Jesus fucking Christ people. I’m not abused. We’ve been together 8 years. He lost a job he LOVED and gave his heart and soul to when they abruptly closed the local location and eliminated his position. We also had some extremely traumatic events to work through

So for the love of god stop retweeting this and making it apply to your shitty life experiences and calling me a million things

Yes I’d love for him to have consistent employment right now because it’s stressful but I’m also very grateful that he keeps the house clean, cooks, takes care of the yard and my car in addition to maintaining our family farm property

But like Lol that internet strangers twisted this into him never having a job our entire relationship. They think I meant that I just picked up a bum off the street and he’s lived on my couch this whole time 🙄🤦🏼‍♀️

@RNSuperHero Same, girl, same😢

@OCanada333 He had a job. They eliminated his position. His mental health was really bad. I told him financially he could take a break for awhile and get back healthy. I don’t regret that but I thought by now he’d be back to some type of work. Or at Least thankful for what I do

@RNSuperHero I made the mistake of marrying someone like that. Do NOT DO THAT!! Get out. Next thing you know you’ll be the only one working and he will be recklessly spending your money. Do. Not. Stay. With. Someone. Who. Doesn’t. Pull. Their. Own. Weight.

@nrskim For clayHe doesn’t have access to most of my money. Technically he has a job but it is seasonal and it’s not fishing season yet so no work

@RNSuperHero My ex tried to control my spending to try and keep from getting a job. Run.

@Farvadasyn He has never cared what I do for work and always supported whatever career/specialty change I’ve wanted without question. If I wanted to take a contract across the country he’d support it. I’m just sad I’m not being appreciated

@RNSuperHero Everyone gonna give you tons of advice but I just wanna say I’m proud of you for being transparent and venting to us

@TheBlondeRN Sometimes I just want to bitch and the people seeing two sentences telling me to dump him are exhausting 😩

@RNSuperHero If you’re the only one who handle the finances for shared expenses, get him involved. Plan a budget, including savings goals, with his input. Always discuss major purchases together. Discuss budget progress monthly and prevent small grievances from becoming bigger.

@booyah2yah I need to learn how. It’s always just been my money to spend

@RNSuperHero So he does all the cooking, cleaning and laundry right?

@BoxedUpHeart Honestly yes. I do not clean so he keeps the house up

@RNSuperHero 😤

@RNSuperHero 🚩 🚩🚩🚩🚩

@RNSuperHero People don’t change. I learned the hard way and lost everything.

@RNSuperHero Two most beautiful words in the English language GAINFULLY EMPLOYED It’s your life you don’t a repeat you can get another significant other