Ru 🌸♿️ (she/they) 🎀 @RollWithRu Twitter profile

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Ru 🌸♿️ (she/they) 🎀

1 year

hi i’m ru! 🌸 i’m a queer, disabled content creator and activist who focuses on accessibility, inclusion and sex education 🌸 support me via: ko-fi: links: for collab inquires please email: RollWithRu @hotmail .com 🌸

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Ru 🌸♿️ (she/they) 🎀

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2 years

WHY DOES EVERYONE ON DATING APPS LIKE HIKING SO MUCH

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Ru 🌸♿️ (she/they) 🎀

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2 years

just found out i am unable to access my own graduation this summer because the access needs of myself and many other Disabled students are ‘not viable’ due to ‘time constraints and cost’. devastated doesn’t even begin to cover it.

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Ru 🌸♿️ (she/they) 🎀

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1 year

by leaving the house once a month looking absolutely fire, then spending the next four weeks recovering. then repeat 🎀🧚‍♀️

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1 year

How do you serve cunt in a disabled way?

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Ru 🌸♿️ (she/they) 🎀

@RollWithRu

3 years

this is what dating as a disabled person looks like:

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Ru 🌸♿️ (she/they) 🎀

@RollWithRu

3 years

DONT FORGET DISABLED PEOPLE DURING PRIDE MONTH IF PRIDE ISNT ACCESSIBLE FOR EVERYONE THEN IT ISNT PRIDE 🏳️‍🌈

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Ru 🌸♿️ (she/they) 🎀

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2 years

so disabled ppl just gotta accept that they cant ever leave the house again huh?

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Ru 🌸♿️ (she/they) 🎀

@RollWithRu

2 years

I WILL CONTINUE TO SAY THIS EVERY YEAR BUT PRIDE IS NOT TRULY INCLUSIVE UNTIL IT IS MADE FULLY ACCESSIBLE FOR DISABLED QUEERS 🏳️‍🌈

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Ru 🌸♿️ (she/they) 🎀

@RollWithRu

2 years

i wish i’d mentioned my disability in that tweet about hiking and dating apps bc the amount of ppl trying to ‘convince’ me to enjoy hiking is WILD lmao

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Ru 🌸♿️ (she/they) 🎀

@RollWithRu

5 years

it’s been said before but I‘LL SAY IT AGAIN PLEASE can someone start making affordable, ATTRACTIVE accessibility equipment for the home? i want a cute rose gold shower stool not blue & white industrial trash 🙄 just cos i’m disabled doesn’t mean i don’t have taste?

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Ru 🌸♿️ (she/they) 🎀

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3 years

there is absolutely nothing more disheartening as a chronically ill person than a perky receptionist telling you ‘all your test results are completely normal!! nothing further needs to be done!!’ and i wish non-disabled people were more understanding of this

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Ru 🌸♿️ (she/they) 🎀

@RollWithRu

3 years

if your body positivity doesn’t include disabled bodies then you’re not as radically inclusive as you think you are

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Ru 🌸♿️ (she/they) 🎀

@RollWithRu

2 years

reminder that schools/unis not offering remote or flexible learning is ableist. so many disabled students benefitted from remote learning during lockdown. we proved it worked so there is no excuse not to offer a hybrid course.

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Ru 🌸♿️ (she/they) 🎀

@RollWithRu

2 years

if any lingerie companies are looking to include more disabled representation and need a disabled model then hmu bc i’m hot and i’m nice i promise x

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Ru 🌸♿️ (she/they) 🎀

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3 years

if the pandemic has taught us anything it’s that people generally care more about getting drunk and partying together than the lives of disabled people

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Ru 🌸♿️ (she/they) 🎀

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4 years

people moaning about another month lockdown when those of us who are vulnerable or chronically ill who have been quarantining since march just sit here like 👁👄👁

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Ru 🌸♿️ (she/they) 🎀

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2 years

having a fluctuating disability is so frustrating because you have to be both super organised and plan in advance whilst also needing to be spontaneous and flexible with any plans you make

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Ru 🌸♿️ (she/they) 🎀

@RollWithRu

2 years

stop asking people who use mobility aids ‘what happened’ i am BEGGING

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Ru 🌸♿️ (she/they) 🎀

@RollWithRu

1 year

this may be a controversial take but having different laws around abortion for disabled and non-disabled foetuses smells a lot like eugenics to me

BBC News (UK)

@BBCNews

1 year

Woman with Down's syndrome loses abortion law appeal

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Ru 🌸♿️ (she/they) 🎀

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1 year

i just received a letter from my nhs neurologist who i always really liked and is why i was so disappointed when they failed to help me this year and he states: “i feel embarrassed that the service failed to provide her with a blood patch when she so clearly needed it”

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Ru 🌸♿️ (she/they) 🎀

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2 years

quick: best replies for when someone asks ‘what happened?’ because you’re in a wheelchair !!!

