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Christ follower | Bishop’s wife | girl mama | sahm | counselor & advocate & mentor | business owner

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Adara Sherron, M.A.
2 years
Something my husband and I do every 6 months is what we like to call a “check in”. We have a face to face conversation to check and see whether or not we are meeting each other’s needs in communication, sex, emotional support, quality time, etc.
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Having children with the right man who wants to have his children and be present in their lives, and show them healthy parenting with you is so much more important than having them by a certain age.
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1 year
Hubby and I decided we want to afford our girls the opportunity to be stay at home daughters until they get married. They can work if they like but they won’t “have” to. They can move out if they want to but they won’t “have” to.
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1 year
I’ll never forget when hubby and I had the convo about our deal breakers. He said “you never have to worry about cheating because more than I love you, I fear God & take his word serious”.I feel like that makes the difference. A man who loves you yes, but has a reverence for God.
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3 months
RAVEN SYMONE WHAT DO YOU MEAAAAAAANNNNN
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Naw because RAVEN WHAT DID YOU MEAN BY THAT!?!??!?!?!??! HELLO!?
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Adara Sherron, M.A.
1 year
Real life story time! I briefly dated someone who saw flowers as a complete waste of his money. And refused to buy them. Like ever. REFUSED. Even on “special occasions”. And it was exhausting trying to explain why I liked flowers and why it made me feel special for my
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Adara Sherron, M.A.
1 year
So I have a “friend” who I’m really starting to feel like isn’t my friend. If I don’t reach out to her, I never ever hear from her. Like ever. I’m ALWAYS the one checking in, sending texts, saying happy birthday, holiday greetings etc. This isn’t friendship.
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Adara Sherron, M.A.
1 year
Cheating is not a part of the ups and downs of marriage. Fight me.
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Adara Sherron, M.A.
2 years
One month after we got married, my husband was fired from his job. We were newly married. Wedding was debt free & we used the money we got in gifts to pay down student loans. That left us with a whopping $1500 in our accounts between the two of us. $1000 in mine and $500 in his.
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Adara Sherron, M.A.
1 year
There are women who really genuinely value sisterhood and friendship. If that’s you, I pray you find your tribe and rock out forever.
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Adara Sherron, M.A.
2 years
So another thing my husband and I do is refrain from having important conversations by text. We learned very early on—actually in engagement that texts can go way off the rails because you can’t assess tone, body language, and you can only say but so much in a text.
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Adara Sherron, M.A.
1 year
When hubby and I got serious about courtship, I fasted and prayed, and asked God to erase any ties to and memories of the men I had been with before my husband. I was not coming to our marriage bed with no prior activity. I wasn’t coming to it ashamed or condemned either because
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1 month
I remember a family member whispered to me as she was hugging me at my wedding reception “you’ll be happy for a year or so and then the reality will set in” I unhugged her so fast and with a smile said I cancel that in the name of Jesus! I renounce this curse spoken!” That was
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Adara Sherron, M.A.
1 year
My husband is my best friend. I can literally tell him anything and he will laugh with me, lament with me, or take a leap of faith with me. Whatever it is. I’m safe with him and I think that’s the kind of love worth having.
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Adara Sherron, M.A.
2 years
More black women are deciding to be stay home wife/moms, homeschool, detoxify chemicals from homes, pursue slower living, and grow gardens and I love that for us.
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Adara Sherron, M.A.
2 years
“How am I doing as YOUR husband/wife” is the question we ask eachother. Not “how am I doing as a husband/wife”. The two are very different. How am I doing to you…not to anyone else. It’s personal and is intentional to find out and adjust based on the feedback received.
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Adara Sherron, M.A.
2 years
He just needed time and for me to trust. Fast forward, everything he promised, he made good on. The moral of this is that a man who loves his woman never forgets how she was there when he lost everything. When he is in the position to, he will later give her everything and more.
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Adara Sherron, M.A.
1 year
Here’s a thread of prayers you can pray for your husband/future husband. 🧵
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Adara Sherron, M.A.
2 years
This works well for us because it’s a chance for us to have had ample time to think about what is working and not working since the last check in.
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Adara Sherron, M.A.
1 year
When some women talk about how they can do everything a man does I keep very quiet because as it turns out, I personally cannot do everything a man does, and no part of me wants to.
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Adara Sherron, M.A.
2 years
Above all, it’s a chance to find better ways to serve and love each other, while growing together. This strengthens our marriage and it works.
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Adara Sherron, M.A.
