✨There’s literally no sexy bikinis for BUSTY women in the swimsuit market because they assume that you’re either overweight & insecure or a conservative mommy. It’s either ugly one pieces with no support or unflattering 2 pieces.
Well I’m changing that
After being in a relationship for 4 years. I learned that we are very seasonal. Whoever you marry now, won’t be the same person in 5,10,15 years. It’s a choice to love that person every single day, through whatever.
“OUr paRentS diDn’t TaLk abOut AnxIetY or DePresSion”….when your parent(s) were beating your a*s over every little thing, screaming at you, locking themselves in their rooms after work, reminding you that they pay the bills.What you thought that was? They just took it out on you
I love how black women collectively get protective hairstyles during the summer, all in sync. You’ll walk in a room and we all have different braids, twists, loc styles, it’s a beautiful sight.
This is why women want y’all to plan dates because we don’t know what your budget is, and why not look up the menu before taking women to places you can’t afford?
This is a perfect example of Men Math:
She looks amazing. Ppl are asking how,but when you have the money for a chef to keep you on a strict diet and a trainer, you’ll get in shape in no time.
I’m so happy we got to experience a social media free childhood/adolescence for the most part. Innocent puppy love, normal teenager experiences, because these kids are HEAVILY influenced.
Glorilla got signed and the first ppl did was dig up her tweets. I’ve never this much public display of hate in abundance, in my life. What do ppl gain from that?
We went went from a lock down,massive company layoffs, to a housing crisis, to inflation….within 3 years….and y’all telling ppl to just get out of poverty, like they chose to be there. Ppl literally used all of their savings to survive.
Ladies,please don’t let the “City Girl” luxury lifestyle facade get y’all messed up in real life. A LOT of men expect sex for the money they spend and these women are fcking, they just don’t tell y’all that. Don’t get left on the sidewalk assuming you that girl. It’s ugly outside
The internet is really frying young ppl’s brains. They don’t even believe what they’re saying, they’re just repeating social media nonsense. Cringe lmao
It’s in a woman’s best interest to be cooperative and more serving once she reaches 40 if she wants to continue to be a factor in the dating market. Even as a wife.
I do miss intimacy, but there nothing better than being assured that the person you’re sharing those moments with truly wants to be with you. Otherwise it’s temporary nonsense.
I had a nigga send me money for groceries without me asking, while I was already there minding my business, then he said “I wanted to see if you’d offer to cook for me”…I told him I’ll send the bread back
My misery doesn’t like company. I go missing and handle up. When I’m not “ok” I accept that I’m not ok, and I don’t want to hear no fake motivation from nobody. Let me be and ill be back when I’m 100%.
One thing I’ve learned about suicide, or dealing with someone suicidal, is that you can’t “check on them” out of it. Ppl are really suffering in silence. The mental torture is not even something they can explain.
A lot of men assume that they’re “sexually experienced” because they’ve had “a lot” of sex but when it comes to intimacy,exploring different aspects of pleasure, they’re VERY conservative or not experienced.
We go into isolation because we don’t want to be a burden to others. Checking in is fine, but sometimes we just need the time to process what we’re experiencing, and to get through it without having to pretend to be “ok”.
My question for the people who go into isolation for whatever reason, what do you want from your friends? To leave you alone til you feel better? Help you? Check on you? Like what are people supposed to do as ur friend? And do u have no expectation or responsibility as a friend?
Ppl pass away from health/surgery complications every single day, stop being ignorant, because this was cosmetic. This is not a “y’all gon learn” moment. Stfu and have some empathy. My goodness y’all ugly.
I had a man begging to go raw, so I asked him “if I got pregnant right now, how would you feel about that”
His response: “I ain’t gonna lie, I’m not ready for a jit right now”
I closed the 🐱
Rent keeps getting higher which means that 1st/last/security, is also more expensive. When I moved out ppl didn’t understand how much that set me back by thousands of dollars, and some ppl don’t even have it. Can’t judge nobody’s living conditions right now.
MOST Men do what’s best for them. They’ll pick themselves first every single time. They don’t understand the logic of sacrificing their happiness for anyone and if you could learn anything from them, it’s that.
Men get in their feelings when you don’t allow them to double back. If it’s one thing I’ve learned the hard way, it’s that they never come back to treat you better. They’re just hoping you’re still dumb enough to fck with them again.
Stories like this reminds us how far we’d be if YT ppl didn’t steal so much from us for centuries to set us back. I’m so happy for this family. I wish others would get the same justice/reparations.
California returns Beachfront land that was stolen from black family nearly 100 years ago. Willa & Charles Bruce bought the land for $1,200. It’s now worth over $75M
Learning about the “resting phase” on TikTok. It’s when your body is adjusting & resting from being in “fight or flight” mode for a long period of time and that explains why I’ve been so exhausted no matter how much sleep I get.
I told y’all. Men will intentionally sabotage a relationship or marriage, to make a woman leave them, because they don’t have the balls to do it. Y’all the only ones that be “fighting” for love.
Y’all the type of women who will magnify the little “good” in a man, so you can stay even if you’re unhappy, because you’re afraid you’ll never find better.
I just realized something about myself……my indecisiveness comes from being a ppl pleaser for so long. Every decision I used to make was based on what would make someone else happy,comfortable,avoid getting them mad,etc….
So Men are not taking y’all trash out? Not helping you put your furniture together? Not helping y’all do laundry? Not taking your car to get washed? Not going grocery shopping with you? I think this is the reason why the idea of helping a man clean his place is causing outrage.
Just watched a TikTok of this man warning content creators, that there’s someone behind a fake page Copyrighting viral audios. He went to copyright his own viral sound, and found out it was already copyrighted by that person and they made 25k from it. YIKES
Sometimes you show up for ppl, depressed,sad and all. Put on a fake smile and they don’t even know wtf going on. They don’t know how much energy it required and they don’t even appreciate your presence. That’s why ppl stop showing up.
I stopped oversharing. I’ve learned that ppl don’t want to know your story to understand you. Most times they just want to gain access to your vulnerability/weaknesses. You’ll tell someone things so they can understand your being better, and they’ll do the complete opposite.
“Squid Game” only made me realize how desensitized we are about seeing so much violence. Ppl were getting shot every 5 mins and we’re like “so what game would you lose in?”
So y’all can outgrow your friends, but think that outgrowing a partner is betrayal…ppl marry because of compatibility (some). If your partner is supposedly on a “journey” with you, what do you do when they stop evolving, and your interests, goals, ambitions no longer align?
“It’s men out here giving out 20k allowances”…yes, and you still ain’t find him yet…at some point y’all have to face the music. Another woman’s blessings, shouldn’t be your expectation. That’s how you miss out on your own blessings.
Letting your “husband” cheat and have outside kids on you, but you’re still screaming “my family”….what family? For some women, the IMAGE of having a “family” is more important, than their self worth and respect. Tragic