments is exactly the reason it was important to do so.
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Alexandra Hamer
5 months
So funny watching the transphobes say this isn't true while loads of actual trans people are in the comments saying it is true.
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Alexandra Hamer
3 years
Joanna Cherry says in the Times today: "What I and many others do not support is self-identification of sex for anyone..." I think this is great - don't let anyone, even cis people self-identify their sex. Fair's fair.
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Alexandra Hamer
3 years
@Twosidesofacoin It's simply the observation that people feel distress about having physical characteristics of the opposite sex to the one they perceive themselves to be. Cis men seek to have breast tissue removed for exactly the same reason as trans men. Ditto facial hair for cis & trans women.
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3 years
@tash_om I don't know - I take the point of the thread and every point is valid, but personally, I'm all about the intent. If someone is trying to be supportive, I don't really care how clumsy and poorly thought throught their actual words are.
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Alexandra Hamer
3 years
I'm looking at this picture of French transphobes and wondering what they would say if trans people had a flag with a weapon on it.
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Transphobes are the kind of people who would walk up to a stranger and say, "You're fat. I'm not bullying you - I'm just stating a fact".
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Alexandra Hamer
3 years
Maybe we need to talk about Rapid Onset Transphobia (ROT).
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Alexandra Hamer
3 years
Hey @jk_rowling , here's one of your supporters. Should we follow your logic and extrapolate from them to all of your supporters?
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Alexandra Hamer
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@BuckAngel That's ok - you do you. The majority of us wish we could have done it younger.
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Alexandra Hamer
3 years
As a trans woman, I just want to say a humble thank you to everyone tweeting #CisWithTheT Yesterday was just awful, but you've made today beautiful. ❤️🧡💛💚💙💜
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Alexandra Hamer
3 years
Following Allison Bailey's logic through, boys need to be given estrogen or they will never know the erotic possibility of having their breasts fondled.
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Alexandra Hamer
4 years
JK Rowling wants to stop trans kids being put on puberty blockers. But if you say that this makes her a danger to children, she will sue you:
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Alexandra Hamer
3 years
This also means there'd have to be a legal category of non-binary that we all start with and which you can stay in by simply never applying for a GRC.
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3 years
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3 years
"Gender Critical" is an English adjective meaning, "I hate trans people."
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2 years
@GCAnonymous2 So a trans girl is too young to choose a testosterone puberty. Come on - think...
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5 months
Trans people, do you regret not being able to transition as a child? Share for coverage.
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2 years
@5iveFlights The whole thread was deleted in the end. It was making them look like monsters.
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2 years
I'm trans, and according to the EHRC, my superpower is my ability to rob cis people of their dignity, just by being near them.
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Depriving a trans girl of puberty blockers, is exactly the same as forcibly injecting a cis girl with testosterone.
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4 years
How to spot a transphobe: They want to make sure that no cis girl suffers the unwanted effects of testosterone, but they also want to make sure that every trans girl does.
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Alexandra Hamer
6 months
Depriving a trans girl of puberty blockers, is exactly the same as forcibly injecting a cis girl with testosterone.
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#Breaking Children will no longer be prescribed puberty blockers at gender identity clinics, NHS England has confirmed
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It was honestly not my purpose to show that transphobes are a bit thick and would be unable to unravel the point being made, but here were are 😊
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Alexandra Hamer
2 years
#InternationalWomensDay is a good day to post a photo of a woman - me - who just happens to be trans, womaning around and having a life while not hurting anyone else.
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Alexandra Hamer
4 years
TRANS REGRET - a poll for trans people. Please retweet if you have lots of trans followers. "I regret..."
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#WomenWontWheesht Literal translation: "Women won't be silent." Actual meaning: "I hate trans people."
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3 years
#TransWomenareWomen and most cis women who are friends to trans women don't care about "biological" arguments - to them their trans friend is a woman in every practical sense, and they interact with her in exactly the same what they do their cis friends.
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2 years
There's more.
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This post isn't about age - I'm easily as old as many of the people in this picture. It's about people from privileged demographics coming together to oppress a tiny, vulnerable minority.
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Alexandra Hamer
3 years
Dear JK Rowling and assorted transphobes: If you believe that women can't rape because the "legal" definition of rape requires a penis, then you also believe that no woman was raped by her husband before 2003 because rape didn't "legally" exist in marriage until then.
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Alexandra Hamer
2 years
@jk_rowling Just watch what Grahame said, then read Rowling's post, and that will tell you everything you need to know about what transphobia does to your mind.