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Ru 🌸♿️ (she/they) 🎀

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2 years

so a white boyband called big time rush release a song with ableist language and i’m yet to see the same level of outrage from the disabled community, white disabled people we gotta do better

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Ru 🌸♿️ (she/they) 🎀

@RollWithRu

2 years

my disabled ass ain’t gonna be going on hikes any time soon ✌️

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Ru 🌸♿️ (she/they) 🎀

@RollWithRu

2 years

after spending a year pouring my heart and soul into an institution that can’t even be bothered to make my own graduation accessible, i can honestly say i’ve never been so disappointed @UniofExeter Disabled students deserve better. access is a basic human right.

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Ru 🌸♿️ (she/they) 🎀

@RollWithRu

4 years

DISABLED IS NOT A BAD WORD PLEASE FOR THE LOVE OF GOD JUST SAY DISABLED STOP WITH ALL THE GROSS EUPHEMISMS THANK U

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Ru 🌸♿️ (she/they) 🎀

@RollWithRu

3 years

disabled people deserve to be represented within the sex education curriculum [thread 🧵]:

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Ru 🌸♿️ (she/they) 🎀

@RollWithRu

2 years

if you think a mobility aid might help you by even 5%, get the mobility aid.

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Ru 🌸♿️ (she/they) 🎀

@RollWithRu

4 years

this video has had over 250k views on tiktok and the amount of ppl that are SO SHOCKED that some wheelchair users can walk is pretty terrifying tbh

Ru 🌸♿️ (she/they) 🎀

@RollWithRu

4 years

made a new tiktok that used all my energy but it made me laugh so it’s worth it tho

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Ru 🌸♿️ (she/they) 🎀

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2 years

“slut era” i whisper, as i turn on my heating pad and take my pain medication

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Ru 🌸♿️ (she/they) 🎀

@RollWithRu

2 years

keep in mind this graduation has been being planned since 2020 so there has been PLENTY of time to consider this, it just wasn’t thought of until i emailed raising my concerns at the beginning of the year.

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Ru 🌸♿️ (she/they) 🎀

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2 years

the disabled urge to stand up out of your wheelchair and shout ‘it’s a miracle’ whenever you’re in public

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Ru 🌸♿️ (she/they) 🎀

@RollWithRu

2 years

being able to ‘delete all your social media’ and go ‘off the grid’ is a privilege that many disabled people do not have the luxury of being able to do

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Ru 🌸♿️ (she/they) 🎀

@RollWithRu

2 years

remember when i was gonna do a masters in disability studies this year but wasn’t able to because the only unis offering this course refused to meet my access needs by offering remote learning? oh the irony

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Ru 🌸♿️ (she/they) 🎀

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3 years

the disheartening feeling when you ask a disability studies MA course if they offer remote study and they say no 🥲

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Ru 🌸♿️ (she/they) 🎀

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2 years

i cant believe i’m still having to say this but: A PERSON IS *STILL* DISABLED ON THE DAYS THEY DON’T USE A MOBILITY AID !!!

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Ru 🌸♿️ (she/they) 🎀

@RollWithRu

2 years

i can be proud to be disabled whilst also acknowledging that life with disability is incredibly difficult. these two feelings can coexist.

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Ru 🌸♿️ (she/they) 🎀

@RollWithRu

1 month

“mangled” girlie reporting for duty and can confirm that these little boys would never have a chance 🫡

Faith Martin 🪩

@faithcathmary

1 month

Tw: Ableism I am absolutely astounded by this. To sit there and describe disabled women as “mangled” is genuinely pathetic and disgusting. In what world is that appropriate? Well lads, I see you. Go fuck yourselves 🫶🏻 STOP GIVING MEN PODCASTS

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Ru 🌸♿️ (she/they) 🎀

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2 years

why do disabled people have to fight so hard for their own healthcare against the people who’s entire careers exist to supposedly help us

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Ru 🌸♿️ (she/they) 🎀

@RollWithRu

2 years

sometimes i wish ableds knew how taxing ‘basic’ tasks can be for disabled people

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Ru 🌸♿️ (she/they) 🎀

@RollWithRu

2 years

the ‘arrangements made’ consist of me not being able to sit with my peers and having to enter the stage from the back, again, nowhere near my peers. this is not equal access.

