Pediatrician 👨🏻⚕️ • Chief of Adolescent Med at MassGeneral • Associate Prof at Harvard Med • NIH researcher • Husband & dad of 2 kiddos • 🇨🇦 in 🇺🇸 & 🌈
I tend to keep my personal life off Twitter, but our new daughter was born this week, and I can’t stop beaming and want to share my family with the world. 🌈❤️
"Children need a mother": A common xenophobic statement directed at me & our 2-dad family.
I'm a pediatrician. I know the research. Many kids don't have a mother for a range of reasons & thrive. I have 2 healthy, happy kids.
Stop perpetuating false narratives that hurt kids.
Pediatrician here. Billionaires & politicians should check themselves.
Kids don’t consent to medical care. Parents do.
Decisions are family-centered, with the child/teen providing input & assent, and parents have the final say on nearly all medical decisions.
Woke up this morning feeling proud — to be a dad, a husband, a doc for teens, and a member of the LGBTQ+ community.
Happy Pride Month. 🌈 Sending love to everyone, everywhere.
Two days ago I shared this post. The uglier side of America came out. My family & I got called names, terrible ones.
But you know what? Overwhelmingly, we got support & solidarity.
Love will prevail. ❤️🌈
Addiction doctor here. George Floyd didn't die of an overdose. This isn't how overdoses work.
Occam's razor (the simplest explanation is the most likely): The knee occluding his airway for 10 minutes is what killed him.
#GeorgeFloydIsNotOnTrial
#DerekChauvintrial
Officially an Associate Professor at
@harvardmed
! 👨🏻⚕️ Proud to help grow
#LGBTQ
representation in academic medicine. 🌈
Thanks to our team at
@mghfc
for the amazing care you provide to Boston’s teens & young adults. All we accomplish we do together! ❤️
Seconds ago: Respect for Marriage Act signed into law, codifying same-sex marriage in the US.
Let me share our family with you... One of a million US same-sex households who just want to love & be loved. Celebrating this win for equality, love & family. 🌈
Thinking of Senator Fetterman & the courage it takes to seek mental health treatment when you need it.
It ain't easy, and because of stigma & vitriol in politics, he'll get enormous blowback, but he's a role model for the millions of Americans who struggle with depression. ❤️
Addiction doc here. No one should be banned from competing based on their use of cannabis. No one.
Most cannabis use results in zero harm, and it is not performance enhancing. Drug testing is inexact. Let’s do away with these antiquated—and quite frankly, racist—policies. ✊🏻
Our nurse just filled out a prior authorization that had 61 questions & took 59 minutes to complete
For just one medication—and the patient is already on it & doing well
She could have cared for 4-5 patients/families during that time. This shouldn’t be legal
When I post in support of LGBTQ youth, a bunch of uncreative adults inevitably criticize, “I wouldn’t let you see my dog.”
Can confirm I am not trained in the care of dogs & household pets. 🐶😺
But remain happy to provide affirming care to your kids. 🏳️⚧️🏳️🌈
Pulling rank as a pediatrician. You can debate me (using science) about kids wearing masks in school, but don’t call it ‘abuse’.
We folk who work with children & families know how tragic actual child abuse can be. It has a very real meaning, and this ain’t it.
My kids go to a school where they can safely talk about their parents — two gay dads. 👨👨👧👦
What about families like ours in Florida? You can’t erase me, my husband, or my kids, and I won’t stand by while lawmakers try. ✊🏻🌈
#DontSayGay
Gathering today to celebrate
#Pride
🌈 after our church was vandalized with homophonic slurs this week. A couple hundred folks here in solidarity.
Love wins. Always. ❤️
Breaking:
@US_FDA
is done with its ban on gay men like me donating blood. I used to routinely donate blood (and once organized a campus-wide blood drive in college) but haven't been able to for years because of this discriminatory policy. Thrilled for this change.🌈
“It’s just a cold, it isn’t serious in kids.” As a pediatrician & dad, I *promise* you you don’t want your child to be one of the 1000s hospitalized each day during this
#Omicron
wave. Get kids 5 & up vaccinated.
Kept it simple today after 3 days of pigtails. (Picking her hair clips and doing her hair each morning has literally become my favorite moment of the day.) 🎀❤️✨
Re: George Floyd + girlfriend’s opioid use. (1) Addiction is a disease, not a crime or a moral failing or anything else that deserves a fatal knee to the neck, and (2) Let’s say it louder—
#DerekChauvin
is on trial here, not
#GeorgeFloyd
Grant us serenity. Taking Amtrak from Boston to South Carolina (16 hr trip) with 2 toddlers. Here we go!
Step 1: Subway to train station.
#ThursdayMorning
Let me take on some of the arguments folks are making in favor of Florida's
#DontSayGay
bill.
Here's why child health & policy experts across the US are worried. 🧵 1/
Wow. Harvard Medical School just announced it is withdrawing from US News & World Report's annual rankings. (HMS is currently the # 1 ranked school.)
Agree with this: Rankings create perverse incentives to game the system & can worsen inequities.
This is the beaming face of a researcher who just got his first R01 grant funded by
@NIDAnews
&
@NIH
.
I’m beside myself with excitement, truly honored & will be a good steward of the funds to improve addiction treatment for youth across the country.
This 5.2 lb, 450-page stack of documents is my 2011 green card application. My husband & I applied for it on the basis of our same-sex marriage.
My green card was denied.
I want to share what codifying same-sex marriage means for families like ours. 🧵 1/
Exciting news to share! Thrilled to announce that in July I'll be the new Division Chief of Adolescent Medicine at
@mghfc
&
@harvardmed
. 👨⚕️🩺✨
Honored this last day of
#Pride2021
to help elevate
#LGBTQ
representation in medicine & academia. ❤️🌈
Today CDC released data that 1 in 4 LGBTQ youth attempted suicide in the first half of 2021.
