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Key Barrett, MSc (He/Him)

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Information page for #sexpositive researcher into Female-Led Relationships( #FLR ) and #chastity . All books on Amazon. Find me on Hive Social at KeyBarrett.

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Key Barrett, MSc (He/Him)

1 year

It's here! "Locked In Love" joins my #FLR book on @audible . Why not spend you commute learning how being a #keyholder or being in #chastity can take your relationship to new intimate highs! Thank you @TantorAudio for making this happen. I love the cover.

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Check out this great listen on Audible.com. Key Barrett felt he didn't understand chastity well enough to be comfortable writing about the motivations and emotional aspects behind it. So, he spoke...

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Key Barrett, MSc (He/Him)

3 years

@tedcruz @BreitbartNews Jimmy Carter had THREE TIMES the GDP growth rate of Trump, so yay?

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6 years

"Natural Authority is the inherent ability to lead, combined with an inborn grace that lends an aura of leadership. Your Wife... is positively imbued with it." - Pg. 19 Learn about Natural Authority and how you can use it to make an #FLR a reality!

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Surrender, Submit, Serve Her.: The definitive guide to enacting Female Leadership and embracing the...

Surrender, Submit, Serve Her.: The definitive guide to enacting Female Leadership and embracing the Female Dominated Household.

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@fakedansavage Oh Dan, what have you done! Your 'leave them better than you found them' campground rule did not account for the possibility one's children may 'camp' there many years later!

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Key Barrett, MSc (He/Him)

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When your amazing house for sale contains and equally amazing #BDSM playroom with pommel horse, trapeze, stocks and epehemera. No shame, no judgement. These people are living their best selves. "50 Shades of Maple Glen"

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Key Barrett, MSc (He/Him)

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Happy October 1st! It's time for the great #locktober #chastity list! Let's look back at everything chastity related that came out since October 2018 (+ some old classics) in the world of books, articles, film & TV, plus some numbers on chastity in porn! Long thread ahead! 1/

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@fakedansavage I cannot wait to read your response. Also I vote that this new wrinkle in intergenerational sexuality be heretofore labelled "The Savage Paradox".

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Key Barrett, MSc (He/Him)

5 years

Subs in an #FLR out there, what's your favorite non-sexual 'devotional'? Examples: 'Every morning I make her tea', or 'starting her car on cold days', or 'a lunchbox love note'. Lady leaders, what is your favorite devotional of his/hers/theirs? Share the love (and ideas!).

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Key Barrett, MSc (He/Him)

6 years

Surrendering to the idea of a female led relationship doesn't mean the man isn't a leader anymore. He's still a leader, often strong and confident to others. He just serves the one person who's confidence, judgment and strength he values most. #flr

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Key Barrett, MSc (He/Him)

5 years

An image to share about #chastity and what it really means to engage in it as a couple. Retweet, steal, share, spread the word if you agree! #keyholder

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Key Barrett, MSc (He/Him)

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A little #FLR advice for the single sub out there: Remember you're looking for a caring, loving partner who happens to be a dominant woman, not a dominant woman who happens to be a caring, loving partner. Put the person first.

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Key Barrett, MSc (He/Him)

6 years

Retweet please: Men in #chastity (and especially married men) I am looking to ask anonymous questions for my next book. DM me please. This is important research and no personally identifying questions will be asked. Help out people who want to learn the SAFE way to add chastity.

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Key Barrett, MSc (He/Him)

5 years

This is in @Allure_magazine . #Pegging is officially mainstreamed. A good, comprehensive article. Best quote (from @sexpospsych ): "When I have sex with cisgender men, the ones who receive anal penetration are much better lovers than those who haven’t,"

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A Beginner’s Guide to Pegging Your Partner

Using a strap-on dildo can be hot. Here’s how to do it the safe way.

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Key Barrett, MSc (He/Him)

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It's here! You can get "Surrender, Submit, serve Her" On @audible_com Get a listen to the great @wendytking in the same. Help spread the word about healthy, happy Female-led relationships far and wide. Retweet, please! #FLR #FLRcouple

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Surrender, Submit, Serve Her

Check out this great listen on Audible.com. What is "Female Leadership?" It's accepting that "She knows best" in all matters. From the finances to the household to how things get done. It's trusting...

