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Friends who plug you when they hear about an opportunity that would suit you, friends who recommend you, friends who support you, friends who uplift you, friends who are proud of youโฆ those are real friends.๐ซถ๐ผ๐ค
Unfortunately they are not always gonna be brave enough to tell you they are no longer vibing with you sometimes you just have to read the energies and remove yourself from the equation๐ซถ๐พ
...Itโs normal for things not to always go your way. You really donโt have to blame it on witchcraft or your imaginary haters. It happens to all of us.
There is something so beautiful about having long-term friends who have witnessed multiple versions of you and loved you unconditionally through each version.
Life changes. You lose love. You lose friends. You lose pieces of yourself that you never imagined would be gone. And then, without you even realizing it, these pieces come back. New love enters. Better friends come along. No matter how bad it gets, better days are coming.
Normalize not feeling bad for removing yourself from anyone who doesn't feel bad for hurting you. Train your boundaries to be stronger than your soft heart.
As you get older, you realize that you're not always right and there are so many things you could've handled better, so many situations where you could've been kinder, and and all you can do is forgive yourself and let your mistakes make you a better person.
Have you ever looked at someone while they're doing something small like driving, or laughing, or even eating and just smiled because they mean so much to you๐๐คฉ