2 years
This isn’t an opportunity to railroad each other with the things we don’t like about each other. We use this time to offer loving feedback, even when discussing things that could be done differently or better.
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Adara Sherron, M.A.
1 year
Pray for discernment and clarity when you first start getting to know someone. Just because you’re drawn to them, doesn’t mean you’re supposed to be dating them.
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Adara Sherron, M.A.
2 years
Marry someone who will worship God with you. That’s my utmost best piece of unsolicited relationship advice 🤍
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Adara Sherron, M.A.
1 year
@thefemaleyee Not sure where you gathered I don’t have parameters for that ?
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Adara Sherron, M.A.
3 years
I love that praying doesn’t require eloquent speech or a grand performance. You can just talk to God even if the words don’t come together perfectly.
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Adara Sherron, M.A.
2 years
You can’t afford to not pray and not read your Bible. You know it. Too much is happening.
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Adara Sherron, M.A.
5 months
2024 will be a year of “Come and see what the Lord has done”
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Adara Sherron, M.A.
2 years
I was baffled because leaving had never even crossed my mind! In my mind as soon as I heard the “fired” I started calculating how much overtime I could swing to carry us and our church mortgage. Oh yeah, my husband pastors a church. The whole idea that pastors steal money is wild
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Adara Sherron, M.A.
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Also context I forgot to add: she did try to make it a “joke” when I pulled away but there was and still is absolutely nothing funny about that. Nope. 👎🏽
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Adara Sherron, M.A.
4 years
Normalize serving God because He’s God and not just so we can get what we want from Him.
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Adara Sherron, M.A.
1 year
There are good men out there who don’t have to be begged to be faithful. I promise they exist.
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Adara Sherron, M.A.
2 years
When a man has lost everything and his woman has been there through it all, no man in his right mind is going to turn on that woman who has been there. Notice I said in his right mind. Men are very logical and think everything through. They calculate. Even with love.
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Adara Sherron, M.A.
1 year
I love praying because God is so safe. I feel so much peace and safety when I pray knowing what I say won’t end up in somebody’s group chat, won’t be used against me in an argument, and won’t be dismissed.
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Adara Sherron, M.A.
1 year
Not some of y’all trying to make me the villain. “sHE maY hAvE sOmEThInG gOinG oN” & I don’t? I have a lot going on & STILL find time. There’s more I should have put in my original tweet. Every special moment of her life I have shown up. Every moment of mine, nowhere to be found.
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Adara Sherron, M.A.
2 years
I’m a very “my husband” kind of woman. I married an amazing man and I am gonna talk about it without remorse.
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Adara Sherron, M.A.
2 years
This is your “and God remembered her” season, sis.
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Adara Sherron, M.A.
2 years
Before I could utter a hello he broke down & told me he got fired out of nowhere. He kept saying “I don’t know what I’ll do if you l leave. Give me time to find another job & provide”. I had never seen him so afraid. He kept begging me to come home and that he would figure it out
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Adara Sherron, M.A.
2 years
He said he didn’t know but he gave me his word that it would happen and my dream of being a stay home wife would happen. Dreams are funny little things. They require work to become reality. And that’s what we did. We worked together. And I never once spoke down to him.
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Adara Sherron, M.A.
2 years
We were paying several of our church’s bills. Because that’s what you do when there’s a need. Anyway, I told my manager I had an emergency at home and left. I came home to him crying & I realized this deeply hurt him because he was used to providing and always had done so.
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Adara Sherron, M.A.
2 years
Now a month later that was being snatched and things were about to get shaky. We would struggle a bit. However, never in my mind did I think about leaving. In fact, I got another job. For better or worse was imprinted on my soul. So we had dinner that night.
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Adara Sherron, M.A.
1 year
@thefemaleyee Ma’am. I’m not about to list out all the ways I’ve prepared for my children to thrive in this world once I am gone. That is none of your business, respectfully.
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Adara Sherron, M.A.
1 year
I don’t care what the girlies in the “I don’t need a man camp” say; being loved correctly by the right man is a top tier experience. I need that forever.
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Adara Sherron, M.A.
2 years
I feel like women were sold a lie. We were told we didn’t need men and that’s a huge lie. They need us and we need them. There’s absolutely no shame in this. God wired us to need each other.
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Adara Sherron, M.A.
1 year
A financial therapist shared that you can put your child as authorized user on your credit card when they are born, and build their credit history for them by paying your credit on time so that on their 18th birthday they inherit 18 years worth of excellent credit history.
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Adara Sherron, M.A.
