@Simonablake
Simon Blake
3 years
I messed up. I accepted an invitation to be on a panel & didn't check who else was on it. Was all men. I can give all sorts of reasons why I messed up, but they are just excuses. I didn't ask the right questions. I have had a big talk with myself & the organiser & will do better
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@ByYrSide
SidebySide for #MentalHealth
3 years
@Simonablake Raise that very point when you are there.
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@Simonablake
Simon Blake
3 years
@ByYrSide It is done! ๐Ÿ˜Š
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@leongreen
Leon Green
3 years
@Simonablake I remember a mate used to tell me: I donโ€™t mind you making mistakes, I mind you making the same mistakes. Think itโ€™s good that you own this and respect you holding yourself to account over it.โœŠ๐Ÿฝ
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@Simonablake
Simon Blake
3 years
@leongreen My first boss โ€˜donโ€™t be sorry just donโ€™t do it againโ€™ ๐Ÿ‘‹๐Ÿฝ๐Ÿ‘‹๐Ÿฝ
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@leongreen
Leon Green
3 years
@Simonablake On your point about asking who else is on the panel. Itโ€™s a really interesting one, when I worked in politics you couldnโ€™t get a political figure to agree to attend a panel without explaining who else is on it and why. Deffo something we need to amplify as an approach.๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿฝ
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@Simonablake
Simon Blake
3 years
@leongreen We normally do. I have made public commitments on it. I just messed up. We now have another check in place after today โœ…
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@helenarbon
Helen Arbon
3 years
@Simonablake Thks for sharing. I think the best thing about this message and your reflections is that Iโ€™m sure you wonโ€™t do it again. Great to share. Thank you
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@Simonablake
Simon Blake
3 years
@helenarbon I will certainly be trying my best not to ๐Ÿ™๐Ÿผ
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@tonypiper
Tony Piper
3 years
@Simonablake Aw youโ€™re only human. Do you have any tips for anyone who finds themselves in this situation on the day?
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@Simonablake
Simon Blake
3 years
@tonypiper Well my usual strategy is do everything to avoid getting in that situation but on the day - see what options & at the very very least name it and make it part of the conversation
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@MariAnneChiromo
Mari-Anne Chikerema Chiromo ๐Ÿ’™๐Ÿ‡ฟ๐Ÿ‡ผ #BLM
3 years
@Simonablake Any other (non)representation beyond gender? I often find that many event organisers pat themselves on the back for having 2 women & 2 men on a panel. All white. It's not hard to have truly diverse panels now, especially with no location constraints. Just have to want to.
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@Simonablake
Simon Blake
3 years
@MariAnneChiromo There wasnโ€™t and you are absolutely right. It isnโ€™t hard just has to be part of the intention. Sadly I didnโ€™t ask the questions that I normally do and I really regret that
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@Simonablake Thank you for acknowledging this. Will you get to say this on the panel?
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@Simonablake
Simon Blake
3 years
@CounsellorNLond It is done and we did ๐Ÿ˜Š
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@hilaryjeune
Hilary Jeune
3 years
@Simonablake In the Channel Islands we have just launched the to help shine a light on the blind spots #jerseyci #diversitymatters @TDNjersey - go check it out.
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@Simonablake
Simon Blake
3 years
@hilaryjeune @TDNjersey ๐Ÿ™๐Ÿผ
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@AdeleBatesZ
Adele Bates
3 years
@Simonablake Thanks for being honest :) When is it? Take a woman with you! #jobshare
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@DebAllcockTyler
Debra Allcock Tyler
3 years
@Simonablake ๐Ÿ˜
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@juliebentley
Julie Bentley (she/her)
3 years
@Simonablake We all make mistakes sometimes x
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