This thread is for parents.
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1. Don’t make your daughters assistant parents to their brothers. If he scatters the room, tell him to arrange it. If he rough handles his clothes, he should wash them. Never make them feel that their sister is there to SERVE them.
I have a story,
I almost broke up with my then-girlfriend, my now forever wife, because I felt that our interests weren’t same. I thought I wanted someone who loved everything I loved, and had same interests as me. Looking back, I was foolish.
“You’re not the most beautiful woman, neither are you the most intelligent, but I’ve chosen to never find perfection anywhere else…”
When that open letter I wrote to my wife went viral and I was dragged, this was part of my message. I’m not loyal to my wife because she’s…
January has strengthened my faith in miracles. Mummy Zee went from never seeing 500K naira to being a multimillionaire. A Nigerian nutritionist won $25,000(35m Naira) from a random Twitter giveaway that Mr Beast did.
God is in the neighborhood.
My kid sis got married at 23 to my friend, 25. He was working with Exxonmobil; doing absolutely well for himself. Six months into marriage, he was laid off because of COVID. I know a lot of men want to have strong financial base to get married, but that’s not what you need.
I met my wife over the phone in March 2022. We spoke for hours that night, and a week after, I told her that I liked her and would want to pursue marriage. We started dating in June, I proposed on our one year dating anniversary, and got married in January of 2023( 6 months…
Money has destroyed people. Clearly Josh2funny only wanted to serve a funny performance. He didn’t go to make money; he went to increase his reach, which can pay off than being AGT winner. He actually had the crowd and oozed so much confidence. Whether you think he’s funny or…
As we clap for Debbie, I honestly hope that every man wouldn’t go back to demand that their wives cook for them by 5am. The central theme is to be kind, and the fair expression of that kindness is peculiar to every marriage.
Your wife who has a hectic 9-5 might not be able to…
If I had a 17 year old daughter and she demanded for iPhone while recording how I declined her demand, and was reprimanding her, I’ll seize the phone she has already.
And if you like start a GoFundMe to buy her an iPhone 20, I will seize it. Not in my house. Some of you have…
When I told my dad that I had found a wife. He said to me: “Remember, you’ll never get 100% in anybody. If they can offer you 60%, take it. You guys can work on 20% to push it to 80%, and you use love and tolerance to cover the remaining 20%.”
I’m going to write this for single people,
If my wife tells me that some colleague at work bought her a ticket to watch K drama, I’m going to buy her all K drama series and watch it with her even if I dislike them. A woman waking up early to make food for her hubby because his…
You probably don’t know if you’re good at forgiving until you marry. Marriage will stretch your ability to forgive, and your partner will hit the limit of how much you think you can forgive — when you think you’ve had enough, they will slam your FORGIVE button ruthlessly, yet…
My marriage is an achievement. I married an awesome woman, cerebrally wound, balanced, family-oriented, knows and serves God, naturally beautiful and hat amazing. She’s my favor and God’s gift to me. This is an achievement, to be truly loved by one woman.
I cook before my wife comes back from work, if I’m at home. On many mornings, I easily make breakfast. Whenever she’s going into the office, I make smoothies for her. The point is that as husbands, especially Christian husbands, you should be kind. It’s okay if you’re traditional…
One wife. Wakes up by 4am, begins to do home chores; bathe the kids, makes breakfast, sweeps the house, serves breakfast by 7am. Leaves for work by 8am. Comes back by 5pm so tired. Starts taking care of the children again, home chores again.
Maverick City Music and The Grammies
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I was a huge fan of MCM when they emerged; their sound was distinct with lyrical charisma and a perceived heart for God. ‘Promises’ was a hit. Their songs made me feel sobriety, but something has changed. Sadly, off the godly track.
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Pray about little things.
Days ago, I misplaced my mifi and I wasn’t sure where I dropped it. My wife and I had dinner with some friends the night before it went missing. I was disturbed. We checked the whole apartment and called the restaurant we went to dine at.
Chief Chimamanda Adichie is a feminist. She’s given speeches in international forums and written books. She’s won awards; she is happily married —she absolutely loves her family—she never threw her father under the bus for patriarchy. Absolutely respectful woman. Dresses decently…
All you do only is school low thinking boys how to be animals, and analyze people’s relationships to know if the man is weak or strong. This is very insensitive to their marriage. An alpha male that doesn’t know when to control their gutter mouth is dangerous. Are you mad?
