@zzzvzi
@berto_la2ca
You’re not black if you don’t have strong black identity. It doesn’t matter if you have a white mom or white dad, nobody who marries outside of their culture and into their enslavers has a strong black identity, that doesn’t automatically mean self hate but it preconcludes them
@AllAmericanYana
@berto_la2ca
Yeah, one is based upon low self esteem, fetishization and chasing. The other is based on actual human connection, both can have elements of self hate but black men due to the racial structure of America are sought after, bw with white men are never the prize so usually end up