University of Exeter

@UniofExeter

2 years

@chr0nicallycute We always have arrangements in place for users of wheelchairs and mobility aid to attend their graduation, access the stage and participate in graduation celebrations. 1/2

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Ru 🌸♿️ (she/they) 🎀

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2 years

shoutout to those friends who still invite you out or check up on you even if you’ve had to cancel 101 times due to your disability

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Ru 🌸♿️ (she/they) 🎀

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2 years

*pssssst: reminder that accessibility and inclusive design benefits EVERYONE, not just disabled people*

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Ru 🌸♿️ (she/they) 🎀

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2 years

the way total strangers feel entitled to disabled people’s medical information just to satisfy their ‘curiosity’ will never cease to amaze me

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Ru 🌸♿️ (she/they) 🎀

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2 years

the chronically ill urge to stay in bed for six months

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Ru 🌸♿️ (she/they) 🎀

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2 years

chronic illness is using a heat pack on your back whilst also using a fan to cool you down as your silly little body can’t handle its silly little temperature

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Ru 🌸♿️ (she/they) 🎀

@RollWithRu

2 years

to ppl that tell Disabled people to ‘get a lawyer’/‘sue them’ in situations of discrimination & inaccessibility: Disabled people are TIRED. we fight these fights daily often with 0 energy, & lawsuits cost MONEY which many Disabled ppl do not have bc like, Disability is expensive

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Ru 🌸♿️ (she/they) 🎀

@RollWithRu

2 years

in response to the ableds kicking off about the new GLORIOUS disabled victoria’s secret model, here are some photos of me, a sexy disabled person. we exist. pls drop ur disabled and hot pics if you’re comfortable too 😇

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Ru 🌸♿️ (she/they) 🎀

@RollWithRu

3 years

another hidden cost of being disabled is having to order food because you’re in too much pain to cook 🥲

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Ru 🌸♿️ (she/they) 🎀

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4 years

made a new tiktok that used all my energy but it made me laugh so it’s worth it tho

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Ru 🌸♿️ (she/they) 🎀

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2 years

i don’t know about you, but i’d much rather a few people ‘take advantage’ of claiming benefits than thousands of disabled people continually getting denied due to an ableist process designed to make you fail

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Ru 🌸♿️ (she/they) 🎀

@RollWithRu

1 year

this kind of accountability is so rare within the nhs and just goes to show he didn’t even know the state i was in because his secretary didn’t relay this info there’s something so satisfying about her having to type out this email to me though 😇

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Ru 🌸♿️ (she/they) 🎀

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2 years

reminder that most wheelchair users are unable/unlikely to travel by plane due to fears and/or past experiences of their wheelchairs being damaged

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Ru 🌸♿️ (she/they) 🎀

@RollWithRu

2 years

accessibility that you have to fight for isn’t actually accessible.

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Ru 🌸♿️ (she/they) 🎀

@RollWithRu

2 years

stop praising people for doing the absolute bare minimum for disabled people. we deserve more than that.

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Ru 🌸♿️ (she/they) 🎀

@RollWithRu

1 year

this is not acceptable, priority spaces are NOT luggage racks. disabled people deserve better. @GWRHelp

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Ru 🌸♿️ (she/they) 🎀

@RollWithRu

1 year

anyway i know for a fact he will not let me slip through the cracks again and that thought alone is so reassuring

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Ru 🌸♿️ (she/they) 🎀

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3 years

JUST WOKEN UP TO SEE THAT I HAVE HIT MY FUNDRAISING TARGET IM GETTING A NEW WHEELCHAIR

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Ru 🌸♿️ (she/they) 🎀

@RollWithRu

2 years

i feel like bodies aren’t built to be in this much pain for this long, i am tired

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Ru 🌸♿️ (she/they) 🎀

@RollWithRu

2 years

TW: SA/ableism the amount of comments i get saying “she can’t run away/fight back” on my videos is absolutely abhorrent. disabled women are *twice* as likely to experience SA and comments like this continue to normalise this experience.

