Men never believe I went over a year and no sex and didnโt talk to a single man. It got even easier the longer I went. I think all women should have that phase in their lives because it gives you a better perspective in dating.
The role of a godparent is to take care of the child in the event you were to pass. Yโall be making people godparents who canโt even care for themselves currently. I wouldnโt give that title to anyone just because they are my friend and thatโs what so many people do.
Dating multiple men (not having sex) should be more of a thing. I think women put all their eggs in one basket then end up disappointed.
Men do it all the time till they get a girlfriend. And even keep their hoes.
Who was the celebrity that knew she was leaving her husband when he ignored her when she was admiring a tree? That story stuck with me because people donโt get how those small things add up. Your partner constantly trying to humble you or never be excited sucks.
Small parenting tip. Pay close attention to your childโs interests like around middle school and find programs that cater to that. My daughter always wanted to be in forensics so I put her in a lot of programs. Now sheโs excelling earning her criminal justice degree
@cs23back
Ask it to give you a meal plan with $x budget for x amount of people for a week. Add dietary restrictions. Then itโll give you breakfast, lunch and dinner. Then ask for the grocery list.
Itโs really my personal assistant. I go shopping on Sundays and been sticking to it
No paid maternity leave, billions sent to other countries to kill innocent people, healthcare relies on employment , mass shootings weekly, groceries are triple the price the were a few years ago, housing crises BUT TikTok
The post about the woman quitting her job after winning 90k made me realize just how out of touch most people are with the state of the average person. She might get a lump sum of 63k and that is still more than the yearly salary for most people. Why stay at a job she hates?
Being a single woman not attached to an aint shit man and can travel the world is the new cat lady. If thatโs my fate Iโll take it ๐คท๐พโโ๏ธ
Best dating advice I ever received is stop doing so much for men. Let him lead and he will always show you want he wants from you. It works every time but sometimes you find out he doesnโt care for you like that ๐ฅด
Do yโall give your kids mental health days?
I do. My daughter is in high school so some days we both wake up and be like letโs just watch movies all day and Iโm game. Especially when thereโs snow out ๐๐๐ญ๐ญ
If you meet a man over 30 and heโs single seriously figure out whatโs wrong with him first. Cause youโre in for a long ride of commitment issues, money problems, baby mama drama, and/or lack of career progression
Being single really is dope you can do whatever the fuck you like. You really shouldnโt give up that peace until someone makes your life better than being single.
@_anuwrld
@CreativeRawNRG
My microchip malfunctioned one day and I started to understand computers but in a Dr Doolittle way but then it stopped and everything went back to normal
Men get comfortable quick. The way you allow him to treat you in the beginning is exactly how heโs going to treat you over time. He not changing trust me.
I hate to be like this but you honestly have to give men the same exact energy they give you. Itโs nice to go above and beyond for the person you love but ultimately men are selfish and will always choose themselves. Choose you ladies. Stop doing nice things first.
Another thing about being black in corporate America and small talk, I hate โwhat did you do this weekend?โ
I was literally drinking 40s with my friends ๐ญ๐ญ๐ญ
@K__imPossible
Ask it to give you a meal plan for your budget, household number, and dietary restrictions. It will give you breakfast, lunch and dinner. Then ask for the shopping list. I love it been going grocery shopping Sundays and been saving money.
One reason most dudes get ignored is they canโt carry conversations, whether through texts or a phone call I like to have some type of dialogue. Asking me wyd or nonsense questions I get bored and be out.
Iโve been laid off from a job and got another job making 20k more. Iโve lost shitty friends but then developed amazing relationships with other friends. Iโve been heartbroken then found the man with all the qualities I asked the universe for.
The universe always got me.
I think a healthy relationship requires you to have healthy friendships and self care. It should not always be about your man/woman. Please have friends, hobbies, and take care of yourself.
I always unfollow niggas when we break up and wonโt look at their social media unless itโs shown to me. Keeping up with exes is such a trash thing to do with your mental. Let it go
It amazes me how disrespectful men are to women who are carrying THEIR child. Even in the first few years how unsupportive I see some men are. Then they want to play the best dad later.
When posting about your woman if it includes anything she does for you that you as a man lack please delete it.
If it doesnโt include her best qualities about her as a woman please delete it. We donโt need to know her downfalls or struggles. Keep that private.
Reality is COVID-19 isnโt going anywhere. Good leadership would have had a plan by now itโs been 2 months.
A plan to safely reopen
A plan to protect the vulnerable
A plan to address rent/mortgage/utilities
A plan to address small businesses that wonโt survive
Yet I see none
I just want yโall to date men that appreciate yโall. The difference in their behavior is apparent when he actually wants to be with you.
Just donโt overthink
I think you should talk to your elders more who been in marriages for 30, 40, 50+ years and actually ask about the challenges. Some were not always healthy and there are a lot of secrets that we now call out because our lives are more visible.
Death is very expensive and itโs always the living that suffer. Donโt add a financial burden on your loved ones when they are already dealing with your death.
A small 10k policy will run you a few bucks a months.
I wholeheartedly believe everything works in my favor even bad shit is just a redirection so I tend not to stress about much in life cause it just wasnโt for me. I really do have a great life because of this mindset
@jaquala88
@airyhkeam
@eberechiii
Me either. Thatโs what I wanted to know is who posted it and now that it was him it makes the whole thing even more messed up.
I really donโt understand why any job application in 2019 requires you to enter any information in after you upload your resume. The technology is there please use it.
Letโs be real. These gender and sexuality topics are BRAND NEW to people. We were not taught any of this. Why canโt you just explain it instead of labeling them a phobic.
Wait till you work over 40 hours, paid all your bills, and live by yourself. Ainโt nothing fun about being out on a Friday when your home is peaceful
Moving is an absolutely annoying and expensive process. If we are good friends and you canโt pay for movers, please ask me because I will help. I will do it with a smile on my face. Just feed me. Friendship is not always fun.
Idk where this obsession with being a sugar baby came from but yโall should stop because if youโre getting played from broke niggas you def arenโt getting the attention from wealthy one. Crawl before you walk
This Aaron Hernandez doc is really exposing yโall internalized homophobia.
A few things..
1. The sexuality aspect was overkill to get yโall homophobia going. While the CTE was all of 5 minutes. If they wanted reasons for his behavior the CTE, IMO required more explanation.
I have another honest question. I feel like a lot of adults donโt know who they are. They tend to identify with outside things.
Who are you if you take away your money, clothes, career, even your children?
I personally like the escape twitter gives me and I can express myself even when I donโt feel like telling anyone in my personal life whatโs going on.
I really hate when people Iโm dating or Iโm a relationship are following me on here because they look too deep into my tweets.
I think women move way too fast sometimes because they just want a boyfriend instead of figuring out if that person is meant to be their boyfriend. Itโs ok to date someone and figure that out while dating.
Yโall honestly gotta stop thinking just because you can handle parts of life well that everyone else is supposed to too. We all experience and handle life differently.
Relationships are hard but having someone love you is such an amazing feeling. I hope everyone experiences someone that is genuinely in love with you for you.
@dogbutthole
So whatโs the regulated price for candy? Please be sure to provide me sources.
They named a price, he said no. Thatโs business. Itโs just wild yโall calling black boys dishonest when yโall are dishonest ass adults regularly.