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Bokang K🇿🇦

3 years

Never compromise who you are,because of how things are,as the old saying goes,no matter the condition of the jungle,a lion will never eat grass.

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Bokang K🇿🇦

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2 years

Silent treatment is the worst form of abuse.

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Bokang K🇿🇦

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2 years

Looking forward to another 10years...

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Bokang K🇿🇦

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11 months

Bana ba pitori..gangster love

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2 years

Majita "you are such a nice guy,"is not a compliment.

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Bokang K🇿🇦

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6 months

Family please help me make this trend, a friend of mine was violently assaulted by a taxi driver,this is the reality of the taxi industry in this country.

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Bokang K🇿🇦

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2 years

Divorce at a wedding🤣🤣🤣

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2 years

Sekgowa ntate

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11 months

The most beautiful woman on TV..

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Bokang K🇿🇦

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2 years

Faith is easy when everything is going well,but the greatest test of faith is displayed when God keeps quite,when you pray and things only seem to be getting worse,when you trust God to change a reality you're experiencing but nothing changes,will you still believe,amidst tears.

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Bokang K🇿🇦

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2 years

Ladies and gents let's talk,do yal agree.?

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11 months

I am this old..

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Bokang K🇿🇦

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3 years

Death is such a difficult topic in the black community,my father died when i was 12,i am 29 today,during the funeral to this date nobody ever asked how i was feeling,we just never talk about it,we just expect people to deal with it,and for a child that is incredibly traumatic.

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Bokang K🇿🇦

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2 years

Black child let's talk,is it connections or qualifications that make you succeed?

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Bokang K🇿🇦

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2 years

What should the punishment for rape be?

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Bokang K🇿🇦

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1 year

Thread A healthy relationship is one where communication is constant,attention is not begged for,affection not wished for,having a partner that is present everywhere else and absent with you is unbearable,when with their friends,they're their happiest self but not when with you.

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Bokang K🇿🇦

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2 years

The worst part of breaking trust is everything you do or say after the incident,is suspicious,irrespective

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Bokang K🇿🇦

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2 years

Financial depression is the worst of all,not having the ability to buy yourself basic necessities,having to ask people,to rely on them for your sustenance,begging to survive,having more bills than money,having qualifications but not being qualified to survive. Money is freedom.

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Bokang K🇿🇦

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2 years

People aren't always what they portray themselves to be,hence relationships are so difficult because by the time you realize who the person really is,you're already in too deep,sugar and salt look the same,but once added to to tea,the effects are catastrophically different.

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Bokang K🇿🇦

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2 years

The day you find the person you were meant for,you'll be glad it didn't work out with certain people

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Bokang K🇿🇦

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3 years

Depression is an illness that kills you while the world sees you smiling..

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Bokang K🇿🇦

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2 years

Being a first born child is difficult

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Bokang K🇿🇦

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1 year

Bongani has showed us what being a father means,,Kairo is blessed.

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Bokang K🇿🇦

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1 year

The pain that comes with knowing that someone you love has betrayed your love is second to none,you feel your heart literally being ripped out of your chest,you literally suffer a nervous breakdown,the pain sometimes is worse than hearing about a death of a loved one. it's deep

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Bokang K🇿🇦

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11 months

When TV was TV..

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Bokang K🇿🇦

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2 years

Many relationships failed because someone didn't want to look desperate ..

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Bokang K🇿🇦

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2 years

Do you fart in the presence of your partner?

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Bokang K🇿🇦

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1 year

Being in a relationship with someone who has moved but cannot tell you that they are done with you is worse than the actual break up,never chase someone you who is running away,anybody you treat like celebrity,will treat you like a fan,painful is it may be,move on.

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Bokang K🇿🇦

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2 years

You cannot love someone you do not respect,you cannot love another person if you want things to always go your way,love cannot exist in an environment where there's dictatorship,selfishness,where our problems become your friend's problems,everytime we have issues,you call family.

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Bokang K🇿🇦

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2 years

It's always the people that know the least about you,that have the most to say about you.

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Bokang K🇿🇦

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2 years

Speak life into your day,tell the universe what you expect to see today,do not allow life to happen to you,create it by your words,affirm yourself,be positive,listen to something that uplifts your spirit,cut any negativity,refuse to associate with people that drain your energy.

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2 years

Intellectual compatibility is important,you cannot build a solid relationship with someone who is not operating at the same vibrational frequency of reasoning as you,you need to be with someone who thinks at your level,so that even when yal have problems,you can reason together.