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Key Barrett, MSc (He/Him)

5 years

Let's have an #FLR appreciation thread! Folks in a Female-Led Relationship, what one thing about your relationship really fills your sails? Tell us! Reply and retweet! #FLR #TryItHerWay #WifeLedMarriage

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Key Barrett, MSc (He/Him)

5 years

Today's 'weird is beautiful' moment. I went for a hike to a remote pool. It's a half mile from car to this spot. What do I find? Two cosplaying mermaids. They were lovely and enchanting. Several small kids saw them, and lost their minds. Today magic was real for them.

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Key Barrett, MSc (He/Him)

5 years

I'm old enough to recall @fakedansavage answering the "am I gay b/c I'm attracted to hot trans girls" question back in the 90's. Sad, that in a world of pegging and gender fluidity, he still has to explain "no it doesn't and it doesn't matter if it did"!

Does sex with a trans woman make me gay? | Georgia Straight

I’m a straight male who became the receiving partner during anal sex with a trans sex worker.

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Key Barrett, MSc (He/Him)

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┳┻| ┻┳| ┳┻| ┻┳| ┳┻| ┻┳| ┳┻| ┻┳| ┳┻| ┻┳| ┳┻| ┻┳| ┳┻| _ ┻┳| •.•) Female Led Relationships ┳┻|⊂ﾉ are way more common than you think. ┻┳|

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Key Barrett, MSc (He/Him)

5 years

What kind of egg sorcery is this?!?

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Let me show you a magic trick.

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Key Barrett, MSc (He/Him)

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#FLR holiday mantra: almost every FLR had to be earned, with stumbles and reversions on the way. But you both earned it, through solid decision making and focused support of those decisions. Neither alone works as well as both together. Take time to acknowledge it!

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Key Barrett, MSc (He/Him)

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Friday #FLR mantra: Being a sub in the bedroom is not the same thing as being submissive in the relationship. Both are valid, can overlap, but are different. One is a sexual inclination. The other is a commitment to the betterment of you BOTH through support of her leadership.

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Key Barrett, MSc (He/Him)

4 years

Ugh, imagine being an American of Asian descent, who is walking up in day two of the new confinement to find "It is the Chinese" trending. How do you think that feels? Just a little bit more scary than yesterday? It's COVID-19. Call it that. Try and think of others a little.

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Key Barrett, MSc (He/Him)

4 years

If you are in a real life #FLR and like sharing the joys, successes and uniqueness of it on Twitter, please post an intro below so more folks interested in learning more can glean info from real life Female-led relationships!

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Key Barrett, MSc (He/Him)

5 years

Did you know, if you like any author's books, be they #erotica , #femdom , #FLR , #chastity , #spanking , #femsub , you can be a REAL HERO to us just by going on amazon or goodreads and writing a review? Reviews can often mean the difference between a sale and a pass. Plz Retweet.

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Key Barrett, MSc (He/Him)

5 years

I am about to hit the most amazing milestone! My books are about to cross 500,000 pages read in #KindleUnlimited ! I never thought there would be this much interest in creating a healthy #FLR or using #chastity to bring couples closer. Thank you, friends!

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Key Barrett, MSc (He/Him)

5 years

Oral is sex, intercourse is sex, pegging, chastity play and vibrators... All sex. Whatever gives you and your partner pleasure and intimacy is sex, if you want to define it as such. Don't let other people's definitions move you away from what you BOTH desire and connect with!

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Key Barrett, MSc (He/Him)

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For all the honest male followers of me who CRAVE an #FLR (and there are so many of you), trust me when I say THIS is your resource. I am not paid for this endorsement in any way, I just know what Venus has created really works!

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Key Barrett, MSc (He/Him)

3 years

Here's some free #FLR wisdom for ANY relationship: 1. Do things her way. If you take a task from her 2 help out, do it her way. 2. Do ONE THING a day just for her. 3. Listen without needing to give a solution. Sometimes she just needs you to listen and acknowledge what's going on

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Key Barrett, MSc (He/Him)

6 years

Thursday #FLR mantra: Thinking of your submission only in sexual terms may be true to your sexual self, but it's self-centered and orgasm driven. It sells out over and over what is at the heart of your larger emotional self: devotion to another's needs and wishes.

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Key Barrett, MSc (He/Him)

6 years

One of the many benefits of #FLR is that in a lot of men it fosters and promotes a form of 'Masculine Feminism'. Men are comfortable in their own skin, unthreatened by female achievement and female success, and instead take pride in championing equality, while still being a dude.

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Key Barrett, MSc (He/Him)

6 years

Now Men's Health magazine is covering #pegging . While the article does have the trope about gay panic, it has a pretty good how-to and comes from a sex-positive "its okay to want this" perspective that mentions vulnerability, empathy and her perspective.