When we discriminate against
#LGBTQ
ppl on topics like same-sex marriage, workplace discrimination, trans athletes, K-3 ed: queer teens are listening, internalizing, and suffering.
Don’t be a fully grown adult who’s upset I have pronouns in my bio.
I’m a busy guy. But not so busy I won’t find 10 min to dig up all the hateful stuff on your TL and get you removed from Twitter. 💅🏳️⚧️ 🏳️🌈
Happy National Coming Out Day! 🌈
To young LGBTQ+ folk out there: Coming out was one of the single hardest things I ever did… and yet all the good that followed made it beyond worthwhile…immeasurably so
Sending love to LGBTQ+ people everywhere today & all days ❤️
One of many happy moments in 2022…
In the year ahead, doubling down on using this platform — flawed as it may be — to spread messages of joy, love, justice & equality.
Happy New Year. ❤️
Putting my foot down as a pediatrician, expert on teen health, gay man, and a dad.
I won’t mince words.
Florida lawmakers: Teens will die if you pass the so-called “Don’t Say Gay” bill and the latest proposed amendment. 🧵 1/
Twenty years ago I was scared beyond belief to come out. Now I'm married and a dad.
I wish I could share all this with my younger self, but since I can't, I'll share this happy story with others who want to come out but might be afraid to take the leap.
#NationalComingOut
Fellow gay dads: Any of y'all have a young baby and affected by the formula shortage? Can't imagine how we would be feeding our kids right now if they were newborns... ❤️🌈
This was graffitied on our church overnight. Where my husband & I bring our 2 kids every week.
Why do we celebrate
#PrideMonth
? 🌈 Because we celebrate those who fought hard for the rights of LGBTQ+ ppl to live & love. And because in 2023 we still have to fight against hate. ✊🏻
When docs who support
#lgbtq
kids & families (like my colleagues at
@BostonChildrens
) are harassed online, we become at immediate threat of violence against us & our families. I’ve had death threats mailed to me.
This is not the America I believe in. Stand up against hate.
Sigh. Was just asked by a healthcare provider about my ‘wife’. I have no reason to be shy about correcting people that I have a husband, but even after being out for 15 years, it can still be tough.
World: Just stick to “partner” if you’re not sure.
Amid the sky high rates of Covid we pediatricians are seeing, here’s one thing we’re *not* generally seeing: Kids who are vaccinated getting seriously ill.
Today we
#WearOrange
for the 1000s of kids who die every year from guns — and the grieving families they leave behind.
We adults can fix this. Let’s stay resolved, be focused, & work together to implement the laws & solutions that we know work.
Pediatrician and gay dad here. When kids are born or when they get sick, parents should be by their side.
There’s nothing funny about this, nor about a dad being the one to do it.
An honest question for you,
@Mike_Pence
, after your attempted joke this weekend. If your grandchild was born prematurely and placed on a ventilator at two months old - their tiny fingers wrapped around yours as the monitors beep in the background - where would you be?
I'll probably add to this thread, but for now, need to step away to go take care of my kids like a loving parent who just happens to be married to another man who he loves. 10/10
Happy
#NationalComingOutDay
! Coming out was the hardest thing I ever did. But it was the first step on a path to being true to myself, finding love, and starting a family. To young LGBTQ+ folk: It really *does* get better! ❤️🌈🏳️⚧️
As a pediatrician & dad, I want to respond to 2 news stories out of Texas:
(1) Legislature voted yesterday to ban gender-affirming care for teens & (2) Adolescent medicine docs were pushed out of
@dellchildrens
in Austin for providing care.
#LGBTQ
🧵 1/
Breaking:
@CDCgov
has voted to recommend new omicron-specific vaccines. They’ll be available ASAP — as soon as next week in many places. Some key details 👇🏻 /1
Ask any pediatrician: We're in the middle of a child mental health crisis, with anxiety, depression, and trauma rates skyrocketing. We need more support on the front lines -- more therapists, psychologists, psychiatrists. And funding to support them.
Thrilled to share with y'all that I'm hiring 3 new full-time folks to join our research team here at Mass General Hospital / Harvard Med!🥳
Please share widely with your talented friends & colleagues! ✨ Job postings in the thread below.
"You don't live in Florida. Why care?"
TX and FL are serving as laboratories for harmful state policies that are spreading to other states, and threatening the health and well-being of kids & families nationwide. Plus, I'm a pediatrician & public health expert. It's my job. 9/
“Guns are now the leading cause of death in children and adolescents in the US. It doesn’t have to be this way.”
- Dr. Roy Guerrero, Uvalde pediatrician at
#AAP2022
Pfizer just reported its
#vaccine
doesn’t perform well in 2-5 year-olds.
This is what science looks like: we get mixed findings and try to communicate with transparency.
Lots of parents want protection for their kids. Stay tuned. ❤️
Our kids don’t have a mother, so today we celebrate all the wonderful women without whom our wonderful life together wouldn’t be possible. Happy Mother’s Day, and thank you. ❤️🌈
Honored to share this special moment with my son (in all its 8-foot portrait glory!). 🥰
So appreciative to
@CityOfBoston
for Portraits of Pride & highlighting the hard work of our city’s LGBTQ+ advocates. Let’s keep working for progress! ❤️🌈
Pediatrician here to let you know that among the many policies
@Sen_JoeManchin
just killed that American families desperately need was the Child Tax Credit, which would have lifted 4-million kids out of poverty nationwide.
Alarming new study out today in
@JAMA_current
: Teen deaths from fentanyl overdose TRIPLED from 2019 to 2021. 😲
What's causing this? My thoughts as a teen addiction specialist working on the front lines 🧵 1/