Iβm just me! Sarcastic as fuck, I donβt take life too seriously, Xbox, movies, books, self proclaimed geek/nerd, a bit eccentric, bonkers and crazy! π€
Allow me to introduce Hope π€π€π€
Both Hope and mummy are doing well. Was a bit traumatic as she got stuck coming out so had to rush to theatre where they managed to get her out with some surgical tongs, hence the mark on her face. Words canβt describe how happy I am right nowβ¦
So, yeah, this happened!!! Obviously itβs still very early days, but sheβs pregnant!!!
I just wanted to say thank you for all your support, kind words, hopes and thoughts. Weβve appreciated them all very much. I know we still have a way to go, the journey isnβt over yet, butβ¦
@Beno_ldn
But, how do you know the old man didnβt reject an offer? Pictures do not equate to context or give a full understanding to the scenario thatβs fling on. Yes the man sitting may not have offered his seat, alternatively though he may have offered the seat. Iβve offered my seat toβ¦
So itβs my 11 year wedding anniversary today!! Like every relationship, weβve had our ups and downs, but through it all weβve stuck by each other and made us stronger! Not gonna lie, she needs some kind of bloody medal to have put up with me for so long π
So, the scan went very well! Here we have a healthy, strong little bean growing nicely with a really strong heartbeat and measuring where it should be right now! Due 16/05/24.
Honestly the elation at knowing everything is as it should be is a massive weight lifted!
It reallyβ¦
Posted this on FB this morning so now everyone knows π you guys should think yourself lucky as you knew before any one else pretty much! Including most my family ππ€
Merry Christmas from our family to yours ππ€π
So this was me at 01:30 this morning after being attacked and thrown to the floor, hurting my shoulder as I went down then was punched in the head multiple times against the concrete floor! I now have a broken collar bone and will have surgery on it in a few days time!
TW//Baby Loss
This song was played at my daughterβs funeral. This is dedicated to all those babies who were born sleeping, who never got to see the light of day, who lived for just a moment. They will be in our hearts always and forever.
#GoneTooSoon
ππππ
(Part one)
So mum took me out for dinner last night and when I rocked up I found my sister (who lives in Dubai and I havenβt seen for about a year) sitting at the table waiting for us! Gotta say, that was the best birthday present!! π€π€
Letβs be real here, men are cunts! Some more so than others yeah, but letβs face it, weβve all been cunts at one point or another in our lives and donβt deny it. None of this, oh Iβm a true perfect gentleman blah blah blah crap!
Now, before you come at me with all that βnotβ¦
Update! Just finished the interview! They offered me the job on the spot and I accepted it! So bloody happy right now and what a way to start the week! Thanks you all for your support and well wishes π€π€π€
Ok! So, got a call from the clinic, our embryo has defrosted absolutely fine!!!!!!!!!!!!! In just over two hours we will be there having it implanted π¬π¬π¬ seriously the nerves are kicking in now!!!!
Well itβs in!!!! All went smoothly. Now just to wait a couple of weeks to do the pregnancy test and fingers crossed it sticks!!! π¬π¬ thank you so much for all your support guys! Youβre truly amazing π€π€ much love to you all π€π€
Ok! So, got a call from the clinic, our embryo has defrosted absolutely fine!!!!!!!!!!!!! In just over two hours we will be there having it implanted π¬π¬π¬ seriously the nerves are kicking in now!!!!
Little update, still at the hospital waiting for baby to come ππ got some contractions but really is just a waiting game. All is good though and thank you for all your well wishes, as always itβs very much appreciated π€π€
Had my Nanβs funeral this morning. My aunt asked me to write something for it. As my Nan didnβt want a vicar or any religious service, I ended up leading the the whole service instead! Iβm sure she would have been proud of me.
Also, hereβs my
#dund
#DressUPnotdown
entry β€οΈβ€οΈβ€οΈ
Iβm bloody exhausted ππ had about three hours kip in the last 48 hours and that was a very broken sleep, not three hours straight. Think I was awake for 40 straight hours before getting a bit of shut eye.
Just wanted to say a massive thank you to you all who took the time toβ¦
Cassie called me upstairs earlier as she could feel baby moving so thought weβd see if I could feel it! After a little while of poking & prodding her belly, pushing my hand down a bit, I felt our little baby kick π₯Ή I never got to feel Faythe kick so this is extra special!! π€π€
Men struggle with life
Men have emotions
Men cry
Men suffer with depression and mental health issues
On average 84 men take their own lives each week
The term βman upβ has no place in this world. Because what is it to man up?
To just get on with it
Get over it...
Today is
#WorldPrematurityDay
My daughter Faythe was born at 24 weeks but sadly passed away two days later π€π€
Sheβll always be my little Warrior Princess π€π€
Happy
#FathersDay
to all those dads out there who never got the chance to see their babies grow up and long to hold them one more time. Even though they cannot be here to celebrate this day, they will always be a part of us and we will always be their daddy! β€οΈβ€οΈβ€οΈ
Makes me laugh when you see, for instance, a woman posting on here that someone called them fat, chubby etc. and you get the men (yes another man bashing post π) replying,
βYouβre not fat babe, youβre beautiful!β
Like, whoa pal, thatβs not the compliment you think it is! Youβ¦
So, the scan went very well! Here we have a healthy, strong little bean growing nicely with a really strong heartbeat and measuring where it should be right now! Due 16/05/24.
Honestly the elation at knowing everything is as it should be is a massive weight lifted!
It reallyβ¦
When my daughter passed away I have several people say βheaven need her moreβ or βGod had other plans for her!β
Theyβre lucky I didnβt turn round and clout them one! Nothing and no one needed my daughter more than my wife and I! Never say this shit to anyone!
