Serious question. People get married right? And i am pretty sure some days are rough and some things are annoying about the other half.
How do you deal with that? Tak rasa nak blah ke tapi macam tak boleh sebab dah kahwin & its a big thing...
@hnnathegoddess
Bila rasa annoying, bgtahu elok2 apa yg buat kita/dia tak suka. And masing2 kena ada space sendiri so ada masa yg kita boleh menyendiri. doing our own thing. We both jenis cepat penat dgn orangπ so kena ada masa sendiri2
@amare_XIII
Fahammm. I cam entahla i tak suka bila macam you nampak something is wrong tapi you diam je macam sial. Dah bertahun takkan lah taktahu kenapa kan or dah tahu tapi buat bodoh. Tak ke macam indecisive and plain stupid... memang semua benda kena bagutahu ke bb ππ
@hnnathegoddess
The feeling is legit. If love is truly bigger than the problems, just have discussion with the partner. Not someone else. The timing is selepas duaΒ² tenang. Kalau rasa nak marah balik buat ja silly jokes sampai dia burst out laughing. Terkadang sampai lupa, "kita gaduh eh tadi?"
@hnnathegoddess
Slow talk cakap tak puas hati apa benda, pastu berbaik. Sebab nak cakap bab annoying or gaduh ni, even dengan mak bapak pon kita still boleh gaduh apatah lagi dgn husbandπ€£
@hnnathegoddess
Ada je rasa nak chow tapi benda boleh setel. Rasa marah tu masa tu je tapi rasa sayang tu forever. Awal2 kawin lagi stress kot nak dapatkan tune yg sama. Tapi dah few years, rilek je. Sebab masing2 tau and nak rumahtangga yg harmoni π
@hnnathegoddess
Dh khwin jgn ade fikiran nk pisah tk bleh dh,sbb dh khwin. Big no! Cuma sbb rasa anoying n ade hari yg tk best dengan dia.nnti lama2 tawar hati. Klau boleh terfikir benda tu bila dh tk boleh nk bawak bincang,xd jln penyelesaian. Like kalau boleh elakkn.
@hnnathegoddess
Married twice. 1st was 4yrs. 2nd is 13yrs n counting. Put a guideline what's acceptable behavior n what's not. Communicate. If fail, what's the alternative? Bab hati ni ssh ckp. Love hate bersilih ganti. Tepuk dada tny hati. Wud u be able to live without?
@hnnathegoddess
1st year punye friction mmg real nasty rough mcm tu. Byk pendek akal & fikir if this doesn't work out, nk blah la. Nasib baik talak tu hak suami. Kalau kt pompuan, mmg tiap2 bln minta cerai lol. How to deal? Salah sorg kena jadi water. My husband byk mengalah & pujuk blk.
@hnnathegoddess
@syaeezaaa
As for me, obviously as a women I can't lie that I'm repeatedly thinking about separation if there is some bad shits happen between us, that's the irrational of me.But as a man(husband), separation is not the solution or he never thinks about it because the love stay the same.