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What Is Pegging? This Sex Act Is On the Rise Among Straight Men

"It's the best orgasm of your life."

www.menshealth.com

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Key Barrett, MSc (He/Him)

3 years

Hi folx! I am taking a break from Twitter for a while. I will be here to answer any DMs and you should feel free to reach out! I love chatting. But @Twitter by itself, even filtering out what I can, is proving toxic to my wellbeing. It's mostly nastiness and tribalism. /1

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Key Barrett, MSc (He/Him)

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I was smelling a particularly delicious whole bean coffee at my local shop. I turned to my wife and said "If you ever need to wake me out of a coma-" "I'll sit on your face." She interrupted. Love that woman. #lifegoals #wifegoals

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Key Barrett, MSc (He/Him)

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It's poll time again! This one is for self-identifying #Submissive men: How old were you when you finally learned you were submissive? #FLR #Femaleledrelationships As always, a retweet would be kind.

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Key Barrett, MSc (He/Him)

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Truly #submissive men have great wells of empathy. It gifts them with understanding, compassion and a desire to serve the needs of the one they love, without weakening their resolve or abilities. It makes them a perfect partner to a strong female leader in her #FLR .

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Key Barrett, MSc (He/Him)

5 years

What a sub often asks: "I want a Female Led Relationship." What she often hears: "I want you to do everything in this relationship." What he really meant: "You make great decisions and I want to support them and make you succeed." Read, learn, investigate, Communicate! #FLR

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Key Barrett, MSc (He/Him)

5 years

Okay, it's almost #Locktober ! Let's have a thread! Post your #chastity resources below (no dick pix please!) Share if you're doing it this year/have done it before and what you get from it! Let's spread the word and set realistic goals for any lurking newbies! Plz retweet!

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Key Barrett, MSc (He/Him)

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As we head towards #Locktober , I'd love to hear from couples who practice male #chastity what ONE THING really pleasantly surprised you about chastity the first time you tried it. Let's share the fun, boys and keyholders! I'll share mine below. Plz retweet and spread the word!

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Key Barrett, MSc (He/Him)

5 years

If you are a submissive man, especially an older one, you want to know where the dominant women are... They are all around you. On lavalife, on fetilfe, on regular dating sites. The issue is your terminology. If you are looking for something real, something relational, ok... 1/

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Key Barrett, MSc (He/Him)

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Be sure to read @sapiotextual 's balanced, ineresting look into #chastity for #locktober , featuring @edward_cantor and others! Lots of different ways to enjoy chastity.

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Key Barrett, MSc (He/Him)

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Submissives have submissive hearts. These hearts are empathetic and vulnerable. It means they can be easily hurt. But it also means they understand, relate and forgive quickly.

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Key Barrett, MSc (He/Him)

4 years

I have the most brazen chipmunks up here. I am literally sitting a foot away from this one.

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Key Barrett, MSc (He/Him)

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Friday #FLR mantra: Learn the difference between 'putting her on a pedestal' and 'being her bedrock'. The former is centered on you & your submissive sexual desires. The latter is based on her needs & growth, to be there when she has trouble & see her succeed.

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Key Barrett, MSc (He/Him)

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We're shut in, worried about our paychecks, working to the bone. I can't give you a hug and say it'll be OK, but I can help alleviate a little fear & boredom & say thanks. I'm making 5 of my naughty books free TOMORROW for 5 days to download. List below. Please retweet & share!

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Key Barrett, MSc (He/Him)

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@JonesHospodTX @tnhousegop Can't be expelled twice for the same offense, but Tennessee has never been afraid to make up a new offense to charge a black person with.

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Key Barrett, MSc (He/Him)

5 years

Here's an article that basically describes a submissive act of female worship in accurate terms and presents it in normal fem positive terms. In the sun, no less!

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Key Barrett, MSc (He/Him)

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Monday #FLR mantra: Every woman can tell you stories of men not listening to them, cutting down their ideas, of making them feel small. Not every woman can tell you stories of having a man that listens to her, building up her ideas & making her feel 10 feet tall. Be this man.

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Key Barrett, MSc (He/Him)

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If you are in an FLR please retweet for visibility so you can help other people find the partner of their dreams like you have.

@KeyBarrettMSc

Key Barrett, MSc (He/Him)

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For all the honest male followers of me who CRAVE an #FLR (and there are so many of you), trust me when I say THIS is your resource. I am not paid for this endorsement in any way, I just know what Venus has created really works!

