I hope for a future with less misinformation, more respect, love, and understanding for euthanasia for mental suffering. ๐
Mentally ill = ill NOT healthy!
A ๐ค๐ป request:
My friend Martin-
@tintal1971
has taken it upon himself to continue sharing updates on my behalf.
If he has news, he will share it with a #.
Asking him questions in the meantime is unnecessarily burdensome for him.
And I would like to ask you to wait for updates.
Today i got something special in the mail, something i wanted to shareโฃ๏ธ
So I dusted off my account for a moment.
Beautiful painted stones from a sweet follower.
With cheerful colors, a black heart and a beautiful wish.
Thank you Bianca, for your warm words in the letter. ๐
@bariweiss
She twisted my words.
She made factual mistakes in the piece.
She made me believe the piece would higlight how strict the Dutch euthanasia law is! (compared to Canada's).
But i feel betrayed.
It is a piece of pulp!
I feel used, this piece is not what we agreed on AT ALL!
Theoโฆ
Yes, my psychiatrist has been honest that all treatments are done.
Conclusion: It is what it is!
Dutch mentality perhaps, honest, direct!
Several people went wild after that.
My psychiatrist should be fired or given euthanasia himself.
Are you having a good time!?
-> 1/5
Vrije link:
Kijktipโฃ๏ธ:
Ik zag mensen, naarmate de dood dichterbij kwam, stralen omdat ze nu geen suรฏcide hoefden te plegen.โโ
Het vierluik โEen goede doodโ is vanaf maandag 6 mei wekelijks om 22:10 uur te zien bij BNNVARA op NPO 2.
Ik ga er 3 kijken. ๐
Shame on the people who insulted me and my partner based on one incorrect right-wing magazine!
Belittled us, called us names and simply made disrespectful or violent statements!
Proud of yourself?
Do you call yourself a good Christian?
I thought only God was allowed to judge?
Mentally ill = ill! NOT healthy!
And can cause the same pain and unbearable suffering as a physical illness!
It is time society learns to accept that.
This is a way better story then mines.
Facts!.
No political agenda behind it:
See the difference in the comments?
Understanding.
Love.
Support.
I would love to see the same for people who get euthanasia for their mental suffering.
Instead of all the judgy comments that people are lazy and going to hell..
Empathy people...
Try it... It is free. ๐
Tomorrow my dad (a Belgian National) is having Euthanasia. A very courageous decision. He has decided he wonโt see out his days with endstage Parkinsonโs disease. We are heartbroken but understand why and respect his decision. Going to be off social media for a while ๐
Shame on Rupa the "journalist" from The Free press who got facts wrong, like i DON'T have borderline!
She left out my whole 10 years of treatments, medicine, therapy, ECT.
For her OWN politics!
And shame on all the "media" outlets who copy this piece of shit with no factcheck.
There are 5? countries with a euthanasia law, so i get that many of you are not (yet) ready for it.
But:
It is MY voluntary choice.
NOTHING can relieve my pain.
NO ONE had influence on my choice.
Keeping yourself stupid is a choice.
Going along with populism is a choice.
๐ป
For the last time:
I see bloggers/vloggers and "papers" who want to make a profit or debate over my back.
Classy... ๐ฎ
But at least have the facts right! ๐
I have had various types of therapy and meds for 10+ years and electroconvulsive therapy 30+ times.
-> 1/5
I take full responsibility for my mistake of confiding in the wrong "journalist".
I should have checked her and The Free Press out better.
I was not allowed to read the piece before posting, otherwise I would NEVER have given permission!
But speaking afterwards is always easier!
@PostvanFenna
Mocht het moment daar zijn zou een goede vriend van mij
@tintal1971
er een bericht uitgooien...
Met de
#zoraya
of
#zorayaterbeek
Want zelf haal ik mijn account strakkies weer offline voordat alle gekkies weer doorhebben dat ik online ben. ๐๐
Dank voor alles Fenna. ๐น
To the people who want to contact me because they have a godcomplex:
No, you do NOT have the magic cure.
No, your faith is NOT my faith.
I show respect for you, can you show respect for the fact that I don't believe?
You don't know ANYTHING about me based on a pulp article. ->
Last week two Dutch ladies showed up at our FREAKING house!!! ๐คฌ
They had read/seen about me and wanted to pray with me!