I honestly donβt mind seeing tits, cock, minge, whatever on here! It really doesnβt bother me in the slightest! Many of you have fucking awesome bodies and should be proud to show them off however you want! Itβs your timeline, Iβm not going to judge!
However, what I will notβ¦
You never have to justify who you are to others. You are you! Nothing can ever change that. Keep being you. Once you begin to change yourself to please others, you lose your identity! Your uniqueness! If some one truly likes or loves you, they will love you for who you are! β€οΈπ€
TW//Baby Loss
As itβs coming to the end of
#babylossawarenessmonth
I thought Iβd share a poem I wrote just after my daughter passed away. Iβve never read it out loud before but I wanted to share my experience and story. Itβs most definitely the hardest thing Iβve been throughβ¦
Just remember, thereβs someone out there who smiled today because of you. Even if you didnβt realise it, you could have made their day π€π€π€
IβM AN UNCLE!!!!! Woke up to the amazing news my sister has had her baby all safe and sound!! Such amazing news. Although I donβt get to meet her until June as she lives in Dubai! Sheβll be coming home for two weeks then! π€
@asimmo64
@imacelebrity
@BabatundeComedy
I was out in the rain today. Probably stopped and started about three times or so within ten minutes π€·π»ββοΈ thatβs the thing about rain, doesnβt have a time limit. Can rain for one minute or a hundred minutes π€¦π»ββοΈ it can stop & start multiple times in a short space of time or all day!
So, out of curiosity, where are we all from? Would love to know all the different places you hail from.
Iβm from Crawley, West Sussex, south east of England!
Letβs see how far you are from me π€
Friendships are about the connections you make with others. The people who are there for you. The ones who can make you smile and laugh. Who pick you up when you're down.
I may not have met you physically, but the friendships I've made on here are are still 100% real π€π€π€
I might not be around for a bit at the moment. Somethings happened and my head is not in the best of places now!!
Keep smiling you amazing people. Stay safe. Look after each other and remember just how magnificent you are β€οΈπ€β€οΈπ€ much love to you all.
Shoutout to the guys who are having conversations with themselves in a womanβs DM and to those who wish multiple βbeautiful/stunningβ women a good morning/afternoon/evening each and every day even though they never get a like or response! Youβre persistent motherfuckers! ππΌππΌππΌ
Morning campers! So toady is my last day working at my current job before I start my new one tomorrow! Been here for seven years so Iβm sure itβs bound to be an emotional day for me!! Hope you all have a lovely day π€π€π€
#DUND
#DressUPnotdown
@TheofficialDund
Throw back to a few months ago wearing my favourite combination! Shame I donβt have to opportunity to wear it more often ππ
Canβt believe weβre 20 weeks pregnant on Monday!!!!! Itβs going so quick now! Got the 20 week scan next Friday. Halfway through! Still doesnβt seem real! Like Iβm going to wake up and itβs been all a dream π€π€π€
Sticks and stones may break my bones, but words can never hurt me!
BULLSHIT!
We can heal from broken bones. But words can stay with us forever and have serious consequences on ones mental well-being.
Think before you speak
#BeKind
So went for that chat about a potential job last night! Turned into a semi interview with the manager, deputy manger and owner. Been invited back for a more formal interview on Monday! Keeping my fingers crossed π€π» cheers you diamonds
Had my dressing taken off on Wednesday! So nice to get some air to it (and feels weird feeling the plate on my collar bone) ππ they gave me exercises to do to move my arm and after doing it for the first time on Wednesday, yeah, I passed out ππ that was a fun experience!
As a man who suffered in silence, it nearly destroyed me! I was on the verge of giving up & ending it all! Too often men are told to βman upβ which is a term I have no tolerance for
Eventually I spoke up! Got the help I needed, although Iβm not 100% there, Iβm better than I was
TW//baby loss.
I wrote this poem the first Fatherβs Day after my daughter passed away and with it fast approaching, it still pains me that sheβs not here to celebrate it with me. But that doesnβt mean I donβt celebrate. Even though sheβs not here, Iβm still a daddy! β€οΈβ€οΈβ€οΈ
The nursery is all finished! Iβm so happy with how itβs turned out. Took about five days to get it all done and dusted. Was a hard graft but itβs so bloody worth it! All it needs now is a baby π€π€π€
Music: Lovely Piano Song
Musician: Rafael Krux
Site: β¦
So first day back went really well (only done a half day) however, when I got home I received the bad news that my Nan has passed away. Absolutely heartbroken and devastated π she wasnβt ill or anything. Just went to sleep and never woke up.
So next week it would have been my daughters second birthday. My wife received this as a gift for us both from the people she works with!! Itβs sooooo beautiful and such a thoughtful gift to receive β€οΈβ€οΈβ€οΈ
We have a competition at work to turn old cable reels into something the children can use! So I decided to create a Dino World as they love Dinosaurs π¦
#earlyyears
#Creative
#upcycle
This smug bastard Iβd off for nine days now!! Whoop whoop ππΌ time to kick back with a beer and play
#MassEffectLegendaryEdition
happy Friday peeps!!
Iβm currently going through fertility assessment/treatment as weβre struggling to get pregnant!
My daughter passed away at two days old!
Still in this day and age people joke about being pregnant as an April fools!
Donβt be that inconsiderate fool who makes this βjokeβ
@DailyLoud
So, smashing a hole in the wall and painting a picture of Tom and Jerry is all it takes to be βdad of the year?β I mean, youβve set your standards pretty frickin low there ππ Also, there was no need to smash an actual hole in the wall!
Just because you donβt see someone bullying others on here, doesnβt mean theyβre not! Just means theyβre very good at manipulating others and playing themselves off as a victim! Surly, if so many come forward, itβs got to send red flags! I say unto you, donβt be so naive! π€·π»ββοΈ