Let me make one thing clear...
I choose who I speak to in my dms and it is not many people. I make that decision. I won't be told who I can and cannot speak to. If you dont like it, you know where the unfollow button is. There is no need for your abuse in my inbox.
I think of myself as a nice person and I have insecurities but that isn't something for to prey on or use for your toxic games with others. Leave me out of it. I don't post for your pleasure but my confidence. Don't spout shit about me and not expect me to find out. Sort it out.