yβall keep regurgitating these same lazy responses and itβs almost as lazy as yβallβs parenting. you do not have to beat your child senseless in order to instill respect while also giving them space to express their feelings. two things can be true, do the work.
@dominiquemeshal
I donβt think thereβs anything wrong with what she said. She expressed how she felt without being disrespectful.. weβve been conditioned that expressing yourself to your parents is a form of disrespect and thatβs why so many of us are traumatized
@Britthername
i just want yβall to put that traumatizing word down for 5 seconds. yes itβs disappointing, but shit happens and itβs life and kids need to know that everything donβt go your way, that doesnβt mean you can talk to people any kind of way. tough noodles.
@dominiquemeshal
Is it just me or is there really nothing wrong with this video at all?
I have a philosophy about stuff like this.
"Would anyone be mad if it was an adult doing this instead of a kid?"
And the answer here is no
9/10 the problem is you don't respect children as human beings
@Hoodie_Milly
i have absolutely cut off friends and lovers for no speaking to me in a respectful tone. there is assertive communication then thereβs aggressive communication. yβall were not taught this and it shows.
@Britthername
i just want yβall to put that traumatizing word down for 5 seconds. yes itβs disappointing, but shit happens and itβs life and kids need to know that everything donβt go your way, that doesnβt mean you can talk to people any kind of way. tough noodles.
@dominiquemeshal
Nah the teaches these days just mad because now kids are comfortable being honest about how they feel and actually getting to voice their thoughts and feelings w/o being told to shut up etc etc
@yannipostedthat
if thatβs what you think is happening then you are living in a social media ran bubble with 0 awareness of the outside world. but okay.
@dominiquemeshal
The comments are sickening. I had a summer job at a day care before college in 2004β¦I knew immediately teaching wasnβt for me. I know the kids are awful.
@dominiquemeshal
I believe the kid was wrong & the behavior should be corrected. This shouldn't include punishment or having her repair the parent's ego though (which black parents default to). It's about finding teachable moments that show how healthy communication achieves better outcomes.
@dominiquemeshal
Idk how they put up with it i will never ever understand parents who let their kids be so disrespectful to them and not listen to no π
@dominiquemeshal
Thereβs a difference between being upset that a parent is late and just not wanting to do class work or being able to read at a certain grade level
@dominiquemeshal
I want my children to be able to express themselves, even to me when I disappoint them. Tone policing someone who is still learning how to communicate will do them a disservice in the long run. THIS is not bad behavior. Honestly seemed pretty tame.
@dominiquemeshal
Let me gone ahead and block you. Cuz being late picking up your child and not caring about how it makes them feel because youβre
The adult and they ate the child doesnβt sit right with me.