2 years
No important things are discussed by text (that’s another post for another day) but I will never forget the text “hey babe, we need to talk and it’s not a text conversation. Can I call you right now?” I knew this was serious so I excused myself to talk I called him.
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Adara Sherron, M.A.
9 months
A marriage where you both are led by Holy Spirit >>>>>
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Adara Sherron, M.A.
1 year
I have no issue with the fact he loves God more than me. That’s the way it should be. Too many people put God on the back burner of their romantic relationships. God has to be first and utmost. He will have no other gods before Him. Even a “godly marriage”.
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Adara Sherron, M.A.
2 years
Fired with $500 in his bank account. That left me with $1000 in mine but I still had a biweekly paycheck because I was working. I will never forget the day he was let go. It was not like a usual day. He barely spoke to me all day and in the afternoon he texted. We have a rule..
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Adara Sherron, M.A.
4 years
I will never apologize for believing what the Bible says.
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Adara Sherron, M.A.
1 year
All I want for 2023 is the will of God in my life, to be a blessing to others, and for very personal and unshakable joy.
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1 year
I’ve realized this isn’t a friendship. I battled postpartum depression twice. Couldn’t even shower some days and yet still managed to check on my friends BECAUSE I CARE. I am muting this thread now.
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Adara Sherron, M.A.
4 years
Society loves Christian culture but not truly devoted Christians. Society loves gold crosses as jewelry, t shirts that have cool sayings on them, and even pretty mugs, journals and canvas wall art of scripture but not the standards upheld by the Bible.
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Adara Sherron, M.A.
5 years
Marrying a man who actually wants to be faithful in marriage without having to be told to be faithful in marriage makes a huge difference. Wait for that. Wait for him.
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Adara Sherron, M.A.
2 years
We didn’t have a kitchen table so we sat on our pull out couch and ate Wendy’s. He said “babe, I know it doesn’t seem like it right now but we can come back from this. I just need a little time. Please just give me time. To which my question was obvious- how much time.
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1 year
@thefemaleyee Inflation and common sense? You assumed that I don’t have parameters in place. Please don’t assume anything about strangers.
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Adara Sherron, M.A.
5 months
I stand on the fact the person you are involved with romantically can ruin your life. You gotta choose wisely and use discernment. For real.
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Adara Sherron, M.A.
1 year
Brothers, I’m going to help you out. This is a thread of 5 things virtuous women of God want. These things are not hard to give.
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1 year
I want every woman to get her happily ever after. Whatever it looks like for her.
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Adara Sherron, M.A.
2 years
God, make me a friend worth having.
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Adara Sherron, M.A.
1 year
People can laugh at me, accuse me of being a “former whore” and whatever else. I know I am not and my king doesn’t see me as that. I’ve noticed the people who are mocking my testimony are the same ones crying and arguing online all day about the dating pool. Anyways, muted. Be
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Ladies, read this carefully. A man knows when you are his wife and meant to spend the rest of his life with him. God gave them this instinctual sense of “she is what’s been missing from my life” SO, if you’re with a man who keeps stringing you along saying he “doesn’t know” about
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1 year
No because really. Why don’t we see successful a Black family man who loves his wife and kids in the media more? Why isn’t that represented?
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1 year
I will never apologize for being well taken care of by my husband. I won’t water it down, either. It is what it is. Yes, my husband does pay all the bills and I work part time by choice. And yes, I���m 100% okay with “a large portion of my financial well-being coming from him” I
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Marry a man who knows how to talk to you and entreat you even if or when he’s upset with you. Anything less, that my girls...is settling. Someone who knows how to treat you like a decent human being in good moments and not so good moments is MAJOR.
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Adara Sherron, M.A.
8 months
One man’s “I’m not ready” is another man’s “I was ready the moment I saw her”. Remember this girls.
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Adara Sherron, M.A.
2 years
@Ofochebe Because the person he was in a relationship with before me was very money driven
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6 years
You can do all things through Christ, except play me.
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Adara Sherron, M.A.
6 months
Excuse me everybody, I just wanted to kindly remind you to be very extra specific in your prayers to God. I’m telling you from experience….He answers down to the smallest detail you might think is insignificant. So BE SPECIFIC! 🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽
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Adara Sherron, M.A.
2 years
I love how Jesus appeared to a woman when He rose from the grave. Why? Because long ago, a serpent appeared to a woman in a garden and caused the chaos her life. Jesus appears to a woman and calms the chaos in her life. That does it for me.
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Adara Sherron, M.A.
