@cnehshuga
So many unemployed women raise these kids alone but men have an option to be exempt from supporting their children until they have “found their feet”
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Being a man is so nice hey. Just disappear & come back when you feel like it 👍🏾
Women don’t have the option to be absent, they have to figure things out no matter how bad things get.
Maybe he has found his feet financially. Some of us have supported ngama R500 at first when things were bad, as the pockets grew so did the contributions. Hope its a start and he'll be consistent and most importantly present in the child's life. Thanks for actually calling him…
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@londypearl
@cnehshuga
As consenting adults sans commitment, that is the risk. Baby-mamas don't like the odds, play it safe. It is not 18voertsek - there are options.
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@londypearl
@cnehshuga
The other side of the coin is that being a woman is so nice you can decide to say the child is yours alone and even refuse access by the father. When you want the man to support you can switch and say "our child". You can even change the fathers when you feel like.
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