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Key Barrett, MSc (He/Him)

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Sex is oral, finger play, intense cuddling, chastity, toys, nipple play, kissing, massage, & yes even penetration. The best thing you can do in a relationship is define sex as broadly as possible. have your sex, not someone else's tightly defined version.

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Yes! Yes! Yes! We must break the silence about female pleasure

Doctors made me feel silly and men offered to fix my vaginal woe. But speaking up about sexual dysfunction has given me back the voice I had lost in bed

www.theguardian.com

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Key Barrett, MSc (He/Him)

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#Chastity quote: "What does her being your keyholder mean? No cheating. She can keep U locked for the entire 2 weeks, or she could let U out after a few days. She can tease U, she can ignore it. She tells U when U wear it and when U don't. Don’t be selfish. It’s about her."

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Key Barrett, MSc (He/Him)

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Hi twitter family! I am thinking of submitting my #erotica novel "The Hirondelle" to @passionflix . But it would help a lot of they saw how much y'all wanted to see Robert and Alix's BDSM love story on the silver screen by retweeting!

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The Hirondelle: An Erotic Tale of Surrender

The Hirondelle: An Erotic Tale of Surrender

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Key Barrett, MSc (He/Him)

5 years

Friday #chastity funny. Retweet it, copy it, outright steal it. 😂 #TryItHerWay

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Key Barrett, MSc (He/Him)

5 years

As we approach the new year, an important #FLR mantra: The goal of an FLR is not to please her at all times. It's for you both to have the most rich, rewarding and healthy relationship TOGETHER. It's how you two work best as a team.

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Key Barrett, MSc (He/Him)

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Monday #FLR mantra: True submissive thought is putting her needs first. It's hard to do w/o filtering it through your own wants first. So here's a trick: Start with the things you KNOW she wants done and do them first. That will quiet your filter and start that positive loop.

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Key Barrett, MSc (He/Him)

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I will follow anyone I believe is genuine. Be genuine! Want folks to follow you? Follow these rules: If your handle is mike6472848482, change to a meaningful handle. If you have no profile pic, add one. It can be anything. Tweet! Gimme proof of life! Keep follow ratio close.

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Key Barrett, MSc (He/Him)

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Hi folx, I'm back after an absence. I'm happy to be back here, enjoying the cheer and goodwill you send. I was gone for nearly a month and I feel like I owe you an explanation. First off, I am fine, my family is fine, everything is as normal as can be. 1/

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Very well said.

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Key Barrett, MSc (He/Him)

6 years

Aspects of #FLR may manifest in the bedroom, but at its core, it’s not a sex thing, it’s a relationship thing. It's about putting her first, not your sexual desire for submission. By all means, let it spice up your desire, but remember, submission is service to another.

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Key Barrett, MSc (He/Him)

6 years

Today's #FLR Mantra: When you agree to do something for your leader, you are agreeing to do it 'Her way'. The goal isn't just to accomplish a task, but to do so in a way that relaxes her most. She doesn't have to do it, or think about how it's done. That's true submissive love.

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Key Barrett, MSc (He/Him)

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Ooh, I'm almost at 7,000 followers. I take pride that I've talked with/interacted with so many of you! Lots of folks interested in #FLR , #chastity and fun #femdom erotica!

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Key Barrett, MSc (He/Him)

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Long Thread. To hopeful or curious submissive men I want to tell you that it is okay to want to try #chastity , to try worship, to desire #FLR , #BDSM , gender play, #cuckolding , etc. It is okay to have these feelings. You may have overwhelming fear... 1/8

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Key Barrett, MSc (He/Him)

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Tuesday #FLR mantra: S s s ┏┓ ┃┃╱╲ in ┃╱╱╲╲ this ╱╱╭╮╲╲ house ▔▏┗┛▕▔ we win ╱▔▔▔▔▔▔▔▔▔▔╲ when SHE wins. ╱╱┏┳┓╭╮┏┳┓ ╲╲ ▔▏┗┻┛┃┃┗┻┛▕▔ Loving men know her victories are our victories.

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Key Barrett, MSc (He/Him)

5 years

Remember, sex has more to do with mental satisfaction than physical penetration. If what you do leaves you and your partner sexually and emotionally satisfied, then that's sex! Don't worry about meeting some pre-defined and proscriptive notion of what sex shoud be.