Marrying a woman who replied you 5months after messaging her isn’t a flex tho. She obviously settled for you, you were never her top options. I’d rather remain single.
Be a man of prayer. Wake up at night and pray for your household. Fast. Lay hands on your wife and children and pray for them. It’s an aberration for your wife to be the spiritual pillar of the home. You are the spiritual head, act like it. We need kids who’ll be raised by…
It’s the fact that this lady actually is fashionable and never shows skin. Like, go through her photos, all covered up, yet classy and elegant. Decency is not old fashioned. Anyone that wants to cover up, will; anyone that wants to go naked, will.
Telling your partner where you will be going, where you are, who you’re visiting, the parties you’ll be going to and all that isn’t CONTROL or OPPRESSION. It is accountability and respect for your partner. And if you’re not ready to share these things & more, you can stay single.
One time Vice President of Nigeria, Atiku Abubakar, deleted his tweet condemning an Islamic attack against a Christian girl. He yanked the tweet off after some Muslims online ferociously frowned upon it.
The National mosque imam, Ibrahim Maqar, publicly justified the killing of…
Marriage will teach you that:
1. You’ll forgive your wife in two seconds, but she’ll need 3-5 working days to process your forgiveness.
2. When your wife gives a shopping suggestion or recommends something to buy, you just agree. Do same and you’ll have to example to her why…
That viral 5:30 am woman who talked about cooking for her hubby every day has received:
1. Over 1 million naira and counting
2. A refrigerator
3. A 50K monthly remote job
All these and more from the men they call misogynistic men. The feminist women who save the world are still…
If you’re a godly single and you’re ready for a relationship. Kindly drop a comment stating your age, occupation, your spec, your location and anything else you deem needful. Please, make sure you’re mentally stable. This is for okay humans, not mad people.
One Nigeria until it’s time for Igbo people to rule Nigeria. Please, Nigeria is not one; it has never been, and I’m beginning to believe that it will never be.
Let Igbos be Igbos.
I honestly hate that narrative that women are incapable of loving men, and that they only love men as long as it’s benefiting.
So when some husbands break down in illness, and their wives have to feed them, stick by them, clean them up. You mean that’s not love?
Burnaboy, Davido or Wizkid sells out 20,000 capacity concerts. “Wow! My goat, I love to see black excellence.”
The Experience, a FREE annual gospel music concert with over 65,000. “Nigerians and religion. Imagine if these people went to protest; Nigeria will be fine.” Why don’t…
Sexual compatibility is a lie from abyss to make young people fornicate unendingly in their pursuit for someone who’ll sexually outperform their last sexual partner. They end up sleeping with the whole town. What you need is sexual commitment, and it only exists in marriage.
Women, in all you do, marry a kind man. Not just a rich man. A kind man. A man who will not take pleasure in seeing you suffer. A man who will strive to make life easier for you. A man who is filled with compassion. Because a man is rich doesn’t mean he’s kind. A kind man❤️
Cooking for a man isn’t just cooking. It’s not just a basic skill. To men, it is a stamp of care; it is the easiest feminine urge that most women have—to feed the people they love.
So when a woman is saying “I can’t cook for a man” “I can’t wake up to cook for my husband…”
A…
My first school fees was paid by my pastor, back in RCCG. He gave me clothes, shoes and essentials. He bought my friend his first camera as a photographer. He set up countless youths. And he wasn’t super rich. He was a middle-class earner.
Pastors/churches have done more than…
You guys have this short-term Sodom and Gomorrah after your weddings, which you call “after-parties”. Young women unscrupulously hawking their breasts; young and old men floating around like vultures, smiling like dogs on heat. They position themselves for their prospective…
Go and pay your woman’s bride price. Go to court with your spouse and sign papers. Do a weekday wedding with just 20 people. No alcoholic drinks because they’re expensive.
If anyone is angry, tell them how expensive things are in Nigeria. You’d be a fool to do a big wedding in…
Women: I can’t marry a man that can’t provide for me.
Fellow women: Yas Queen. You da best; you deserve it.
Men: I can’t marry a woman that can’t cook for me.
Women: You’re so misogynistic.
Women: I can’t wait to have a daughter!
Fellow women: Aww, so cute.
Men: I can’t…
Propose with a cheap ring. Have a small wedding on a weekday; strictly by invitation. Don’t serve alcohol at the reception, it’s expensive. Cut down on multiple wedding outfits; save money, one is enough. Ignore honeymoon. Get married, work hard, and after a couple of years, you…