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Bokang K🇿🇦

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2 years

A beautiful relationship is made up of two people who constantly chase each other,the worst thing to feel in a relationship is that pain of chasing someone who has lost interest in you,your attempts bore and annoy them,but because love is a drug you don't know how to stop.

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2 years

Nothing reveals the strength of a relationship like fights, sicknesses,jobloss,people against your relationship,loss of loved ones, it's what the relationship survives that strengthens or destroys a relationship not the length of it,

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Bokang K🇿🇦

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2 years

I think we underestimate the importance of a supportive and understanding partner

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Bokang K🇿🇦

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2 years

I'm not Zulu but today,I witnessed history,this was a spectacle,absolutely beautiful. All hail the King

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Bokang K🇿🇦

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1 year

If only relationships were as healthy as Zinhle and Murdah Bongz....this couple epitomizes maturity and emotional security

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Bokang K🇿🇦

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2 years

Believe what a drunk person or an angry person says,they have been meaning to say it for some time,the emotion of anger and the alcohol are just mere vehicle to drive words that normal circumstances and soberness didn't have fuel to transport.

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Bokang K🇿🇦

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2 years

Sometimes things don't fall apart because you did anything wrong,sometimes they fall apart because you did the right things for the wrong person.

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Bokang K🇿🇦

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2 years

Love cannot exist without fear,the value of a thing is best shown by the efforts we making to not lose it,I may not know what the L and O stand for but I know the V and E are for value and effort in LOVE,if I value you,you will see by efforts of me trying my best to not lose you

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2 years

Before you pray for more,take inventory of what God has already given you,appreciate the life,traveling mercies he has granted you,one of the riskiest endeavors you can embark on is to commute by any means of transportation,so to and come back is the greatest miracle,it's favour.

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Bokang K🇿🇦

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1 year

Hurting someone that loves you is the thing you can do to yourself,the regret that comes from seeing their faces drenched with tears,witnessing first hand love turning into pain right in front of your eyes is utterly shuttering,having to ask your yourself,was is worth it?

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Bokang K🇿🇦

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2 years

Nothing is more stressful than having people depending on you,If you fail,they automatically fail,if you lose they automatically lose,if you don't make money,they automatically starve,being a parent,owning a business,being a bread winner,the struggle is real.

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Bokang K🇿🇦

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1 year

You cannot teach someone a thing they've convinced themselves they know.

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Bokang K🇿🇦

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2 years

Even a broken clock,is correct twice a day,give yourself credit,you are not all bad

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Bokang K🇿🇦

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2 years

True loyalty is what people do behind your back,not while you are there.

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Bokang K🇿🇦

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1 year

Nothing is more important in a relationship than respect,love cannot and will not exist without it,most relationship problems,are a respect problem,the day I stop seeing you,speaking to you with courtesy,and consideration,I've stopped respecting you,I've stopped loving you

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Bokang K🇿🇦

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2 years

To know him as healer,you must go through sickness,to know him as a provider you must suffer lack,to know him as a comforter,you must go through emotional distress,to know him as father,you must know the emptiness of not having one,problems must face you to have GOD be an answer

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Bokang K🇿🇦

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2 years

Losing someone that truly loved you is the worst thing,nothing is worse than wishing you found out earlier that the grass is not greener next door,it's greener where you water it,a good partner is like a flower plant you must water and prune them or they will wither and dry up

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Bokang K🇿🇦

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2 years

Many relationships fail because people are selfish,self absorbed,and inconsiderate,only their viewpoint and opinions matters,only their feelings are valid

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Bokang K🇿🇦

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10 months

Some of us aren't praying for much,just the ability to never beg or ask anyone for anything.Not money,shelter,food,or clothes,all we want from God,is the resources to be self reliant,being rich may be what we call it,but it's actually self-reliance,and one day he will answer.

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Bokang K🇿🇦

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2 years

Mjolo vs you

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Bokang K🇿🇦

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1 year

Good people make bad choice too,don't be too hard on yourself,no one is perfect.

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Bokang K🇿🇦

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1 year

A woman fed up,cannot be brought back,she will tolerate until someone who treats her better shows up on the scene,then forget it,she is gone and there's nothing you can do to bring her back.

