What if we stopped celebrating being busy as a measurement of importance? What if instead we celebrated how much time we had spent listening, pondering, meditating, and enjoying time with the most important people in our lives?
What if we stopped celebrating being busy as a measurement of importance?
What if instead, we celebrated how much time we had spent listening, pondering, meditating, and enjoying time with the most important people in our lives?
What if we stopped celebrating being busy as a measurement of importance? What if instead we celebrated how much time we had spent listening, pondering, meditating, and enjoying time with the most important people in our lives?
What if we stopped celebrating being busy as a measurement of importance? What if instead we celebrated how much time we had spent listening, pondering, meditating, and enjoying time with the most important people in our lives?
We had The Great Depression.
Then The Great Recession.
I hope this will be The Great Reset. With so many activities being stripped away, perhaps never before have so many people been required to ask: "What's essential now?"
A book is surely among the best investments of any on earth.
For a few dollars, you gain access to what the smartest people have already figured out.
Reading, reading to really understand, is high-leverage by any estimate.
I have two weeks left to finish my next book.
I am writing it for:
Successful people who can't work any harder.
Movers and shakers who want to contribute more but are running out of energy.
People who want to break through to the next level w/o burning out.
Saying no to nonessential travel gives you the freedom to recurperate.
Saying no to nonessential purchases gives you the freedom to invest.
Saying no to nonessential meetings gives you the freedom to think.
What if we stopped celebrating being busy every second as a measurement of importance? What if instead we celebrated each moment spent stopping, pausing, breathing, listening, being, and enjoying the present with the most important people in our lives?
Routine is one of the most powerful tools for removing obstacles. Without routine, the pull of nonessential distractions will overpower us. But if we create a routine that enshrines the essentials, we will begin to execute them on autopilot.
Thinking about creating online Essentialism class.
For high achievers who have "run out of space."
Gives actionable advice for becoming more Essentialist.
Feels like, "I can do this."
Question: Do you want it?
What if we stopped celebrating being busy as a measurement of importance? What if instead we celebrated how much time we had spent listening, pondering, meditating, and enjoying time with the most important people in our lives?
I have never seen more people asking the question: What's essential now?
Layer after layer of nonessentials is being stripped away.
Things we thought we "had to do" or "we can't live without" don't even matter.
In all times, this is the right question to ask.
By all means, hunker down at home. Stay safe. Stay well.
But this isn't the time to hunker down mentally and hope for the status quo to return.
The status quo is being attacked. So this is the time to innovate. To create. To reinvent.
If you want to see how to apply essentialism in an end to end way, listen to this conversation I had with
@tferriss
. We threw out the traditional interview 20 minutes in and I think the process may be helpful to you as well.
Be careful about being "productive" all the time.
We aren't living in a coal mine. It's a diamond mine.
Only a few things really matter. But they matter a lot.
I have sat in meetings where there was so much jargon that I had no idea what anyone really meant.
Communication isn’t about using lots of buzz words: it’s about clarity.
In times of struggle and stress, in the hard times: reduce your time horizon. Don't worry about the next year or month. Don't fret about the next week or day if it's too much. Perhaps take on this present moment and what immediately follows. You will be happier.
The world is going to close for a month or two.
I feel for the many, many people who will be affected negatively.
I also feel thankful for the opportunity and possibilities this provides us if we look at it through the right lens.
The word priority came into the English language in the 1400s. It was singular. It meant the very first or prior thing. It stayed singular for the next five hundred years. Only in the 1900s did we pluralize the term and start talking about priorities.
Does your brain ever feel like it has too many tabs open?
Get everything out of your head: write EVERYTHING down. It will take a few hours but once you are done you will be in a new place mentally.
You will have space to think again.
When you can’t see things clearly, when you are feeling crazy, remember you’re not broken: most of the time you just need a warm shower, a good meal and a full night’s rest.
Do not give up. Go slowly, fine. Make only a little progress, no problem. But keep going: tiny step by tiny step. You will win when others fail. This is the power of the disciplined pursuit.
If you are depressed you are living in the past. If you are anxious you are living in the future. If you are at peace you are living in the present.
Lao Tzu
I struggle sometimes with FOMO when I see other people achieving amazing things. But increasingly I feel joy for them and joy in the different path I am on. I feel peace in choosing a different life.
You are under no obligation to do what everyone else is doing. You have a responsibility, instead, to find your essential task and pursue that in a disciplined way.
New year and a new book!
New book means a new cover.
Vote for your favorite: A or B.
(Also... Make it easier to do what matters by taking the 21-Day Essentialism Challenge here: )
Listening is not silence.
Listening is not passive.
Listening is the most active, dynamic, intense and rewarding form of communication that exists: it opens the whole world to you.
In times of struggle and stress, in the hard times: reduce your time horizon. Don't worry about the next year or month. Don't fret about the next week or day if it's too much. Take on this present moment and focus on what you can do right now that’s essential. You will be happier
I am thankful for a growing awareness that not everything has to be so hard. That success doesn't have to feel like exhaustion. That progress doesn't have to be at the detriment of mental and physical health.
#givethanks
for every day you don't overdo it.
I am thankful for the God-given ability to discern what matters from what doesn't. What would life be without the ability to prioritize? The light within is a most extraordinary gift. It lives within every one of us. How endlessly grateful I am for this.
#givethanks
Relationships are the most essential part of life.
Communication is the most essential part of relationships.
Listening is the most essential part of communication.
Saying no to nonessential meetings gives you the freedom to think.
Saying no to nonessential email gives you the freedom to connect.
Saying no to nonessential social media gives you the freedom to read.
What you want is progress over perfection.
Instead of trying to write the great American novel, write words on a page.
As Margaret Atwood said, "A word after a word after a word is power."
To eliminate nonessentials means saying no to someone. Often. It means pushing against social expectations. So eliminating the nonessentials isn’t just about mental discipline. It’s about the emotional discipline necessary to say no to social pressure.
#essentialism
In times of struggle and stress, in the hard times: reduce your time horizon. Don't worry about the next year or month. Don't fret about the next week or day if it's too much. Perhaps take on this present moment and what immediately follows. You will be happier.
For too long I worry that I have used this platform for dry/safe content for becoming an
#Essentialist
. Going forward I will be more open with my struggles with living this myself. The wins and fails.