They asked if i already "tried" Jesus.
Cause he can cure all... ๐๐ฎโ๐จ
My partner unsuspectingly opened the door!
He remained polite... Maybe too...
-> 1/2
@TheFP
@rupasubramanya
She twisted my words.
She made factual mistakes in the piece.
She made me believe the piece would higlight how strict the Dutch euthanasia law is! (compared to Canada's).
But i feel betrayed.
It is a piece of pulp!
I feel used, this piece is not what we agreed on AT ALL!
Theoโฆ
But keep your opinion respectful.
It doesn't have to be your choice.
But respect that it may be someone else's choice!
It may clash with your faith and/or culture!
But that does not immediately make something malicious, simply because you don't understand it or agree with it.
Quite coincidentally, she completely left out the part in which I mentioned all the treatments I received, gosh..
And got the basics like my diagnoses wrong, i DON'T have borderline.
Again:
Shame on other media who copy pasted the story without a factcheck.
Lazy lazy!
-> 4/5
@prayercoachgina
What is it with your kind of people?
Always wanting to convert everyone.
Respect that there are people who believe in other gods.
And respect that there are people who don't believe in any god!
I don't want to "convince" you, do i?
It is called RESPECT, try it.
So stop it!
Would you also react the same way if my oncologist had said there were no more options?
No more chemo, no radiation only palliative care.
No?
Then what's the big deal?
We think as a society that being mentally ill is always manageable, it is not.
-> 2/5
To all media outlets:
Leave NVVE, KEA the EE and other parties I have ever worked with alone!
I will NEVER speak to any (foreign) media again, after the fiasco with The Free Press!
You owe that to your "colleague" Rupa!
Turns out:
Screwing your sources is bad for business. ๐๐ป
Have an opinion but stay respectful!
Accept that your story is not someone else's.
Leave me and my loved ones aloneโ๏ธ
No "advice" No "God"
I have a greenlight! ๐
I may go and I will go, through euthanasia.
Humane.๐ซ
Our law is rightly strict:
-> 4/5
He said that I am not religious and never will be.
They asked if they could leave a gift.
Full of doubt he said yes.
Let me be clear:
That crossed ALL boundaries!
We were so flabbergasted that we forgot how they knew our address because I'm not even on the nameplate anymore.
@tintal1971
And, in particular:
Don't be a jackass to Martin!
Because from now on he will post updates on my behalf.
Because i'm not going to waste my last 2/3 weeks "debating" with strangers on social media anymore. ๐๐ป
So you just have to accept it!
No respect = A Block! ๐ซ
Too bad! ๐
Our world has two hundred countries.
Of these, there are only five where euthanasia is legally permitted:
Belgium, the Netherlands, Luxembourg, Canada and Colombia.
In the latter two countries the conditions are very strict, only terminally ill persons are eligible.
-> 1/4
There is so much doctors can do for mental illness.
If that doesn't work, it's NOBODY'S fault!
If the chemo doesn't work, should the oncologist be fired too?
The quote I gave was TOTALLY taken out of context by the "journalist" Rupa, like so much in the pulp piece.
->3/5
It is an insult to assume that because someone is mentally ill, they can no longer think clearly.
That is certainly not always the case!
But it is nice and easy to disquilify a large group of people like that! ๐๐ป
-> 1/2
@Gert_van_Dijk
Ja en Nee.
Ik had meer uit mijn leven willen halen.
Maar ben wel een goed persoon en hecht daar veel waarde aan.
Gezien alles wat op mijn pad is gekomen had ik ook een vreselijke bitch kunnen worden, ik koos anders.
@JustMe12758217
Zoek de criteria van de wet nog eens op.
Euthanasie krijgt iemand niet als er nog opties zijn om het leed ze verzachten of geheel te genezen.
Leeftijd is niet relevant.
Precies wat u zegt, u kent mij niet.
Oordeel dan wellicht niet?
Ideetje maar hoor. ๐
@53v3n0fn1n3
It has been normal for over 20 years.
But in 2022 only 115 people got approved.
In 2023 that was 138 people..
Based on mental illnes.
Most cases are about people over 60 and are cancer related.
See my profile for more facts, if you really want to learn.
You don't know me.
You have read/seen something and judge on that.
My story is an example of many, my name is one of many.
