My eldest sibling got married when I was in grade 3. She and her man asked for me from our parents and I was basically their first child. During school term I would be at the boarding house (Yes, I was at a boarding house in primary school๐ญ) Then during school holidays -
Never witnessed a total stranger love a brother in law like he did. Fast forward to my adult life, that's exactly the kind of guys I'm attracted to. If you see me giving a man attention, dating him or spending time with him, know that these qualities check.โ I seek him in them.
I would be by my sis and sbali. I witnessed some of the best loving I had ever seen in my life. ๐ซ That man loved my sister AND I like we were all he had.
He took so much care of me and showered me with love that I didn't know what to do with it.๐ฅน
He was so calm, soft spoken, kind, sweet and caring. He never raised his voice. He never said a harsh word. He was so assuring and respectful.๐ฎโ๐จ He called me "Sbali" but treated me like his son. ๐Till this day, I have never witnessed a person love their partner like that man.
International Day Against Homophobia, Transphobia and Biphobia. 17 May 2021. ๐ณ๏ธโ๐๐ณ๏ธโ๐๐ณ๏ธโ๐๐ณ๏ธโ๐๐ณ๏ธโ๐๐ณ๏ธโ๐๐ณ๏ธโ๐๐ณ๏ธโ๐๐ณ๏ธโ๐๐ณ๏ธโ๐๐ณ๏ธโ๐๐ณ๏ธโ๐๐ณ๏ธโ๐๐ณ๏ธโ๐๐ณ๏ธโ๐๐ณ๏ธโ๐๐ณ๏ธโ๐๐ณ๏ธโ๐๐ณ๏ธโ๐๐ณ๏ธโ๐๐ณ๏ธโ๐๐ณ๏ธโ๐๐ณ๏ธโ๐๐ณ๏ธโ๐๐ณ๏ธโ๐๐ณ๏ธโ๐๐ณ๏ธโ๐๐ณ๏ธโ๐๐ณ๏ธโ๐๐ณ๏ธโ๐๐ณ๏ธโ๐๐ณ๏ธโ๐๐ณ๏ธโ๐๐ณ๏ธโ๐๐ณ๏ธโ๐๐ณ๏ธโ๐๐ณ๏ธโ๐๐ณ๏ธโ๐๐ณ๏ธโ๐๐ณ๏ธโ๐๐ณ๏ธโ๐๐ณ๏ธโ๐๐ณ๏ธโ๐๐ณ๏ธโ๐๐ณ๏ธโ๐๐ณ๏ธโ๐๐ณ๏ธโ๐๐ณ๏ธโ๐๐ณ๏ธโ๐๐ณ๏ธโ๐๐ณ๏ธโ๐๐ณ๏ธโ๐๐ณ๏ธโ๐๐ณ๏ธโ๐๐ณ๏ธโ๐๐ณ๏ธโ๐๐ณ๏ธโ๐๐ณ๏ธโ๐๐ณ๏ธโ๐๐ณ๏ธโ๐๐ณ๏ธโ๐๐ณ๏ธโ๐๐ณ๏ธโ๐๐ณ๏ธโ๐๐ณ๏ธโ๐๐ณ๏ธโ๐๐ณ๏ธโ๐๐ณ๏ธโ๐๐ณ๏ธโ๐๐ณ๏ธโ๐๐ณ๏ธโ๐๐ณ๏ธโ๐๐ณ๏ธโ๐๐ณ๏ธโ๐๐ณ๏ธโ๐๐ณ๏ธโ๐๐ณ๏ธโ๐๐ณ๏ธโ๐๐ณ๏ธโ๐๐ณ๏ธโ๐๐ณ๏ธโ๐๐ณ๏ธโ๐๐ณ๏ธโ๐๐ณ๏ธโ๐๐ณ๏ธโ๐๐ณ๏ธโ๐๐ณ๏ธโ๐๐ณ๏ธโ๐๐ณ๏ธโ๐๐ณ๏ธโ๐๐ณ๏ธโ๐๐ณ๏ธโ๐๐ณ๏ธโ๐๐ณ๏ธโ๐๐ณ๏ธโ๐๐ณ๏ธโ๐๐ณ๏ธโ๐๐ณ๏ธโ๐๐ณ๏ธโ๐๐ณ๏ธโ๐๐ณ๏ธโ๐
@Nomsisiii
To be honest sis, I am eternally grateful for what my parents did. I was allowed to learn myself in a world where my comfort crowd wasnโt too near by. It was however, challenging. I learnt coexistence, independence and managing conflict on my own. Overall a great experience.๐๐ฟ
@BigMacavelli
I did not sexualise my brother in law. He simply had a positive impact on how I want to be loved and how I want to love. So I seek his qualities in people that I give my affection. It simply means someone imparted a good example of loving, to me. Iโm love-awake/conscious.