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Ru 🌸♿️ (she/they) 🎀

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3 years

say it with me: EHLERS DANLOS SYNDROME IS NOT RARE, IT IS JUST CHRONICALLY UNDIAGNOSED AND OVERLOOKED 👏

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Ru 🌸♿️ (she/they) 🎀

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1 year

happy #InternationalWheelchairDay - a reminder that wheelchairs are FREEDOM 💗

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Ru 🌸♿️ (she/they) 🎀

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1 year

2023 reminder that a lot of wheelchair users can WALK! i don’t know how people are still ignorant of this fact and at the point it feels wilful we are not faking if you see us use a wheelchair one day and not the next. it’s not that hard to grasp! 👩‍🦽

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Ru 🌸♿️ (she/they) 🎀

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2 years

there is nothing more disheartening as a disabled person than working so hard to get your body to a place where you can access the outside world again, only to be met with ableism and inaccessibility

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Ru 🌸♿️ (she/they) 🎀

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2 years

‘sorry to hear you are not satisfied’ ??? with not being able to access my own graduation in a way that doesn’t dehumanise me ?? also these accommodations shouldn’t be ‘made for me’ they should already be in place for ALL DISABLED STUDENTS i am tired

University of Exeter

@UniofExeter

2 years

@chr0nicallycute We are really sorry to hear that you are not satisfied with the provisions made for you at graduation and a member of the senior team is happy to discuss your specific concerns.

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Ru 🌸♿️ (she/they) 🎀

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2 years

stop asking disabled people to work for free

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Ru 🌸♿️ (she/they) 🎀

@RollWithRu

2 years

haven’t shouted this in a while but: disabled bodies are SEXY BODIES

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Ru 🌸♿️ (she/they) 🎀

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5 years

living with a chronic illness is like waking up every day to see that ur plant is dead but having to water it anyway cos it’s the only plant you’ve got lmao

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Ru 🌸♿️ (she/they) 🎀

@RollWithRu

2 years

to anyone who criticises people for taking issues of accessibility to twitter instead of addressing it privately: in my experience, it is always the case that i have tried to resolve issues directly, and going to twitter is a last resort. it is so hard to get our voices heard.

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Ru 🌸♿️ (she/they) 🎀

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2 years

one aspect of being in pain that i don’t talk about much is the sheer BOREDOM of it sometimes

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Ru 🌸♿️ (she/they) 🎀

@RollWithRu

2 years

celebrating the removal of the covid quarantine period is celebrating the continued isolation and/or deaths of disabled people

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Ru 🌸♿️ (she/they) 🎀

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1 year

attendance policies and awards are ableist. celebrating the non-disabled who are physically able to attend schools whilst penalising those with disabilities who require time off for health, appointments etc is gross as should be thrown out the window

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Ru 🌸♿️ (she/they) 🎀

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1 year

seeing pathetic crusty men tear down people on the national lingerie day tag has made me petty so here you go y’all are welcome

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Ru 🌸♿️ (she/they) 🎀

@RollWithRu

1 year

candace owens, this one’s for u xox

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Ru 🌸♿️ (she/they) 🎀

@RollWithRu

6 years

i am disabled in the first picture. i am also disabled in the second picture. disabled doesn’t always = wheelchair #InvisibleDisabilitiesWeek

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Ru 🌸♿️ (she/they) 🎀

@RollWithRu

3 years

the most terrifying thing is that his bio says he’s a junior doctor

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Ru 🌸♿️ (she/they) 🎀

@RollWithRu

3 years

also it’s truly his loss because the answer is i absolutely can (and well 😌) yet he will never find out 🤪

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Ru 🌸♿️ (she/they) 🎀

@RollWithRu

2 years

worrying about money causes stress and stress makes my pain bad which makes me unable to work which means i don’t have much income which makes me worry about money which mak—

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Ru 🌸♿️ (she/they) 🎀

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6 years

I JUST GOT A REPLY FROM THE UNIVERSITY AND THEY ARE REMOVING THE SIGN 😭👏 SPEAK OUT AGAINST ABLEISM. YOU CAN MAKE CHANGE HAPPEN.