Aurelia, Sandra, Eelco, David, Me.
Just because something clashes with your way of thinking, culture or faith does not make it wrong or bad!
-> 3/5
And NO ONE is to blame for my request!
There is NO organ trafficking! ๐คจ
The government is NOT behind it. ๐
It's not euganetics! ๐ซ
It is MY own voluntary informed choice!
Four doctors have determined that I am mentally competent!
So don't be creepy and leave me/us alone!
@vrijezangvogel
Yes, will deactivate my account again tomorrow.
But felt like i had to say something.
"Defend" myself and my loved ones.
My partner is free from work.
My chosen date will not be possible no more sadly, but we still count on may.
Don't let yourself be incited by populist newspapers or TV, please.
Stay with the facts!
Euthanasia for psychological suffering is rare!
In 2022 this happened 115 times.
In 2023 this happened 138 times.
While there are approximately 700/800 applications every year.
-> 1/2
@mevrouwadvocaat
Blindelings achter een poppeke aanlopen en vergeten respect te hebben voor de "aardse" grenzen.
Achteraf kwam de woede pas!
Vanaf nu open ik zelf de deur, just in case.
Being mentally competent is one of the six legal requirements within the euthanasia law.
Want to know more about those requirements?
Read this page:
Euthanasia is not given easily!
@Lemelson
Stop talking shit about my amazing docters you fake Christian.
Something about you shall not judge, cause only "God" can do that?
Well.. Then stop judging about stuff you clearly know jackshit about. ๐ฉ
Here some real info:
It is MY choice! My Own!
@mocrogirlfriend
Het is egoรฏstisch om iemand te laten leven die niet meer wil, pijn heeft, lijdt.
Puur omdat jij als naasten die persoon niet kan/wil missen.
Jij wil dus dat iemand in pijn en ellende doorblijft gaan, voor jou.
Dat vind ik egoรฏstisch...
U may feel it should only be for the terminally ill.
U may feel that it should only be for physically ill people.
U may feel that it should only be for people of a certain age.
You may feel that people who are mentally ill and suffer should be excluded from such a law.
-> 3/4
@tintal1971
Zouden deze lui zichzelf ook gaan kastijden als ik straks dood ben en hun dus "gefaald" hebben in hun heilige missie??
Snap sowieso niet dat ze denken "Gods" werk te moeten doen, die was toch almachtig ofzo?
Twijfelen ze nu niet zelf aan hun God?
Zoveel vragen.. ๐ค
@bariweiss
I would like my piece taken out of it..
It is that i am not an American!.
Otherwise i would sue..
Lies.
Twisting words.
False promises.
Feels like character murder to be frank.
Shame on the "Journalist" Rupa.
And shame on you for posting this piece.
If i was allowed to readโฆ
@liaochunwei3333
Ahw thanks for higlighting these!
I know that a lot of countries are simply not ready for euthanasia.
They are scared or conservative/believers.
Their fear is cause there is so much bad information out there.
The Dutch had this law for over 20 years, no big screw ups yet! ๐
Most requests come from people in their 60s and are cancer related. (see the charts in Dutch. ๐๐ปโ๐ป)
Source:
In all the 20+ years of euthanasialaw, only a handful of cases have come to court without severe punishments.
@kimskinskipster
Wij hebben eerder te veel empathie...
Altijd bezig met wat de ander denkt en voelt, hoe daarop juist te reageren etc...
Altijd het goed willen doen.
En daardoor vaak over onze eigen grens heengaan...
De pijn van anderen raakt mij 10x meer dan mijn eigen ellende..
Switzerland has arranged things completely different with special clinics where people take the drug themselves, because assisted suicide is NOT illegal there.
Fortunately more countries have the debate for a euthanasia law.
England, France, New Zealand and Australia!
-> 2/4
@soldierxdream
@YouTube
Hope youtube will remove all this crappy video's of people talking bullshit about me and my case, trying to score some likes over my back.
Fake information.
Misinformation.
Something like that.
Sadly in don't have a youtube account no more so can't report those kind of video's.
Yes, my psychiatrist has been honest that all treatments are done.
Conclusion: It is what it is!
Dutch mentality perhaps, honest, direct!
Several people went wild after that.
My psychiatrist should be fired or given euthanasia himself.
Are you having a good time!?
