How many of my followers are experienced escort clients? What's your best piece of advice for new starters?
I feel like new clients flounder sometimes because they can't ask for advice. So here's your chance to pass on your hard-earned experience. What are your best tips?
I had a lot of fun writing this one - including not only the obvious stuff that new clients need, but also a few ideas that even you more experienced folk may not have considered. I hope it's useful!
@WeAreTryst
@TrystAus
A lot of people think the sex industry is 'dodgy' but it's not. We're all trying to run legit businesses, but we're continually getting slapped with weird regulations, being rejected by banks, being judged by our business peers...
We lost someone irreplaceable this week. If you're a fan of the Aus SW community or a peer with some $$ to spare, please consider donating to Bella's funeral fund so that the people who love her can give her the send-off she deserves.
PSA: Internet censorship means you're probably not getting access to some of the world's top sex pros - and you're missing out on some serious sex-ed. Please comment below with your fave sex workers, writers, and educators so we can all stay in touch!
#banSESTAFOSTA
#Censorship
For the first time last night, I got to meet a client's wife! And she is an absolute legend. I guess this is what 'kitchen table ENM with your sex worker' looks like? 😍
Mrs. Koala and I shared a lovely social dinner with
@GeorgieWolf
last night.
It was a big step for my partner and one fraught with potential pitfalls.
Stories made manifest can spike strong emotions, but ultimately just led to the two of them getting along swimmingly.
Well, this is a bit exciting. Totally psyched to be given a bit of space in
@DailyLifeAu
- all in the name of a good cause! Cos let's face it, the 'P-word' sucks.
#sexworkiswork
I'm going on a date tomorrow, and realised that, thanks to the pandemic, I literally have *no* street appropriate clothes that look sexy - just tracksuit pants and tights. So I bought this. 🍀 it's my first post-lockdown fashion purchase!
Goal for today: get to 8000 followers so I can use it as leverage for my pitch to a literary agent. Help me out folks, popularity is everything (at least on here, anyway).
#popularitycontest
#peerpressure
Seeing escorts is awesome, but there isn't much info on how to go about it. I'm creating an online course that gives you everything you need to know for confidence, fun and amazing escort adventures. VIP pre-sale package includes one-on-one coaching!
Whenever someone says 'dressed like a pr*stitute' it's usually pretty clear they don't know what a sex worker actually looks like. Or, as I like to say, 'We walk among you...'
This is Nik. Apparently he is “big”. His bio is filled with religious rap and misogyny. He has over 300K followers. The world is screwed. Don’t be like Nik.
Look what just arrived from the merch stand of
@SomebodyYouPod
! Lovingly hand-printed, and the perfect cut to show off my assets, while also terrifying the elderly. I can't wait to wear it to the mall. ❤️❤️❤️
What better way to celebrate Spring than a dress with birds on it, a beautiful hand-made gift from a client, and absolutely no brassiere.
#melbourne
#spring
#dress
#commando
Here's a guide to texting escorts that I put together a couple of weeks ago. Arranging a booking via text is easy to get wrong, and no sex worker wants 'Hey, U avail?' So let's look at some better options.
Hey folks! In the name of
#sexeducation
, I need your help.
I just released 'The Art of the Hook-Up' - a guide to ethical sex, using skills I've learned as a
#sexworker
.
Please share! This is for everyone. And (this week at least) it's super affordable.
I'm getting my website together, including 5+ years worth of photoshoots for my gallery...and OMG, I have so many favourite pics from old shoots to post to Twitter now....
Today is International Sex Workers Day! Take some time over your morning coffee to think about the benefits your sexy workers have brought to your life 😉❤ Sex work is a legit job, and a totally legit aspect of a functioning society. 🙌
@ScarletBlue9
@SWOPnsw
@AdultMatchMaker
I'm happy to report that a lovely client booked me specifically because of my new photos...we met yesterday and he wanted to spend two hours talking and drinking prosecco 😊 so I think my fears of being 'too sexy' were probably misguided.