Ru 🌸♿️ (she/they) 🎀

@RollWithRu

6 years

everyday subtle ableism at the gym 🙃

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Ru 🌸♿️ (she/they) 🎀

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2 years

disability is making a list of the issues in your body you’re going to get checked out once your most recent one is resolved

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Ru 🌸♿️ (she/they) 🎀

@RollWithRu

2 years

having chronically ill friends is the best and yet the worst thing - it’s so incredible to have someone who understands what it’s like but so heartbreaking to see someone you care about in pain too

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Ru 🌸♿️ (she/they) 🎀

@RollWithRu

2 years

posting an old pic to remind myself that i’m a bad bitch even tho i don’t feel like it atm

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Ru 🌸♿️ (she/they) 🎀

@RollWithRu

2 years

i’ve gained a fair few followers in the last few weeks so i thought i’d do an updated intro post! i’m ru! i’m 25, from the UK and i have ehlers danlos syndrome. my pronouns are she/they and i love to talk about sex and disability! let’s be friends 😻

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Ru 🌸♿️ (she/they) 🎀

@RollWithRu

6 years

i have an invisible illness: some days i can walk a little some days i use a wheelchair other days i might be using my wheelchair, but still be able to stand up/walk around THIS DOESN’T MEAN I’M FAKING OR LESS VALID IN MY WHEELCHAIR USE. AMBULATORY WHEELCHAIR USERS EXIST !!

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Ru 🌸♿️ (she/they) 🎀

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3 years

it really sucks bc my doctor is a fucking angel and she’s absolutely incredible at what she does and SO supportive but the receptionists act as if i’m some needy fan trying to get in contact with beyoncé 🤧

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Ru 🌸♿️ (she/they) 🎀

@RollWithRu

2 years

i don’t think we acknowledge how stressful it is navigating being a single, disabled adult in todays climate

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Ru 🌸♿️ (she/they) 🎀

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6 years

i love the chronic illness community cos we understand how important it is to celebrate the little things that ableds can take for granted. you washed your hair? 10/10! made a cuppa? congrats! got through the day? yaaaasssss!

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2 years

i want to talk on here about the removal of all covid restrictions and isolation periods but i am honestly just so distraught and terrified for mine and every other vulnerable person’s futures that i can’t formulate anything coherent rn

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Ru 🌸♿️ (she/they) 🎀

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6 years

i’m so DONE with people criticising disabled people for cancelling plans/missing work etc. but still being ‘well enough’ to go out and have fun, chronic illness fluctuates more than british weather, pls consider this before ur judgemental bullshit

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Ru 🌸♿️ (she/they) 🎀

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3 years

did it hurt? it probably did, we’re all chronically ill here.

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Ru 🌸♿️ (she/they) 🎀

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2 years

muting this now bc too many of y’all tryna convince my disabled ass to start hiking and it ain’t happening bc the world isn’t built for wheelchair users ✌️

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Ru 🌸♿️ (she/they) 🎀

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2 years

a very happy new year to everyone who doesn’t use fireworks 😌

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Ru 🌸♿️ (she/they) 🎀

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3 years

reminder that tying up emergency pull cords defeats the purpose of having one 🙃🙃

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Ru 🌸♿️ (she/they) 🎀

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2 years

fishing in stardew valley is ableist no i will not be taking criticism

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3 years

shout out to those of us who are disabled and unable to work. we’re still worthy and valuable. we rock.

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Ru 🌸♿️ (she/they) 🎀

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3 years

i hate it when drs are like “so other than your disability are you fit and healthy?” like bitch i don’t know because i have a disability ???

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Ru 🌸♿️ (she/they) 🎀

@RollWithRu

1 year

gentle reminder that i don’t use pepe emotes and i ask you to also not use them in my twitch chat pepe the frog is associated with alt-right groups who co-opted the image. it’s a yt supremacist dog whistle and has even been listed as a hate symbol by the anti-defamation league

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3 years

the saddest thing is though is that a few years ago i would have laughed it off and made some joke because i just thought that’s what i had to put up with 🤷‍♀️

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@RollWithRu

2 years

i refuse to apologise for the ‘negativity’ of my tweets lately. too many disabled people are dying and i will not stop talking about it because y’all non-disabled refuse to listen.

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Ru 🌸♿️ (she/they) 🎀

@RollWithRu

10 months

staying in a hotel as two wheelchair users often means we end up facing double the ableism and inaccessibility BUT when we were in london last week we stayed at @thezhotels Strand and i literally cannot fault them at ALL

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Ru 🌸♿️ (she/they) 🎀

@RollWithRu

3 years

do y’all ever feel grief for missing out on life experiences due to your disabilities?

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Ru 🌸♿️ (she/they) 🎀

@RollWithRu

10 months

HAPPY DISABILITY PRIDE MONTH 🩷🧚‍♀️✨

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