@cherry_shinobi OMG WHY DO PEOPLE THINK LIKE THIS??? having a child just to have someone be responsible for curing your loneliness and throw the burden of caring for you when you’re old is such a backwards reason. everyone spends their time differently. shaming others is so ick- it’s 2023 🤢

@KissySensei THIS

@cherry_shinobi WHY DO PEOPLE CARE WHAT OTHERS CHOOSE TO DO OR NOT DO WITH THIER BODIES. this topic is so ugly constantly. people should have kids because they want to, too many kids already going unloved and neglected cause parents didnt want them/arent ready for them

@_linainverse PREACH IT 🤌🏻

@cherry_shinobi Tell em!

@cherry_shinobi GET THEM CHERRY! Also cats are better than children I said what I said 🤣

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@cherry_shinobi they sound like they're projecting to me LOL.

@cherry_shinobi And bringing a child into the world to avoid loneliness is a terrible reason

@cherry_shinobi I think they underestimate us being likeable enough to maintain friendships instead of basing our entire life around being an assembly line for gremlins

@cherry_shinobi "Bro please just have kids you havent even tried it before youll be lonely when youre 40 please just have kids youll change your mind when youre older I had kids and im only moderately lonely please just give it a tr-"

@cherry_shinobi Me: I don’t really want kids. I kinda wanna take care of mys- Coworkers: DONT SAY THAT!!! You’ll never know!! It’s a blessing!! You’re gonna change your mind watch! Just wait! Me:

@cherry_shinobi If the only reason to have kids you have is to not be lonely…. That seems incredibly selfish to me, and not like something that would motivate you to be a particularly good parent.

@cherry_shinobi Imagine having children just because you feel lonely smh. That’s not a solution? Lmao

@cherry_shinobi As I've aged into my 40s I am more and more happy with the decision not to have kids.

@cherry_shinobi Imagine feeling lonely and instead of reaching out to your homies/ partner or cuddling your pet you think "damn, I wish I had a screaming crying piss and shit gremlin pushed from my crotch to keep me company"