2 years
The internet is really going to break when I really share what it was like marrying a virgin man and how I deeply regret that I didn’t save my virginity for marriage too. But, our marriage has prevailed and the sex was and still is WONDERFUL!
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3 years
One man’s “let’s just see where it goes, is another man’s “this is the direction we are headed in”. Do not settle my girls. Please. Whatever y’all do. Do not settle for being strung along when you can strut holding hands with someone who WANTS to walk with you.
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Adara Sherron, M.A.
2 years
I don’t care who says what. Marriage is amazing and you should absolutely look forward to it, if you desire to be married.
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Adara Sherron, M.A.
1 month
The mighty matchless name of Jesus
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This dragon attacks your city, who you calling?
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Adara Sherron, M.A.
3 years
Pick a sister in Christ and uplift her in prayer for the next 21 days straight. No big showcase, no grand announcement saying thus is what you’re doing —just pray for her.
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Adara Sherron, M.A.
10 months
“Lord, I believe; but help my unbelief” is one of the rawest prayers ever.
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Adara Sherron, M.A.
1 year
It’s my man for meeee. He’s the main character I’m just his biggest fan 😍🥰😘
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You don’t have to have a husband and or babies to be complete as a woman. Let this be the last day you are stressed, obsessed, distressed or depressed over the events of your life. There is no deadline. So please stop believing there is. Love, adara
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Adara Sherron, M.A.
2 years
Having friends that can pray for you when you can’t seem to find the strength to pray for yourself is such an underrated blessing.
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Adara Sherron, M.A.
4 years
My nursery is complete 😍🥰. My daughter will be sleeping in such a loving space. I put so much into this.
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Adara Sherron, M.A.
3 years
A thread on practical boundaries for young Christian couples. These are a few that worked for us and kept us while we dated.
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Adara Sherron, M.A.
4 years
Marry someone who walks with God for himself or herself. It’s so so important.
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Adara Sherron, M.A.
3 years
Your marriage should be the gospel on display to your children.
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Adara Sherron, M.A.
5 years
I pray that your next relationship is your last one and it is driven by the Holy Spirit and not your hormones.
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Adara Sherron, M.A.
1 year
Fire this graphic artist immediately and indefinitely!! The way my heart jumped for no reason!!!!
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Adara Sherron, M.A.
4 years
If I was homeless, I know I wouldn’t want anyone snapping a picture of my face while they are doing a good deed for me. At my lowest point, I think a camera might depress me even more. If you’re volunteering this holiday season, just do it. You don’t need a photo op proving it.
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@iamtobiasdevon Nope. And I’m not quite sure I’m supposed to. I have no desire to. Nothing in you realizes the only time we speak is when I reach out ? Nah. At this age, we are all busy and all have things going on.
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Adara Sherron, M.A.
4 years
Postpartum depression needs to be a topic more discussed in Christian culture. You can’t always “just pray” it away. You can’t always “just be thankful you have a baby”. Your body & hormones are literally trying to find their way back to some sort of normalcy. It’s a real thing.
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1 year
I want every good woman to get her happily ever after. Whatever that looks like for her.
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Adara Sherron, M.A.
1 year
Marriage isn’t about being in love, or happy. You’ve been lied to. Those things can come in the process but those are not reasons to get married. When times get hard, and at some point they will—when you don’t feel in love, it’s the commitment to the covenant that will hold it
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Adara Sherron, M.A.
6 years
One sign of maturity is being able to admit you’re not ready for a relationship instead of leading someone on who assumes you are.
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11 months
Everyone deserves to know Jesus loves them.
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Adara Sherron, M.A.
1 year
I tweet for the girls who had need to see that God restores and redeems; and no matter what makes you have made, you’re still lovely and worthy in His eyes.
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Adara Sherron, M.A.
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Sometimes, it’s not the devil. It’s the discipline—or lack thereof.
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Adara Sherron, M.A.
3 years
Having great girl friends is just as important as having a great boyfriend or great husband. Sisterhood still matters.
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Reject every word curse spoken over you. Renounce every single one. You are not hard to love, you are not damaged, you are not broken. Renounce!
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1 year
I still believe in being faithful to your spouse
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9 months
A marriage where you prioritize the kingdom of God together>>>>>
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Adara Sherron, M.A.
2 years
Godly women exist. Godly men exist.
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Adara Sherron, M.A.
1 year
A transgender male (born a woman) shooting up a Christian school because she was resentful about being made to go there as a child is absolutely a hate crime. And we need to call it what it is. HATE CRIME.
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