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Bokang K🇿🇦

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1 year

This year let go,accept,dont fight,dont force,dont chase,dont pester,dont nag,dont enquire,dont be emotive,whate is yours will happen organically without you have lowering yourself to save or keep it,dont beg, chase dreams and goals not people's attention,validation or acceptance

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Bokang K🇿🇦

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2 years

Never allow a person who's never walked a day in your shoes,to tell you how to tie your shoe laces,it's easy as an observer to judge the actions of a person whose life you've never experienced,a lion raised in the comfort of the zoo,will never understand the struggles of the wild

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Bokang K🇿🇦

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2 years

Never go into a relationship hoping that the next person will make you happy,your happiness is yours to create,your partner should complement you,not complete you.

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Bokang K🇿🇦

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2 years

I'm committed to you,is the only way to say I love you,the will be days where you won't like your partner,where feelings towards them cannot be traced,feelings are fickle,they cannot be trusted as an ally when making decisions,commitment disregards feelings,love is commitment

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Bokang K🇿🇦

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2 years

Thread: Relationships 101 The only way a man can interpret love from a woman,is through the respect and faithfulness she gives him,the only way a woman interprets love from a man,is through the affection,attention,and security and faithfulness he gives to her.

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Bokang K🇿🇦

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2 years

Stop rewarding ill treatment with forgiveness and understanding,believe what they show you,not what they tell,how they truly feel about you is concealed in how they treat you,not in what they tell you. How many "I'm sorry's",do you Wana hear until you realize they won't change.

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Bokang K🇿🇦

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2 years

Sometimes the silence and slowness of God in answering our prayers is worse than the problem,if you've never questioned God's existence or atleast his care for what you're going through,you've not been through serious tough times,sometimes you run out of words to even pray.

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Bokang K🇿🇦

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2 years

Never beg a person to stay who has decided that their life is better off without you. No body is worth that kind of privilege

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Bokang K🇿🇦

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2 years

When it looks like things are against you,remember that airplanes taking off against the wind not with it,What you are going through could be the opposition you need to take off into greater heights if you handle this,the turbulence ahead,will be a breeze,hold on,you'll prevail.

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Bokang K🇿🇦

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2 years

Some people will never hear you until you make a decision to stop talking to them,then they come and say you have changed these days

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Bokang K🇿🇦

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2 years

Until you're depressed,you'll never see the power of laughter,until you've been rejected,you'll never see the importance of being appreciated,until you've been sick or had a loved one sick,you'll never appreciate the value of health,until you're faced with death,life has no value

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Bokang K🇿🇦

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1 year

A secret and a lie can destroy a relationship that has survived the worst storms of life,the longer the secret is kept,the more stupid the victims feels and the greater the pain it causes,the greater the lie,the harder it is to heal let alone to forgive.

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Bokang K🇿🇦

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1 year

Understanding,compromise,sacrifice,listening,being considerate,forgiveness,are just some of the few raw materials we neglect when building relationships,whenever you embark on a relationship with someone,you're taking a journey with a flawed being,a human with mistakes.

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Bokang K🇿🇦

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3 years

I'm driving four trains in the next two hours send me your handles if you want a lift

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Bokang K🇿🇦

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2 years

Fights and disagreements are inevitable in relationships,it's not so much the fighting that's the problem but how y'all fight,if it's physical,it's toxic,if they belittle you,it's toxic,if they punish you with silent treatment,grow cold on you,or distance themselves,it's toxic

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Bokang K🇿🇦

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1 year

picture you wearing shades.

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Bokang K🇿🇦

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3 years

Stop saying people are lazy just because God answered your prayers first,anything in life can change,he is as much a God for the cleaner,as he is for the CEO.lets be descent to each other. Good Morning.

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Bokang K🇿🇦

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2 years

People grow apart because they become comfortable with each other,what brings you together, is what will sustain the relationship,the key to the longevity of a relationship is to continue doing what you did that made you guys come together,attention,affection,respect,validation

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Bokang K🇿🇦

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2 years

The same boiling water that softens the potato,hardens the eggs,you can choose to be broken by the temperature of the boiling water or be strengthened by it,but all of us are in the same boiling pot called life,we just choose to react differently when the water gets hot.

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Bokang K🇿🇦

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2 years

There's no amount of resistance that can stop what is meant for you,and there's no amount of effort you can put in to keep what is not.

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Bokang K🇿🇦

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2 years

No candle ever lost its flame from lighting another,let's continue helping one another and being kinder to each other,the person you are looking down upon today,might be the only person who can help you tomorrow.

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Bokang K🇿🇦

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2 years

Relationships fail sometimes not because of cheating or lying,but because people won't grow up,they are still playing mind games they played in high school,"I Wont text him first,I'll take 30 mins before I respond,I'll blue tick her to punish her,silent treatment."

