@defnotcybrdivr
maybe because you have a life threatening eating disorder?? women go through hormonal changes, hence why they put on some weight. it’s not like they get fat, they just gain so they’re no longer underweight (many 16 year olds are)
"if you can pinch it you can lose it" NO! this quote makes me want to pull my hair out because medically?? it is not possible?? it is not realistic?? you will always be able to pinch your skin, even if you're bonespo
@strvngjellyfish
idk how to tell you this but that food wasn't going to get eaten. it wasn't going to go to the people that are starving. op could have left it to sit and rot or they could have eaten it and thrown it up 10 minutes later which is
no better than just throwing it in the trash
@issabellez
its just a mental thing like if you dont count veggie cals you'll eat more veggies, which makes you more full so you eat less calorie dense foods without feeling like youre wasting cals on smth you dont like (veggies)
@defnotcybrdivr
@allirexia
og post is about how women gain weight and don't have the same body as they did at 16. once again, where does it at all say anything about getting fat or obese....reading comprehension is a skill
@earthlingrexic
ive seen a lot of posts lately talking about hating her even before the mcdonalds thing! also, shes clearly going through a binge episode and i think its sorta fucked up to judge when she clearly cant control what shes eating and doesnt have the self control to stop
@lamictalspo
no because i still have nightmares about that one time i binged at a school club meeting and literally ate 10 giant cookies while everyone watched💀
@juyeonverse2
@notsafe4whales
thats just not true...children naturally have a lower bmi? thats why most bmi calculators and weight loss things make calculations off people being 18
@starvingsaturn
ehh theres a difference between having an eating disorder and disordered eating. what he's doing is definitely disordered eating, but without knowing his mindset and his individual relationship with food there's no way of knowing whether or not he has bulimia
@akutameow
nah i once binged on some and ate like 10 and was still constipated for two weeks so!!! also its basically just lax with calories like atp just have lax
@imyeojincals
idk i think naturally eating around your maintenance and maintaining a bmi of 17/18/19 without needing to think about food is still a type of "naturally skinny" bcs they arent thinking about their weight
everyone always says to identify your binge triggers but i dont fucking know?? the whole time im binging i know what im doing is wrong, i know its going to make my stomach hurt, i know its destroying all my progress, i just cant bring myself to care. idk why i binge i just do
@renskcal
pls don’t delete it just bcs you’re getting hate!! i think it’s sooo important to highlight the struggles of having an ed to dissuade other ppl from making themselves worse
did yk when i first joined edtwt i was confused how people were on here so long without ever reaching their ugw bcs if you lose weight consistently it should only ever take a year at most
@matcharexia
mentally it’s way easier to run outside and doesn’t feel as long bcs it’s a lot more stimulating and fun! i live in a super hilly area tho so i defo feel less exhausted and sore after running on a treadmill + im able to run at a faster pace on the treadmill
@losertothestars
yes!! i end up counting it as binging but in reality im not really binging, i have control but i dont see the point in restricting and would rather eat something that'll make me happy
cal estimate pls? it’s a chocolate almond croissant, you can see the two chunks of choco and there was lots of almond filling (idk the name lol). i was thinking maybe 700??
@myedspo
before i got my ed i used to question how anyone could even have one 💀💀 i genuinely thought it was a made up thing because why would anyone be that obsessed with their weight
@futilecals
when i accidentally clicked on an edtwt space because i didnt realize it was related to edtwt just to see someone the same height as me and 20lbs lighter lmao
@nymphvomit
when i told my sister about my ed and she responded with "why dont you just work out instead of making yourself vomit?"...i know its not super triggering but it makes me feel so fucking invalid
imo the difference is that mia is when you binge bcs you purge while ana-bp is when you purge bcs you binge ?? idk if that makes sense but like if you go into a binge knowing you purge vs binging without expecting to purge
things for me to do instead of binging:
- walk 5k steps
- go through photos
- make new homescreen
- make a driving playlist
- learn a kpop dance
- go through ao3 bookmarks
- organize closet
- do 30 minutes of pilates
- read a book on my tbr
- take apush notes
- study for the sat
@vicbrtz
im in a rlly bad binge cycle so 3 hamburger buns with honey, a massive portion of yogurt with granola, like 10 kit kats, a protein bar, and 2 breakfast sausages wrapped with pancakes (idc about the cals these are my comfort food)
controversial take but i dont think she did anything wrong? from what i remember she tagged it properly and it wasnt unnecessarily graphic...let my girl live please !!
@linoscals
it’s bcs ppl have forgotten what they stand for. low res = low calorie restriction eg you restrict your calories to a low amount. high rest = high calorie restriction or restricting while eating high calorie. no point trying to change it after decades imo
@jiarexic
@2anhaaa2
idk how to tell you this but recovery isnt easy for bulimics!! she said that shes been trying to recover but obviously struggles with binging and keeps relapsing!
@goIdwngz
its actually easier if you dont have an ed! i used to forget to eat all the time because i would get distracted and my body wouldn't tell me i was hungry. when you have an ed youre more focused on everything you eat so in turn it makes you feel hungrier
@mptybananamilk
tbh ive never seen the issue with diettwt or wannarexics...if theyre starving themselves for a "diet" then theyre still severely mentally ill??
@Pushpln
@notsafe4whales
except it does, children can have a lower bmi and still be classified as healthy. i dont think the original person is in the right for shaming children, but medically younger kids are healthy at a bmi of 16
@karinarexic
convinced you don’t understand intuitive eating because the whole point is that you DONT eat everything. you have a good relationship with food so you aren’t constantly craving junk
well! i finally restored my weight to what it was before my ed !! none of it went to my boobs or ass which is where it was before so now i just look fat asf🐷
@bubblybmi
you're never too fat to think about recovery! you deserve to recover at any weight <3 speaking from experience, you never feel thin enough to recover, your gw just keeps getting lower and lower
@bladeeespo
criticizing someone for posting fatspo by calling them fatspo and shaming them for their weight is probably the most hypocritical thing i’ve ever seen
@anagirly4ever
personally i wouldn't consider the majority of mukbangs to be BED? yeah theyre eating a lot, but it's quite clearly not a binge and most mukbangers don't have that binge mindset, they're in control
@issabat44
@tarotcals
no, she's saying that if she had smaller boobs less people would sexualize her. thats the sad reality of society, breasts are heavily sexualized and the larger boobs you have the more sexualized you are by others
i hate fatspo as much as anyone else but every month or so yall find a random video in a fatspo thread, qrt it a million times, and complain about people being fatphobic. just leave people that post fatspo alone it’s not that deep💀💀
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