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Key Barrett, MSc (He/Him)

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Politics aside, the concept of female leadership in the United States has been validated by the idea that a majority of voters have decided that the vice president, the person ready to lead in a moment's notice, is a WOMAN. If you can lead a country, you can lead a household. #FLR

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Key Barrett, MSc (He/Him)

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I should have put this on the cover of my #chastity book!😂 #TryItHerWay

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Key Barrett, MSc (He/Him)

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Dr. Amie Hardwick was murdered last night in her home. She was a smart, sex-positive doctor who helped countless women rediscover their sexual selves and heal from trauma.

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Amie Harwick, Famed Therapist Who Appeared In The Doc ‘Addicted To Sexting,’ Killed In Hollywood...

Los Angeles police say Harwick was assaulted in her home and left to die.

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Key Barrett, MSc (He/Him)

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Today's #FLR mantra: When you begin your first FLR journey, remember, you've only done one type of relationship your whole lives, the kind everybody else modeled for you. It takes time! You both will make mistakes on the way to finding what works for you.

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Key Barrett, MSc (He/Him)

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I love my kids with all my heart but if they fuck up my wife and my attempts to have spontaneous "wow, we are both in the mood" sex one more time tonight, I'm selling them on the black market.

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Key Barrett, MSc (He/Him)

5 years

If I could tell anybody just starting to have interest in a Female-led relationship, it's this image, Knowing this at the start solves half the trip-ups on the way. As always, share this, steal it, use it how you see fit. Retweet. #FLR #FemaleLedRelationships #TryItHerWay

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Key Barrett, MSc (He/Him)

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Monday #FLR mantra: You cannot sneak or trick her into an FLR. If you are seriously considering that option then you don't really want a Female-led relationship, you just think you do. Move your thoughts from your wants to her needs. That's the first step.

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Key Barrett, MSc (He/Him)

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Hooray to this man who allowed his curiously about #chastity lead to a fun addition to he and his partner's life! And hooray for sharing it! 2021 is off to a good start. My life in sex: the man who wears a chastity device

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My life in sex: the man who wears a chastity device

‘Rather than feeling sexually repressed, it’s given me a kind of freedom’

www.theguardian.com

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Key Barrett, MSc (He/Him)

5 years

#locktober day 11! A lot of you should be noticing emotional changes and hopefully enjoying the benefits! If you've been unlocked or are planning it (hello #keyholders ), be aware you will want some aftercare. You can get temporarily depressed after being locked for so long.

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Key Barrett, MSc (He/Him)

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#FLR mantra: If you want a Female-led relationship, you have to really know what it is you want before you can explain it to your partner. Read up, take notes! And then you have to talk about it. You cannot trick your partner into an FLR.

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Key Barrett, MSc (He/Him)

5 years

Even when I get just a taste of what it must be like to be a woman on Twitter, it's exhausting. At least this time it wasn't and unsolicited dick pic. Ladies, you have my ever-lasting sympathy.

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@KeyBarrettMSc

Key Barrett, MSc (He/Him)

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Another #FLR mantra in line with the last one: Putting her needs first doesn't make you weak, it makes you considerate. It doesn't make you a slave, it makes you compassionate. It doesn't diminish you, it enriches you both.

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@KeyBarrettMSc

Key Barrett, MSc (He/Him)

5 years

I follow some great NSFW folks. (NSFW!!) Adult Stars: @ninaland THE Nina Hartley! @MistressTdotnet read her book! @C_Sapphire_SW In charge of her career Fun Fin/femdom: @SpoiltprincessG @DommeTomorrow @Mistress_DJ @NYCCollectiveof Real FLR: @MissChloeAmor @Oh_My_Divinity

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@KeyBarrettMSc

Key Barrett, MSc (He/Him)

5 years

Let's take a moment to talk about the importance of empathy. Caring dominants have it, and supportive subs are full of it. Some would say so much it hurts. But empathy is so important. It allows us to do more than understand someone else's plight. 1/

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@KeyBarrettMSc

Key Barrett, MSc (He/Him)

3 years

As we say goodbye to 2020 (a year most of us are happy to see gone), we are not foolish enough to expect anything from 2021. But I do wish for all of you a better year. I hope you any your friends and family stay happy and healthy. Thanks to you ALL for helping me get to 2021!

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Key Barrett, MSc (He/Him)

6 years

One of the great strengths of a caring D/s relationship is the ability of the Dom/me to use their power to help affect real positive change in their sub's life. @rubysStrawberry puts it so succinctly.

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@KeyBarrettMSc

Key Barrett, MSc (He/Him)

2 years

Hi everybody! Set your reminders, I'm gonna do #sextalktuesday in a few days and I am going to ask y'all all about what #FLR means to you! Can't wait. Now here's a gif of Natalie Dormer to get you by until then!