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Bokang K🇿🇦

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2 years

Stop envying the next guy's life,you are probably doing way better than they are,things are never as they seem,get closer you'll notice that just because it glitters,it doesn't mean it is gold,it is tough for everyone,be greatful for the problems you don't have.

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Bokang K🇿🇦

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1 year

I can,I will,I'm capable,I'm disciplined,I'm qualified,I'm connected,I'm intelligent,I'm talented,this is my year,I'll work hard,push boundaries,I won't let anything stand in my way,not haters,not friendnemies,not family,not an unsupportive jealous partner,mantras to tell self

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Bokang K🇿🇦

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3 years

The biggest mistake we men make,is that when God opens doors for us,we sometimes eat with women we didn't starve with,and end up having short lived success,because those that only come to consume,dont know the pain of planting,dont lose a good women,over a seasonal one.

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Bokang K🇿🇦

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2 years

Nothing is heavier than being in a relationship with someone who is insecure or clingy,in the same breath nothing is more difficult as being in a relationship with someone who has fallen out of love with you and makes you feel like they're doing you a favour by being with you.

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Bokang K🇿🇦

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2 years

Respect and kindness are most attractive qualities,particularly in a setup where they are reciprocated when given,disagreements in relationships are inevitable,but fight to resolve not to prove a point,being right shouldn't be the goal,the objective should be to be understood

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Bokang K🇿🇦

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1 year

No one heals from a pain they pretend like they are not feeling,you cannot quench a thirst or fill a hunger by pretending it's not there,the first step towards healing is accepting that it hurts,it doesn't make you weak,it makes you human,strength is thruimph through adversity.

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Bokang K🇿🇦

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6 months

@Tom47096338 So hitting her is justified based on your comment?

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3 years

@2021AFRICA 📀📀📀📀

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2 years

If you find some that loves you,don't make them regret it by taking advantage of their love,to love someone means to let your guard down,to throw caution to the wind,to hope you don't live to regret opening yourself up,It's the most dangerous decision one can make

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2 years

It can be done,and it can be done by you.. Believe that,don't allow fear and insecurities to cripple you.....

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2 years

The one who loves the hardest,often is loved the least,and hurt the most

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Bokang K🇿🇦

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2 years

Loving someone is a beautiful thing,but being loved by the one that you love is an occurrence that is out of this world, the intensity is incredible,that alignment is beyond words

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Bokang K🇿🇦

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2 years

One of the worst things is being attached to another human being,you become a slave to your own thoughts,you overthink,over analyze and over exaggerate everything they do,you end up hating them because you love them,then hating yourself for not being able to leave them.

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Bokang K🇿🇦

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2 years

How people speak about you behind your back is how they truly feel about you.

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2 years

If you knew how many people hate you at your work place,in your family,amongst your so-called friends. You would be shocked,better is someone who attacks you in your presence,and defends you in your absence,reveals your weaknesses to you and hides them from the world,true friends

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2 years

Stand up for yourself,stop being timid,agree with what you agree with,stand up against what you don't,stop fearing them,they are human just like you,refuse to be intimidated,it is better to live a day like a tiger,than a lifetime like a sheep.

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2 years

'You must balls of steel young man' Best motivational speech ever

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1 year

The ones rejecting you now,will be the ones telling people they know you tomorrow,stay focused,disciplined,goal driven,hungry,refuse to quit,refuse to be depressed because it's difficult, work harder on yourself than on your job,greatness is always on the extra mile,

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2 years

Don't beg anyone,the greatest symbol of love and commitment is effort,if you treat them like a celebrity, they will treat you like a fan.

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2 years

Don't tell just anybody about your problems,alot of people don't care and many are glad you have them,choose your circle wisely,many of those you're confiding in,are pretending to care,but behind your back the things they are saying about you are shocking.

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2 years

The strongest people are those that also study their weaknesses,look at themselves introspectively and know themselves holistically,you have to know where you fall short in order to survive standing tall,those who only study their strengths,always fall prey to their weaknesses

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2 years

Nothing is hard as going through your worst season and having no one to call who can help,not friends, not family, not colleagues, having no options is worse than the actual problem itself, if there's a way out, problems don't lead to depression

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1 year

After Thabo Bester fear doctors,this woman stole three bodies,Dr Nandipha is just as dangerous

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2 years

Stop looking at what a person is willing to give to be with you,but what they are willing to give up to be with you,in that you'll discover what your true value to them really is.

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