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Brendan May
2 years
One of the most sensible takes on ‘cancel culture’ I’ve seen. Sensible, honest, smart. I’m posting the video directly as Times Radio tweeted it with a clickbait and somewhat misleading headline that unintentionally confirmed his point. More of this please.
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@Dar7hSalt Seems to be a lot of trans people in the replies disagreeing with you.
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1 year
What is a woman? I still think Shon Faye summed it up best:
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2 years
That "Z" on Harry Potter's forehead seems a particularly poetic flourish today. JK Rowling.
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@BBCWomansHour You could celebrate it being the first final that isn't all cis.
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3 months
#IStandAgainstJKRowling as a statement of basic humanity.
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3 years
Dear transphobes, if you believe that women can't rape because the "legal" definition of rape requires a penis, then you also believe that no woman was raped by her husband before 1991 because rape didn't "legally" exist in marriage until then.
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2 years
@helenstaniland It's not just Aidan, Helen - I've heard that pro lifers are not welcome at pro-choice marches. It just makes no sense 🤔
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Alexandra Hamer
3 years
@BigBillMoon So, one group campaigns to block the recommended medical treatment for a small number of vulnerable kids, and the other group is some of those kids telling them to fuck off. Not quite sure why you're confused.
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4 years
Vice-versa for trans boys of course. And let's be clear - that fact that puberty blockers exist, means that a choice exists.
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Alexandra Hamer
1 year
Or, you could get together with a group of trans men in a coffee shop, and just have a pleasant conversation about shared experiences.
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Alexandra Hamer
2 years
I think the reason that transphobes are so enraged by this beautiful moment, is that they have spent so much time trying to convince people that trans women's breasts are somehow not "real" breasts. Reality has a liberal bias.
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Glinner says all books by trans authors are "universally panned", so I'd just like to point out that my novel has a rating on Amazon of 4.6 - same as Wolf Hall by Hilary Mantel which won the Booker Prize 😘
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3 years
Dear trans people, I just want to thank you all for the "chilling effect" you've had on free speech. I no longer see any transphobia at all in the media, or on Twitter. Well done us.
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@BainzyC You don't even agree with yourself.
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2 years
@jk_rowling @gameonterfs Hmm, 2 followers, an account that was only opened in November 2022, and a profile picture designed to give transphobes ammunition. This smells like a transphobe's sock account.
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2 years
@TaylorAdvocate Cutting off access to social media is one of the techniques Leelah Alcorn's parents used.
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Alexandra Hamer
4 years
Everyone needs to see Mermaid's statement today - it is massively important:
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@RoseS8563079559 Are you saying you can only keep prisoners safe from homicidal psychopaths is the psychopath is cis?
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4 years
How to spot a transphobe: They will always ask, "What if you change your mind?" But they will never ask, "What if you don't change your mind?"
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4 years
The #IStandWithKeiraBell people in a nutshell: They want to make sure that no cis girl suffers the unwanted effects of testosterone, but they also want to make sure that every trans girl does. We call that #transphobia
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3 years
Transphobes keep saying that a straight man would be justifiably disgusted to find out he'd had sex with a trans woman cos "trans women are men" and it would therefore be "gay sex" Thing is, when you keep telling people that gay sex is disgusting, bad things happen to gay people
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I #StandWithMaya draining money out of the bank accounts of transphobes.
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2 years
@suzireeves1965 @pickle_bee There's no need to be so cis about it.
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1 year
If you're not trans, you're "cis". If you're not gay, you're "straight". If you're not intersex, you're "endosex". If you're not neurodivergent, you're "neurotypical". If the only one of these words you object to is "cis", then you're also a "transphobe".
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4 years
This is brilliant: So, shero Patsy Stevenson was pinned to the ground by the police at the Sarah Everard vigil, but because Patsy is trans-inclusive, the terverts think trans people set the whole thing up just so she could say "trans women and cis women" on telly 🤪
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3 years
#ShameOnSussexUni for employing Kathleen Stock - a trustee of a "charity" that says this:
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"We do use our real faces, quite often actually, and without filters, too. Heres mine. I, alongside almost every trans person doesn’t look like your stupid wojak caricature."
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Promote the eradication of trans people on Twitter? No problem, but call a transphobe a cunt, and get your account locked for 12 hours for hateful conduct.
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2 years
@NeenaBhaze Same enemies. Not sure why this isn't obvious to you, but now you know.
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Alexandra Hamer
4 years
I am a trans woman. Feel free to try to convince me I am not female, but do be aware that people have been trying to do that literally since I was born, and with no success whatsoever.
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Alexandra Hamer
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Dear JK Rowling. About trans surgery - regret rates are actually tiny as you can see from this meta-analysis of 55 studies taken over 25 years:
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