I find solace in sunbeams, fresh air, and the beauty of the world around me. Living life with gratitude, curiosity, and love. Simplicity enthusiast ๐ซ
When I like someone, I instantly start going too hard. I am too available, too giving, too loyal, too thoughtful, too reliable. I need to calm down & only be what someone is to me. That's my problem; I always love how I want to be loved hoping it gets reciprocated.
Life changes. You lose love. You lose friends. You lose pieces of yourself that you never imagined would be gone. And then, without you even realizing it, these pieces come back. New love enters. Better friends come along. No matter how bad it gets, better days are always coming.
One day at a time, little by little, you will get to where you are meant to go. Sometimes you do not realize how far you have come until you take a look back and realize how much you have grown, how different you are. Remind yourself of where you were a year ago, even a month
If you can be upset with your self, if you can be mad at your self, then why canโt you celebrate your self? I mean the least you can do is be proud of your self and be proud of who you are.
Itโs actually not true. Perfectionism is very damaging. Perfectionism puts us in a constant state of judgment; always trying to be good enough while believing that we are not, always trying to feel ok about ourselves while believing we are wrong.
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#ActuallyAutistic
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It's easy to judge.
It's more difficult to understand.
Understanding requires compassion, patience, and a willingness to believe that good hearts sometimes choose poor methods.
Through judging, we separate.
Through understanding, we grow.
Dreams without goals are just dreams, and ultimately they fuel disappointments. On the road, to achieving your dreams you must apply discipline, but more importantly consistency because without commitment you'll never start. But without consistency you'll never finish.
if our friends made fun of the things we did, we may have bought into the idea that perfection is what is required.
People often think that striving for perfection is beneficial โ that it somehow makes you better.
No matter what happens, life ain't over. As long as God wakes you up, that means he ain't through with you yet. When God wakes you up, he has something for you that you haven't received. Every day you have the opportunity to make something happen.
The biggest lesson I learned this year is to not force anything; conversations, friendships, relationships, attention, love. Anything forced is just not worth fighting for, whatever flows flows, what crashes crashes. It is what it is.