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rule in a relationship is never let your FRIENDS determine how you deal with your partner.. you’re the only person who truly knows your partner they only know what you tell them.
adulting draining asf.. constant cycle of keeping up with bills, keeping the crib maintained, making sure you always good enough to eat/survive every day, making sure you still find time to be at a mental peace inbetween the mix of getting your life together, it’s ALOOTTT.
being a adult is crazy. you literally could have the most traumatic shit ever happen in life and somehow we still have to go to work & pay bills bc if you slack off on anything ya phone can get shut off, can get evicted, lose the car,Etc all bc you needed a mental break🥴😭😭😭
people seriously need to LEARN how to self evaluate… you ain’t always right. Self reflect and get rid of ya toxic tendencies cause idgaf what nobody say, everybody acts toxic in some way whether they realize it or not .
ion regret nothing. i needed to get hurt. i needed them friends that did me wrong. i needed them heartbreaks. i needed to go broke. i needed to cry myself to sleep all them nights… I came out 10x stronger and i learned a lot from everything i been through or did💯.
I JUST MARRIED MY BEST FRIEND TODAYYYY IM OFFICIALLY A WIFE 😍😍😍🥺🥺🥺🥺 my dreams came to pass and God gave me the perfect man for me I couldn’t be happier fr❤️🥹🥹🥹
For example If you’re in a loyal committed relationship.. why would you take the advice of your single friend who can’t even keep a man? Make it make sense .
adulting 101: always stay 10 steps ahead of your bills so you can live comfortably without struggling, the key is to put as much of your check into bills first then see what’s left over to spend/save.
& honestly this why I barely have female friends now 🙃. I don’t participate in spewing hate. & I don’t talk bout mfs who ain’t there to defend themselves !
ppl get too comfortable with you once they realize you genuine.. but don’t get it twisted just cause I’m genuine don’t mean you gon finesse me for favors cause I’m quick to say no to a mf that always want something from me.
my appetite really be based on my emotions fr like if I’m sad asf i lose my appetite.. if I’m mad asf ? appetite MIA.. but if I’m happy? catch me eating the world and then some 😭😭
i see why adults like childish activities now.. life be so draining when it revolves around being on top of bills and making sure you keep a job to survive 24/7.
Met on IG in august 2021, moved in together august 2022, and then got married March 25th 2023, we do EVERYTHING together,we treat each other like best friends and lovers and the vibes never changed since day 1🥹❤️🔥my soulmate fs 🥺neva thought I could meet my husband on the gram🥹
I’ve learned to stop oversharing my life to ppl.. bc ppl start to feel a sense of entitlement to your time and energy when they know too much. Sometimes it’s even used as leverage when you on bad terms w a mf. It’s best to keep it pushing and say less 💯.