The purpose of my thread was to honour yet another incredible man who possesses the qualities I learnt a man should have, from my brother in law. I was simply sharing that my taste in who I like is influenced positively by a monumental male figure in my life.โค๏ธ
He reminds me of sbali so much. What a sweet soul. What a calm, collected, warm, self aware, enlightened, kind, loving, caring, and respectful young man. I hope I don't mess up this friendship of 5 years.๐ฅน
@Thabomasina
You did not receive this kind of love and that it shows. . Youโre probably an adult now. No one else can fix you unless you actively do it yourself. It starts with not being this guy up here.โ๐ฟ๐ Heal.
He reminds me of sbali so much. What a sweet soul. What a calm, collected, warm, self aware, enlightened, kind, loving, caring, and respectful young man. I hope I don't mess up this friendship of 5 years.๐ฅน
My eldest sibling got married when I was in grade 3. She and her man asked for me from our parents and I was basically their first child. During school term I would be at the boarding house (Yes, I was at a boarding house in primary school๐ญ) Then during school holidays -
Quite often, when he steps out of the shower he snaps selfies shirtless and sends them to me. I snapped some earlier, intending to return the practice. If I tell you, I look -๐ซฆ๐คญ
How dare I?
@ZikiAnyaogu
My tweet isnโt necessarily about him but about qualities I find attractive in men I am attracted to, which he imparted to me. More than anything, my tweet is about celebrating a young man that stepped into my life & possesses amazing qualities I desire because of sbali.๐
Nna Iโm sorry bafethu. I might have failed with my most recent attempt at love, but ngisazothanda and ngizothanda better than before. That shit is amazing. Donโt deny yourselves.
Itโs HIV testing csuse you canโt be on PrEP while positive. So the 3 months testing is to make sure youโre still negative for PrEP to work. The blood tests are for Hepatitis A/B/C, and syphilis blood testing, as well as blood tests for your kidney function. Which you must know.
Guys forget that you donโt just walk in and ask for PrEP broโฆyou gotta get some tests done and once youโre inside you need to get some tests done every 3 months
I know damn well youโve never received such a love if you can get online to spew such. The winner in this is me. ๐ I was loved. I am loved. I also exude love.โค๏ธ
One day I said "hey" to someone on Grindr and he responded "Fuck off. Your face looks like a zebra"
Ever since then, each time I look in the mirror, I see the zebra!
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Kuli Roberts was a bully and a mean woman. She said a lot of awful things about other people on camera without flinching a muscle. This is not a secret. LKG did speak and can continue speaking about it even 50 years from now. Death didnโt suddenly sanctify Kuli. Ask Boity too.
Lmao, isn't it quite crazy how we've beeeen in the forefront of getting EVERYONE rights yet they stay wanting to particularly strip us ๐ณ๏ธโ๐+ of ours?๐ค
Thandiswa Mazwai gave us a song called โIngomaโโฆ the song ends abruptly and she says it was done intentionally to symbolise how love can be going well yet it can also just come to an end, just like that.. Dedicating Ingoma to you Phophi.โค๏ธ๐ฅน
I hate poverty with all my being. Iโm supposed to be in Stockholm, Sweden ๐ธ๐ช right now, worrying about which vintage Balmain pieces to wear to Renaissance World Tour.
@Mnathero
I overthink everything. Words you say. Words you DONT say. Whether you mean what you claim. Your intentions. And Iโm very needy when it comes to assurance and actions that back up the assurance. If I donโt get that Iโm like ๐คmmmmโฆ
South Africa, give Nonhle Thema another chance. She didnโt murder. She didnโt rape. She didnโt steal. An ego that fails us is something we all learn from and grow.
You have a long list of men you have re-platformed after doing the scariest. Stand up for this one woman.
I can't help it but think of the queer men you intentionally humiliated on the TL for DM'ing you months back. Not only did you paint queer men as thirsty, but you also created a playground for homophobes. It'd be very nice of you to apologise right after your coming out.
@ThibosAfrika
@Kalushikazi
In this day and age people still don't know know rules aren't always logical, moral, ethical and humane. Apartheid had rules and laws, did they serve everyone? Critical thinking is very important...
@cozmino_
@_SphesihleM
Yes, because most want to seem edgy and cool because thatโs Trevorโs branding. ๐ But best believe Skhumba is leaving everyone crawling on the floor, ribs cracked. When last did Trevor move a crowd ?๐ Donโt worry, Iโll wait. ๐