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21+ NSFW: HOLE HERO | Artist | STEM | PHD Student | Geosciences + GIS | Cartographer | Anthropologist / Social Scientist | Linguistics |

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@KatHeartwell
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Many people won’t hear your boundaries Until you are rude about your boundaries. Then when you are rude they will ask you to say them nicer. No. Because clearly they did not respond well to your kindness.
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@KatHeartwell
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Stop commenting on people’s weight in the first place.
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@KatHeartwell
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Y’all think because y’all not punching women and calling them b*tches means you aren’t a misogynist.
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@KatHeartwell
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Lmfaooo white men are so committed to racism that they will stab themselves
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White dude who claimed a Black guy stabbed him because of his haircut admits that he lied and stabbed himself
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@KatHeartwell
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Lots of women in prisons are there for fighting back. Please stop telling women to fight back as if women aren’t doing that. The system is designed against black women. Especially dark skin women. Especially trans women.
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@KatHeartwell
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This is why sexual violence within families never get addressed. This is why uncles, brothers, fathers never get caught.
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@KatHeartwell
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Y’all know why white peoole like this use the police as if the police are their personal assistants? Because the police are their assistants.
@Oseguera2020
Hector Oseguera, Esq.
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We need to make White Caller Crime a federal offense.
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@KatHeartwell
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So many parents don’t help their kids. They just micromanage and abuse financially. They tell you that you need to do better but won’t help you do better.
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@KatHeartwell
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Man moans are like your hype man. Encouraging you to go hard. Moan my name and you’ll summon a demon.
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@KatHeartwell
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PSA: if you know a man has harmed other women and you still allow him in your space and other women’s spaces??? You are enabling him and helping him feel safe. Which puts other women at harm.
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@KatHeartwell
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A LOT of people aren’t really nice. It’s conditioned niceness they are showing. People will use niceness to manipulate others into giving them what they want. People will weaponize others desire to receive niceness. Do NOT think that someone is a good person because they’re nice.
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@KatHeartwell
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Normalize not expecting forgiveness just because you apologized.
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@KatHeartwell
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“Just leave your abusive situation “ leave and go where? Many abusers know their victims don’t have places to go. So ima need y’all to stop telling people yo just leave as if they don’t wanna leave. Create spaces for victims to go since y’all wanna keep saying to leave.
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@KatHeartwell
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Someone look skinner? Mind your business. Someone looks bigger? Mind your business. No one needs you micromanaging their weight. Be silent.
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@KatHeartwell
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@kremedelakitty_ All for the approval of men... like men are ugly so like why
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@KatHeartwell
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This happens too often. Men are conditioned to be violent when they don’t get their way. Too many women are dying at the hands of men.
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Julia Martin was brutally stabbed to death by her ex while attempting to return his engagement ring:
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@KatHeartwell
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This is a form of ableism. Mentally ill people do not choose to be racist. Racist choose to be racist.
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@KatHeartwell
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We don’t talk about abuse within friendships enough. A lot of people are being abused within their friends. Remember that abuse isn’t always physical. A lot of people are being/ have been emotionally abused by a friend.
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@KatHeartwell
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Women aren't picking the wrong men. Lots of y'all men are manipulative and show your true colors when you can't get what you want.
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@KatHeartwell
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I find myself pushing people away when my mental health gets bad. I get irritated + impulsive so I push people away so I don't hurt them too
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@KatHeartwell
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Y’all really be dating, fuckin and even MARRYING misogynist and ignore their misogynistic ways because they aren’t doing it to you.
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@KatHeartwell
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" she can't take Dick ".Pounding your dick against a woman's cervix doesn't mean she can't take Dick. It means you can't fuck play boy .
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@KatHeartwell
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Of course a man who couldn’t get either of these women is trying to compare two women who aren’t competing with each other.
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@KatHeartwell
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It’s a lot of covert narcissist who are in the healing / spiritual/ religious/ helping community.
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@KatHeartwell
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Listen: if someone is giving you clear directions on how you are hurting them and you don’t change/move different so you won’t hurt them? Do not act so shocked when they change how they are towards you!! You should’ve changed your behavior FIRST.
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@KatHeartwell
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Y’all never want women to bring up abuse. It doesn’t matter if someone’s dead or alive.
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@KatHeartwell
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I love men who are emotionally expressive + emotionally intelligent. I love men who don't expect you to do all of the emotional labor.
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@KatHeartwell
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Violence against women isn’t only done with your hands.
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@KatHeartwell
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People Often confuse SELF respect with how they respect that person . Someone SELF respect has NOTHING to do with you .
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@KatHeartwell
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Being black and a POC are TWO different things . Our struggle is common but we are NOT the same.
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@KatHeartwell
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Lots of us didn’t get to be ourselves for most of our lives because of fear. Because of our parents projections? We ended up rejecting ourselves too. Here is to healing and feeling better. We deserve it.
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@KatHeartwell
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Emotionally expressive men are sexy as fuck. Pushing your ego aside to be vulnerable is sexy as fuck.
