A tough lesson I learned in life is that no matter how nice you are, how much you do for people, how genuine you try to be... There will always be people who donโt like you.
Donโt change for them. Thereโs nothing wrong with you. They are just not meant to be in your life.
Emotional abuse is scary. The wounds donโt always show and the scars can be long lasting.
Remember:
Your feelings/emotions/wants/needs are valid
Everything is NOT your fault
You are NOT โtoo sensitiveโ or โcrazyโ
You do NOT deserve abuse
This is NOT love
You deserve better
This page will always stay mostly clean. That means tasteful pictures and no straight up nudity. (Maybe the occasional furry trash art.)
If you want nudity, go to my AD:
@TheBaddestRam
Fuck what you heard.
Whether you have a fursuit or not
Whether you can draw or not
Whether you have 1 friend or 1000
Whether you are fit or not
Whether you have money or not
As long as you are a good person
You are a welcomed member of this fandom/community. You matter.
Demisexuality is when you are not sexually attracted to ANYONE until you have an emotional connection.
This is not a choice. We are not waiting to have sex until we are connected with someone because we want to. Rather, it is a necessity for sexual attraction to even exist.
To be a Furry, you donโt have to:
Have a fursuit
Be an artist
Have tons of artwork
Have a massive following
Go to cons
There arenโt many stipulations.
Just be yourself, be a good person, and get out of it what makes you happy.
Covid times were terrible with both the loss of ability to workout and the subsequent long-Covid problems I got from getting it in the early stages - I fell from glory in my own mind.
Now I am thriving.
Just a friendly reminder that Demisexuality is a valid and welcomed part of the LGBT community.
You can expect me to be talking about demisexuality and waving the colors a lot during pride month.
If you dress up with animal ears/tails/etc. for Halloween because of the sex appeal you are a fucking furry now create your fursona... I donโt make the rules.
Stop seeking relationships to โcompleteโ you.
This is incredibly unhealthy. Stop thinking that without someone you are incomplete/broken. You should seek someone who is your equal not someone who is your โcompleter.โ
Donโt expect a relationship to fix the problems in your life.