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@KeyBarrettMSc

Key Barrett, MSc (He/Him)

4 years

What a fantastic article on #cuckolding by @girlonthenet ! From mentioning the works of @DrDavidLey and @JustinLehmiller to walking through beginner communication and baby steps, to the joy of compersion, it's so well done and compassionate.

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The Men Who Like To Watch Their Partner Sleep With Someone Else

A guide to 'cuckolding', a taboo fetish very much on the rise

www.esquire.com

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@KeyBarrettMSc

Key Barrett, MSc (He/Him)

5 years

🌟🌟🌟🌟🌟 - "This is the best book of information for FEMALE LED RELATIONSHIPS. A must read for all..." #FLR #TryItHerWay

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@KeyBarrettMSc

Key Barrett, MSc (He/Him)

5 years

I suspect most of my Twitterers know all of these already but why not share some #cunnilingus positions?

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10 Cunnilingus Positions You & Your Partner Will Totally Fall in Love With

You'll totally want to add these to your bedroom repertoire.

www.sheknows.com

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@KeyBarrettMSc

Key Barrett, MSc (He/Him)

4 years

I'd like to talk about the connection between masturbation and #chastity . In this case the 'enforced male chastity', IE: wearing a cage. It's a bit of a thorny subject, wrought with historical entanglements, but nonetheless important to distinguish. so please bear with me. 1/

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@KeyBarrettMSc

Key Barrett, MSc (He/Him)

6 years

Interesting article in Cosmo(!) about #cuckolding . Pretty straightforward and non-judgmental. What I like about the pull quotes from the men is the way they speak. They put the wife's needs first. Their enjoyment is derived from her enjoyment and freedom.

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The men who get off on watching their wives have sex with other people

Cuckolding is form of consensual non-monogamy, and these guys find it hot AF.

www.cosmopolitan.com

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@KeyBarrettMSc

Key Barrett, MSc (He/Him)

5 years

Seems a good time to say this: Couples exploring male #chastity are engaging in healthy sexual and emotional exploration. Millions of couples wish for the kind of playful sexual expression and healthy emotional investment in intimacy that the keyholder/locked dynamic can bring.

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@KeyBarrettMSc

Key Barrett, MSc (He/Him)

5 years

My article on the benefits of trying sex with no thought of your own orgasm is up on @DirkHooper 's site!

@DommeLinx

DommeLinx by Dirk Hooper

5 years

New! How to Have Sex Without Thinking of Your Own Orgasm (And Why You Should Try It) by Key Barrett Click Here to Read: @KeyBarrettMSc @DirkHooper #FemDom #FLR #DommeLinx Please share!

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@KeyBarrettMSc

Key Barrett, MSc (He/Him)

3 years

Wednesday #chastity Mantra: Anyone can get out of most chastity devices. The point to being in a #keyholder relationship is the commitment to your partner to stay locked up and to rework your self-focused sexual frustration into partner-focused caring attention and devotion.

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@KeyBarrettMSc

Key Barrett, MSc (He/Him)

6 years

Wednesday #FLR mantra: If you want to tell your wife your desire for an FLR: Be honest Focus on her (what makes her a great leader) Explain your desires Show it's HER leadership you crave (not just women) FLR is a spectrum (start off small!) and do your research!

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@KeyBarrettMSc

Key Barrett, MSc (He/Him)

6 years

Thursday #FLR mantra: Make time in your day for one devotional act. Rub her feet, snuggle her tight, show her you love her and everything about her. Establish this comes with no strings attached. Allow her to enjoy the sensual without the expectation and pressure of the sexual.

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@KeyBarrettMSc

Key Barrett, MSc (He/Him)

6 years

Female led relationships aren't for everyone. Some men aren't natural supporters and some women aren't natural leaders. But if U are threatened by the idea of an #FLR , you're saying men are leaders simply by being men. That's sexist thinking. U can fix that w/o being in an FLR.

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@KeyBarrettMSc

Key Barrett, MSc (He/Him)

5 years

💯! Kink allows partners to be truly vulnerable with each other. That is a magical thing and only comes through trust and intimacy.

@KinkAcademy

Kink Academy

5 years

The romance of #kink is in the trust and intimacy...and the creativity & connection. #kinktip

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Key Barrett, MSc (He/Him)

6 years

A great article about what it really means to be a 'slave' and how to get there by @_mistress_ava . Happy to have my book included in the resources list. #FLR #DesireintoDiscourse

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