#nosuchthingastoosexy
Free download - 'How to Have the Best Escort Date of Your Life.'
I wrote this little book to give clients some awesome skills to connect with their dates. I think having some ideas makes everything much less stressful!
Omgomgomggggg can you believe it?! They say 'you should never meet your heroes' but
@jennahasredhair
is every bit as awesome in person as she is online (and then some).
Thanks so much Mr S for making this happen!
I haven't posted any gym selfies in a while, but I just got some new pants and I'm very happy with them. So without further ado, I'd like to introduce: My butt.
It's giveaway time! Who wants a signed copy of my ethical sex and dating book The Art of the Hook Up?
During my spring clean, I found this test copy - same content, different cover. RT and I'll pick a winner at random on the 1st of Jan.
(Open to anyone 🇦🇺🇺🇲🇲🇫🇮🇳🇨🇮🇬🇧🇯🇵)
Ever had a threesome? If not, why not?
It's a huge fantasy for many...I've also met lots of blokes who prefer one person at a time. Or who think it would be too stressful.
Curious to know how you feel - I'm a three-way FANATIC but I guess we all have our own preferences?
I've achieved peak dessert. Big thanks to the gentleman who allowed me to add this to the bill, then admitted he didn't actually like white chocolate, necessitating that I eat most of it ❤️😁
I'm actually really proud of this article for
@WeAreTryst
. When I started
#SW
, I had a problem with people who were
#cheating
on their partners. Turns out, there's often much more to the story, and I've learned that it's not always my place to judge...
I've felt a bit down about working from home for two weeks straight. But today the sun was out and I got to lie on the balcony in my bikini, thus alarming the new neighbours...1/2
This was my
#rainyday
adventure yesterday - I decided to re-shoot my writer's headshot. Reckon this is appropriately friendly/thoughtful/approachasble?
I was talking with a reg today who reminded me about my previous alter ego, back when I first started SW...and look, I still have a few pics online, a decade later!
I've just started life drawing classes and I'm not Da Vinci, but it's a lot of fun 🎨🖌️ Would anyone like to be my practice material? Post a favourite pic of yourself in the comments and I'll have a go! (No promises as to the quality of the result 😜)
Vote wisely today, folks! Here's a little reminder that the Liberals really don't like:
- sex work
- free speech online
- data privacy
If you enjoy intimate relations with hot people you meet on the Internet, don't jeapordise that. Vote the bastards out.
This week's video: when it comes to having a great escort session, it's not about being perfect. It's just about the effort you put in.
1) Treat us like professionals
2) If you try, we DO appreciate it
3) You don't have to know everything
❤️
#howto
#winning
#relax
Hey punters, what's the most awkward part of an escort date for you?
I know a lot of clients feel awkward when they pay, or when it's time to say goodbye. But my absolute faves are the guys who look all shy when they say 'I'd love to kiss you...' (It's the best!)
I'm intrigued by the idea of providing a REAL GIRLFRIEND EXPERIENCE ... as in, I turn up in jeans and a t-shirt, we go watch a movie or do a workout or hang out at a cafe or something ... no makeup, no bullshit ... is it even marketable? Or do we all want our ladies in lingerie?
This might be controversial, because I KNOW some escorts check in with their clients - in fact, there are a few regs I've been checking in with this year too.
But if you know your escort is struggling, I think a good general rule is to offer help, not conversation. Thoughts?
"If there’s a special sex worker in your life, you may not have seen them in a while. If they’re not online much or aren’t replying to your emails, you probably feel worried."
@artofthehookup
guides us through keeping in touch in 2020
Here's a blog for any SW who has ever had a friend say something hurtful or dumb about their work. You shouldn't have to use up all your emotional energy justifying yourself...please give them this!
@WeAreTryst
I've been on holiday for the past two weeks, which may explain my lack of response if any of you have tried to send me a text message. If you're waiting on a reply from me, you have one more week to go...but in the meantime, here's a bikini selfie 😉