-> 1/5
@oosterhoff2
Bedankt voor wederom een zeer rake bijdrage! ๐ฏ
Talk with us!
Not about us!
Leestipโฃ๏ธ
Voor mensen die euthanasie bij psychisch lijden (beter) willen begrijpen.
Het is zo eenzaam en onbegrepen.
En mensen staan ALTIJD met hun (voor)oordeel klaar.
No more, please!
@Bianca251270
Zou het screenshotten als je het wil bewaren. ๐คญ
Want ik trek mijn account straks wel weer offline voordat de gekkies doorhebben dat ik nog leef. ๐คช
@tintal1971
@iksimij
Als jullie maar op jezelf passen.
Dat is prio nummer 1 voor mijโ๏ธ ๐
Laat ze niet te veel onder je huid kruipen. ๐งธ
Want sommigen kunnen er wat van!
Verder, leef je uit. ๐
@wornem4481098
I obey MY rules.
I am to logical to be able to believe in any higher system.
But i have been a kind person who did not harm others on purpose.
Helped people where i could.
If "God" does not want me simply cause i can't believe, wich would be weid cause "he" made me like this.
@tintal1971
@mevrouwadvocaat
Klopt.
Die kan Martin screenshotten en verzamelen, en als mijn partner daar behoefte aan heeft kan hij Martin hierom vragen. ๐
Deze controlfreak heeft over alles nagedacht, Autistisch trekje. ๐๐คช
@Ratqueenzz
I was born Autistic.
No diet, supplement or mineral can fix that.
So stop with this bullshit "advice".
If you have ZERO information about a casus, you know what the best thing is?
Take a guess?
To shut up about it, cause you don't know jack shit.
@K1M_
@bariweiss
No!
In America nobody can see the piece or pictures before posting.
Otherwise i:
1. Would have corrected a few lies.
2. Never would have approved this piece of shit to be posted with all my input.
@thetimes
Thank you for this great piece full of facts!
If people are unwilling to understand that mental illnes can be just as bad as a physical illnes.
And sometimes there just is just no cure or relief.
That is their small minded loss...
Jolanda... ๐ซ
You be free nowโฃ๏ธ
@GerakanPis
Stop trying to use my story, my life for your "debate". ๐ฎ
You can debate on the topic in general without abusing a personal story.
And get your facts right before you start it!
@tintal1971
Zeker eens, dat weet je!
Ik heb ook veel mooie gesprekken gehouden, maar het zegt het al gesprekken.
Ik heb NOOIT mijn verhaal openbaar gemaakt zodat mensen met mij in discussie konden of ik wel het juiste deed en dat zij het beter wisten.
Gesprek VS Discussie = Het verschil
@phoib
Made a rough guess.
Thanks for the Wiki-link!
Unfortunately, not all laws are equal.
Some exclude people with mental suffering like myself.
But that is a shortcoming of the human mind i gues.
Mental health is subordinate to the physical.
I got my 3 green lights, thanks. ๐๐ซ
@TammRock
@moedervanzus
Tjah...
Kan het geld niet meenemen. ๐
En zo komt het 100% goed terecht.
En wie weet verdien ik zo nog wat punten om toch niet naar de hell te hoeven gaan. ๐๐คญ๐ฅ
Jij en de actie zijn topโฃ๏ธ
Het was mij een eer om hier iets aan bij te kunnen dragen. ๐
@soldierxdream
@YouTube
Stop trying to score and get likes over my back!
How many times i have to tell you sick folks that i don't believe in any God nor ever will!
Simply cause you can't understand something cause you are simple minded does not make it bad or evil.
Dipshit. ๐ฉ
@itsnotsad
Wat is het toch met lui zoals jij?.
Altijd zo MEGA toondoof!
En respectloos.
Als je voor mijn deur zou staan met deze onzin kreeg je die in je snufferd!
Is het nou ECHT zo freaking moeilijk om anderen een ander geloof te gunnen?
Aka:
@DebbieSchigt
Oh, doe ik niet hoor!
Ik val straks rustig in slaap mijn dood tegemoet. ๐ค
Heb mijn best gedaan als mens.
Ben een goed mens geweest, geholpen waar ik kon, nooit iemand bewust pijn gedaan...
Mijn geweten is schoon!
Dus wat er dan ook is, ik ga dat met een gerust hart tegemoet.