Women in general should actually be less polite to autistic men, bc misogyny has be entirely adopted into autism culture so they both pose a equal if not greater threat to women, & don’t deserve to be further coddled. Women’s safety should always take priority over male feelings
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It’s actually good to ostracize men who sexually harass women no matter what medical conditions they have!
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“Would you say this same if he truly couldn’t help it?” Yes get their Chris Benoit ass away from others!
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And the more we excuse the behavior I’m referring to, the more autistic men will behave like this, further stigmatizing all autists, bc they are being taught sexual misconduct is excusable if you’re neurodivergent. Meanwhile women are not getting to use the same excuse
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Guy at my school groped multiple freshman girls (he was 18) and got away with it because he was autistic and “doesn’t understand boundaries 🥺🥺”
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@bigfloata
Women should be intolerant of men making us uncomfortable, when tolerance makes us even more vulnerable to our oppressors
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Almost a good take, women should be less polite to autistic men so that they don’t misunderstand her intentions, for both of your sakes. Autistic guys can’t take polite hints. If you’re nice to him, eventually you’re going to have to reject him brutally. Rip the band-aid off.
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@Hiemswolf
This is about prioritizing ourselves not how autistic men feel about not having romantic access to us. It’s not our responsibility not to be creeped out, it’s their responsibility not to be creepy. It’s also not our responsibility to do any emotional labor for them bc autism
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Which is why I just simply ignore women now. IDGAF what is it ... she can handle it herself.
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As an autistic woman… people don’t give a shit about OUR feelings or OUR comfort. If a girl is socially awkward even the teachers in school will poke fun at her. When boys viciously bullied and groped me I was told to take it as a compliment.
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Where did this meme of “it’s unsafe for women to be polite” even come from? Haven’t found a good explanation, what am I missing?
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right.. having a mental disability doesnt exempt men from their predatory behavior & i’m sick of people pretending like it does or that they are less of a threat. all men including autistic men are raised in this misogynistic society & it isn’t ableist to hold them accountable
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@graceisgroovey
In my day we weren’t shamed with pseudo progressive rhetoric that’s actually thinly veiled misogyny, out of whispering networking such boys into ostracism
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This is simultaneously ableist and sexist, which is impressive in and of itself. Most people can only manage to express one form of hate at a time.
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I got harassed by an autistic guy in my junior year and the teacher excused it because "it's because he likes you! he just doesn't know boundaries ☺️"... Like maybe you could teach him those boundaries?? The guy literally found out my school email to send me weird stuff.
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@PhoonDoesGames
Every single woman who replies has this same story but bc it doesn’t happen to men, nearly every man is calling me an ableist wench. But as long as the women confirm that what I’m saying is entirely true, I don’t care about their opinion! So sorry your teachers are failing you
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