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@KatHeartwell
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Correct men. Don't protect their egos. Correct his homophobia. Correct his misogyny. Correct his racism. Correct his oppressive norms.
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@KatHeartwell
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Stop telling people they don't respect theirselves when really YOU don't respect who they are. It has nothing to do with THEIR self-respect.
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@KatHeartwell
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I learned that I will only change what I choose to bring up in therapy. Someone can go to therapy for years and never confront their own behavior. It all depends on what you choose to bring up!
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Can we start speaking about therapy honestly? You will still have problems after therapy.
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@KatHeartwell
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The way y’all talk about women is misogynistic. The way y’all talk TO women is misogynistic. The things y’all expect from women? Is misogynistic.
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@KatHeartwell
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Keep Dominican Republic, Haiti, Puerto Rico, Cuba etc in your thoughts by sending them money and aid. They need that more than prayers.
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@KatHeartwell
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Moan my name and you'll bring a demon out of me. Play with something SAFE. I'll fuck your whole body.
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@KatHeartwell
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People don’t talk about how hard it is to get away from abusers. How much emotional and mental strength you have to gain before leaving. How abusers break you down mentally so you feel uncomfortable leaving.
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@KatHeartwell
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Homophobic men are so obsessed with gay men . It's so weird .
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@KatHeartwell
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Y'all find a distant black relative in your family and suddenly you know what black pain feels like.
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@KatHeartwell
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Ima say this. Showing up at a protest doesn’t mean you are doing the work.
Also....why do we keep acting the social media activism is a bad thing?
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@KatHeartwell
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Men who are emotionally intelligent are sexy. Saying how you feel / putting your ego aside to express your feelings is sexy.
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@KatHeartwell
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This page does NOT support respectability politics. Go somewhere else.
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@KatHeartwell
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Just because a person sexually open doesn't mean they're sexually available to your sexual advances.
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@KatHeartwell
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Hey. What others say about you after you removed them from your life? Is none of your business. People will say whatever version of what happened to make themselves feel better. Focus on people who are in your life.
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@KatHeartwell
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White people: * creates the social construct of race * Also white people : " why bring race into it "
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@KatHeartwell
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Do NOT date men who up hold oppressive norms. Don't date a homophobic man. Don't date a sexist man. Don't date a misogynistic man Let him go
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@KatHeartwell
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I do not wish bad on people who harmed me. I do not wish good on people who have harmed me. I simply place my energy to things and people who matter to me.
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@KatHeartwell
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The problem isn’t black kids being in single parent homes. The problem is bad parenting. Lack of resources. Systematic racism. Poverty. The list goes on. Marriage isn’t gonna save black kids. Better resources and help will HELP.
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@KatHeartwell
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I can be as sexual as I want. Do not sexually harass me or sexually assault me simply because you find me sexy.
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@KatHeartwell
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You can't unsuck his dick but you can suck another dick better . Be blessed this year .
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@KatHeartwell
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Black teachers are so important!!!!
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Rapped a map version of #BodakYellow for my babies today.
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@KatHeartwell
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Girl " dark as tree bark " , " Afro " , " nappy hair" , " why isn't my skin lighter " girlllll
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@KatHeartwell
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DO NOT ALLOW PEOPLE TO ASSUME YOUR BOUNDARIES. Do not ASSUME people will know how to treat you. And don’t allow people to treat you how they wanna be treated. SET THE STANDARD THAT THEY HAVE TO TREAT YOU HOW YOU WANNA BE TREAT. Not how they wanna be treated.
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@KatHeartwell
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She went from wouldn't talk to you before to most DEF wouldn't talk to you now .
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@KatHeartwell
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Straight men will hit on LESBIANS WHO LIKE WOMEN but will SCREAM WHEN A GAY MAN HITS ON THEM.
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@KatHeartwell
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The problem is that people think marriage or two parents in a house hold will save kids. No. If your Parents don’t listen to you? If your parents ignore your needs? If your parents are abusers? You will be messed up. Happy marriage or not? It’s still based on PARENTING.
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@KatHeartwell
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Y’all letting the creators of money tell you that they ran out of money to give small businesses? Lol capitalism is a joke.
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@KatHeartwell
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White people are NOT the only anti black people POC are too. Which is why it's important to not mesh black struggles as POC struggles .
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@KatHeartwell
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Please don’t count on misogynistic men to know that they are. They will dismiss your claims because it’s not their experience. They will project and deflect.
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@KatHeartwell
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Fuck Bill Cosby. And fuck all you rape apologist.
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@KatHeartwell
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People assume that their kids don’t have boundaries or needs because they are kids. And lots of adults don’t teach their kids boundaries. Why? Because many parents wanna cross their kids boundaries. So they don’t help their kids create boundaries.
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@KatHeartwell
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Y'all will pretend to like , pretend to care , do the MOST just for pussy. Then get mad when you don't get it. Stop manipulating women.
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@KatHeartwell
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Don't suck dick for him . Suck his dick for YOU. Suck dick because you enjoy it . Enjoy yourself and he will enjoy you . Put you first .
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@KatHeartwell
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My experience with cobanermani456 Read:
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